Atakumana ndi mnyamata wa maloto ake , mtsikana aliyense amafuna kuti atengepo kanthu ndikuyamba kumpsompsona. Komabe, m'nthawi yathu ino, nthawi zambiri anyamatawa amasonkhana amanyazi, komanso oimira gawo labwino la umunthu, tiyenera kuchita zonse zomwe ife eni. Ndipo palibe chochititsa manyazi mu izi, bwanji kuima, ngati mukutsimikiza kuti uyu ndiye munthu woyenera kumpsompsona?
Kupsompsona koyamba ndi chokondweretsa ndi chokondweretsa, choncho muyenera kukonzekera bwino. Tapanga malangizo omwe mungaphunzire kupsompsona mnyamata poyamba.
Momwe mungamupsompsone mwamuna nthawi yoyamba?
Kuyamba kumpsompsona bwino patapita maulendo angapo. Musamafulumire kukamira m'manja mwa munthu amene simukumudziwa konse. Choyamba muyenera kukhala pafupi kwambiri, kupeza zofanana ndi zokambirana zokambirana , ndiyeno mukamakhala okonzeka, mungayesere kumpsompsona munthuyo pamilomo, ndipo tidzakuuzani momwe mungachitire izi:
- Onetsetsani kuti mpweya uli watsopano. Musanapsompsone, onetsetsani kuti mukutsitsimutsanso, mukhoza kutafuna chewing ching kapena kugwiritsa ntchito mapiritsi ambewu. Kodi mukufuna kuti wosankhidwa wanu akupsompseni ndichisangalalo?
- Nthawi zonse muziwoneka bwino kwambiri! Ngati mukuwoneka bwino, mumakhala otsimikiza komanso omasuka. Musaiwale kuti muzikhala ndi zinthu zokongola, zodzoladzola ndi mafuta onunkhira.
- Kukhudza thupi ndikofunikira kwambiri. Musanayambe kumpsompsona, muyenera kuthana ndi choletsedwa. Gwirani wokondedwa wanu, tengani dzanja lake, ikani manja anu pa mapewa anu, ndi zina zotero.
- Ndipo nkofunikanso kusankha nthawi yoyenera. Musanapsompsone mnyamata, onetsetsani kuti sakuchita mantha. Pangani malo osakakamizidwa, tonthola. Musayese kumusonyeza momwe mulili wokondwa kwa nthawi yoyamba. Kwa nthawi yoyamba, zakhutira kukhudza milomo yanu mopepuka.
Kuti mudziwe momwe mungakondwerere, mupsompsone mnyamata, monga momwe zimatiwonetsera ife m'mafilimu, mumayenera kuphunzitsa ndikuyesompsona mitundu zosiyanasiyana. Kuchita ndikofunika pano, palibe amene angakuphunzitseni bwinoko kuposa inu.