Monga mukudziwira, amayi onse amakhala ndi nkhawa kwambiri chifukwa cha okondedwa awo, zimakhala zovuta kupirira zovulala zopweteka, mosiyana ndi amuna. Udindo waukulu wa udindo kwa ana, maudindo, kuphika chakudya tsiku ndi tsiku, nthawi zina, kukakamizidwa ndi apongozi awo, kuthandizana kuti mukhale mgwirizano m'banja - zonsezi zimakhudza kwambiri umoyo ndi maganizo a amayi.
Kuwonjezera apo, osati nthawi zambiri, hafu yokongola yaumunthu imachitiridwa nkhanza, amuna osakhulupirika, kupsinjika maganizo, komwe kumawononga kwambiri thanzi la amai, kupanga zovuta, kudzipatula komanso kusakhulupirira. Kodi mtendere wa m'maganizo ndi chiyanjano cha abambo ofooka ndi otani, tidzakambirana m'nkhani yathu.
Umoyo wamaganizo ndi maganizo a mkazi
Mwamwayi, tsogolo la kugonana kofooka m'dzikoli silikutheka kuti lisinthidwe, chifukwa chilengedwe chomwecho chimachititsa amayi kuti azikhala okhumudwa, osatetezeka komanso okhumudwa.
Kawirikawiri, chiwawa ndi nkhanza kuchokera kwa mwamuna zimachokera pamalingaliro a mkazi ndipo zimakhudza kapangidwe ka umunthu wake, khalidwe, kulingalira kwa dziko lapansi, thanzi la maganizo ndi maganizo ambiri. Zotsatira zake, matenda opatsirana pogonana, mantha, kusayenerera, kuzunza , kuledzera, ndi zina zotero.
Pofuna kuti kukhale kosavuta kuzindikira mayi wathanzi ali ndi zizindikiro 7, izi ndi izi:
- maonekedwe abwino ndi maluwa, khungu lokonzedwa bwino ndi loyera, popeza pali chikhumbo chowoneka wokongola;
- kusowa chizolowezi chomwa mowa ndi kusuta;
- mkazi wathanzi, amadzimva kuti ali ndi chidaliro polankhulana ndi anyamata komanso amamuyankha mokwanira kuti amuthandize;
- chilakolako cha kudzikuza, kugwira ntchito ndi bizinesi yokonda, zomwe zimabweretsa chisangalalo;
- kulankhula kolondola, popanda kugwiritsa ntchito chinenero choipa;
- chisangalalo chabwino, kuthekera kumvetsetsa nthabwala;
- Mzimayi wathanzi, nthawi zambiri safuna kudya maswiti, izi zimasonyeza kuti maselo a mitsempha amatenga zakudya zokwanira, zomwe zimayambitsa kukwiya, ndipo mikangano iliyonse yothetsedwa mwamtendere.
Ngati chithunzichi chili chosiyana kwambiri, pakadali pano, mkazi amafunika kukhala ndi thanzi labwino. Pachifukwa ichi, akatswiri amalimbikitsa kuyendera katswiri wa zamaganizo, kusokoneza ntchito yamba, kukhala ndi mpumulo wabwino, kuyamba kusewera masewera ndi kutsogolera moyo wathanzi.