Nchifukwa chiyani vuto la mavuto ali ndi zaka 6-7?
Mwinamwake, kusintha kwa khalidwe la mwana wa dzulo kumachitika pang'onopang'ono ndipo makolo sadziwa mmene zasinthira. Kapena izi metamorphoses zimayamba kuchokera kulikonse, tsiku lina. Mwana wokondeka, wonyengerera amayamba kutsanzira makolo, kusonkhanitsa nkhope, kuwakhumudwitsa alongo aang'ono kapena abale. Amayesetsa kuchita zinthu mwankhanza kwambiri, misozi, kulira ndi zibambo.
Zaka Zisanu ndi ziwiri zimadziwa mwadzidzidzi kuti iwo ali anthu odzaza monga enawo, ndipo amafuna kuti ora likhale ndi ufulu umenewu, koma iwo okha sadziwa zomwe akunena. Ndi nthawi ino imene ana akukonzekera kupita ku sukulu kapena ayamba kalasi yoyamba. Psychese yawo yochita masewero olimbitsa thupi imasinthidwa kwambiri kuti iphunzire, zomwe sizingatheke koma zimakhudza khalidwe la mwanayo.
Monga mavuto ena onse - izi zikuwonetseratu kudumpha m'maganizo, omwe sangathe kudutsa mwakachetechete. Zimakhalapo pamene mwanayo akukula m'magulu ena, miyendo imatambasula, koma thupi liri lovuta kwambiri pakali pano, ndipo limayambanso ndi ululu wa usiku m'milingo, yomwe makolo amachitenga molakwika ngati rheumatic.
Panthawiyi mwanayo amayamba kuzindikira kumene kuli choonadi, ndipo pamene bodza, ali ndi mantha ena , koma nthawi yomweyo amamasulidwa kuzinthu zazing'ono. Izi zikhoza kudziwonetsera nokha pakufunkhidwa kwa masewera omwe mumawakonda, kukana kukupsompsona, monga poyamba, amayi anga asanagone, amayamba kuganiza mwa munthu wamkulu ndikuyankhula mawu amachokera ku liwu losasulira lachidule, lomwe nthawi zambiri limatanthauza kuti iye samvetsa.
Mmene mungakhalire ndi makolo muvuto la zaka zisanu ndi ziwiri?
Koma chochita kwa makolo, pamene mavuto a zaka 6-7 atulukira mwadzidzidzi, momwe angachitire, kuthandiza mwanayo kuti azisintha ndi "I" watsopano - tiyeni tiwone.
Tsopano mwana aliyense wachitatu ali ndi nthawi zabodza, pamene amanyenga akulu pa zifukwa zilizonse, samakwaniritsa zopempha zoyenera, ngakhale kuti anachita izi mosadziwika kale.
Izi sizikutanthauza kuti mwadzidzidzi zakhala zoipa, ndipo zimangonena kuti mapangidwe a umunthu akuchitika, mwanayo amakafufuza zomwe anthu angathe kuchita posiyana. Kalanga, makamaka pogwiritsa ntchito mphamvu, chifukwa izi sizingatheke - mukhoza kutaya mwana wanu.
Sitiyenera kunyozedwa ndi kusekedwa - izi zidzangowonjezera mkhalidwewo. Pofuna kuthandizira, nkofunikira, monga momwe tingathere, kumanga ulamuliro wa tsikulo, kubwezeretsa pang'onopang'ono pansi pa ndondomeko ya ophunzira. Izi ndizofunikira kuti thupi ndi lingaliro likhale logwirizana.
Mwana wamwamuna kapena wamkazi ayenera kukhala ndi malamulo omveka bwino, omwe amamvetsa bwino, koma makolo amaletsedwa kukhala osagwirizana. Sikofunika kugwiritsa ntchito zolekanitsa zambiri - padzakhala zowonjezera zomwe zingapeze moyo ndi thanzi, ndipo siziletsa zokondweretsa zonse za moyo.
Zonse zomwe zingatheke zimayenera kutamanda mwanayo, ngakhale chifukwa cha zochitika zazing'ono, koma kunyoza ndi kutemberera mosamala, kuyesera kusonyeza kutayira, ndi kusasokoneza. Ngati pa nkhope ya makolo mwanayo amawona mgwirizano, ndiye kuti vuto lidutsa mofulumira komanso popanda mantha.