Zikuwoneka kuti ife tokha sitinali achinyamata kale ndipo maganizo oyambirira anali ndi malingaliro odabwitsa. Ndipo tsopano tikuyang'ana ana athu ndipo sitingathe kulingalira zomwe zikuchitika kwa iwo ndikudzifunsa momwe tingakhalire, kuti tisawachitire zoipa, koma kuti tisawateteze ku zochita zolakwika.
Chikondi choyamba kwa achinyamata
Zimakhala zovuta kulingalira chinachake choyera komanso chodzipereka koposa chikondi pakati pa achinyamata awiri, omwe poyamba sanamvepo. Amapeza dziko latsopano, ndipo zikuwoneka kuti palibe chomwe chingakhale chabwino. Amatha kusiya maphunziro awo ndikuyesetsa kuthetsa kulamulira kwa makolo awo, chifukwa amadzimva kuti ndi akuluakulu komanso amadzikonda komanso amaiwala chilichonse.
Kawirikawiri chikondi choyambirira chimagwirizana ndi nthawi ya kutha msinkhu ndipo kumakhala pakati pa kusintha kwakukulu kwa thupi ndi kudzidzidzimutsa kwa mwanayo, kutuluka kwa mahomoni nthawi zonse ndi kusinthasintha maganizo. Amapeza zovuta zotsutsana kwambiri ndipo amayesetsa kuphunzira momwe angathere atsopano, kuphatikizapo ubale pakati pa amuna ndi akazi.
Kawirikawiri, chikondi chachinyamata, monga momwe matenda a zakale amatsimikizira, akhoza kukhala platonic yokha, koma anthu amasiku ano amachititsa ana kuyandikira kwambiri, mgwirizano wapamtima, zotsatira zomwe zingakhale zosadziwika kwambiri.
Chikondi pakati pa achinyamata sichikukula muzinthu zina, koma ngati chiyanjano chiri chimodzimodzi, chiyanjano chimawongolera m'njira yawo ndipo sichikumana ndi zopinga zazikulu pazochitika zawo, zidzathandiza kwambiri pakupanga munthuyo. Komabe, nkhani zosangalatsa - zosawerengeka, nthawi zambiri achinyamata amatha kupitilira chikondi ndi zochitika zomwe sizinachitike.
Chimwemwe chosakondweretsa muunyamata
Monga mukudziwira, zosautsa sizingowonjezera chikondi cha achinyamata. Maganizo amatha kukhala ogwirizana, koma amakumana ndi zopinga zosiyana, mwachitsanzo, ndi kusamvetsetsa kwathunthu kwa makolo, omwe, poyesa kuteteza mwana ku zolakwa, amaletsa kukomana ndi wokondedwayo.
Inde, atsikana abwino nthawi zambiri amayandikira kwa anyamata oipa, ndipo anyamata abwino samakonda chidwi ndi atsikana abwino. Makolo nthawi zambiri amawopsya komanso amatsutsa, koma nkofunika kumvetsetsa kuti kulepheretsa kugonana, mungathe kukhumudwa kwambiri ndikutsutsa komanso kuti mwanayo asamakhulupirire. Mnyamatayo adzatsekera yekha ndipo adzaleka kugaŵana zowonongeka, ndipo mwayi umene mungaphonye chinthu china chofunikira chidzawonjezeka kwambiri.
Tsopano tiyeni tiyerekeze zomwe mwanayo akumva ngati maganizo ake sakukwaniritsidwa. Anthu akuluakulu omwe ali ndi zochitika pamoyo wawo amadziwa kuti sikumapeto kwa dziko lapansi ndipo akadakali pano, koma kwa achinyamata zonse zimawoneka zosiyana kwambiri.
Nthawi yautali nthawi zambiri imatsagana ndi kusagwirizana ndi mawonekedwe a munthu, popeza kusintha kwake, malinga ndi malingaliro a achinyamata, kumangowononga. Sadziwa kuti m'tsogolomu padzakhala kusintha kwakukulu. Kulephera pa chikondi choyambirira kuthana ndi vuto lalikulu lodzidalira, kubwezeretsa pambuyo pake ndilovuta kwambiri. Wachinyamata akufufuza mavuto mwa iyemwini, kuyesera ndi mawonekedwe ndi okonzeka kuchita zinthu zosautsa, kuti atenge chidwi cha chinthu chokondana.
Kukambirana ndi mwana wachinyamata za chikondi
Funso loti ndibwino kuti tikambirane ndi mwana wake zakukhosi kwake komanso zomwe zimamuchitikira iye ndizovuta kwambiri. Yankho lake likudalira mlengalenga m'banja.
Chinthu chachikulu sikuti amuchotsere mwanayo, ngati atasankha kugawana chinachake, osatsutsa, osanyoza wokondedwa wake, komanso osanena kuti zonsezi ndizochabechabe. Yesetsani kukumbukira momwe munamvera mukumeneko, muuzeni mwanayo za chikondi chanu choyamba. Kotero, mwinamwake, mutha kumvetsetsa.