Kodi mumalota kufuna kupeza mnzanu wapamtima? Pezani banja ndikukhala mosangalala nthawi zonse ndi mwamuna wanu wokondedwa? Kodi mwayesapo zonse zomwe mungathe - kuchokera kumalo osayerana ndi zibwenzi mpaka masabata osawona, koma simunakumanepo ndi mnzanuyo? Izi zikutanthauza kuti mwasankha njira yolakwika. Zovomerezeka kuti mukope amuna ndizo zomwe mukusowa.
Zovomerezeka ndizo mauthenga omwe muyenera kunena nthawi zingapo tsiku lililonse. Zitsimikizo zingasinthe njira yanu yoganizira ndikuwonjezera kudzidalira kwanu . Kubwereza izi kapena mawuwa tsiku ndi tsiku, malingaliro anu osamvetsetseka amatenga pang'ono pang'onopang'ono kuti ikhale yeniyeni, ndipo inu mosadziwa mukuyamba kukhulupirira izo.
Zitsimikizo za ukwati
Pofuna kukopa chikondi m'moyo wanu muyenera kugwira ntchito, komanso, ntchito ya mtundu umenewu siidzafuna mphamvu zochepa. Zitsimikizo zaukwati ndi njira yabwino komanso yosavuta yokonzekera msonkhano ndi mkazi wam'tsogolo, chifukwa adzakuthandizani kukhala ndi makhalidwe abwino, ndikubwezerani maganizo oipa ndi malingaliro abwino, potero mutenge mwayi watsopano mu moyo wanu.
Kuti chikondi chilowe mu moyo wanu, gwiritsani ntchito zitsimikizo zaukwati. Zogwira mtima kwambiri ndizo zitsimikizo zomwe ziri zoyenera kwa inu, ndiko kuti, sayenera kuloweza pamtima mawu omwe samakupangitsani inu kumverera kulikonse, koma mawu awo omwe amadzutsa mu malingaliro anu chimwemwe ndi chimwemwe cha chikondi chosasangalatsidwa. Kotero, inu mukhoza mosavuta kupanga zovomerezeka nokha. Ngati mutsimikiza kuti simungathe kupirira ntchitoyi, zitsimikizo zomwe zilipo zidzakuthandizani, zomwe mungasankhe kuchokera mndandandawu:
- Ndidzakumana ndi munthu wokongola;
- Ndikuvomereza ndi kuyamikira ndikupereka chikondi;
- Ndilola moyo wanga kukondana ndi chikondi;
- Ndimakopeka chikondi ndi kukonzanso;
- Mtima wanga ndi wokonzeka kukonda.
Kusankha momwe mungakopererere munthu m'moyo wake ndikukwatira, ndithudi, zomwe mwamuna wake amanena sizikhakwanira, choncho chitanipo kanthu. Thandizani kuti chilengedwe chikwaniritse chokhumba chanu, pitani kawirikawiri malo omwe muli anthu ambiri, lembani mndandanda wamakondomu omwe mungakonde nawo ndi mkazi wam'tsogolo ndipo nthawi zonse muziyenda kumalo kumene muli ndi mwayi wokomana ndi mnzanuyo.
Zitsimikizo za maubwenzi zidzakuthandizani kuti mukhale ndi maganizo abwino, kuti muzimva chimwemwe ndi chikondi zomwe zimapangitsa mitima yanu kukonda, ndipo posachedwapa mudzakwaniritsa zofunikira zanu.