Mwamuna anapita kwa mbuye wamng'ono - choti achite chiyani?

Apa pakubwera nthawi yomwe mwamuna ali ndi mawu akuti: "Ndili ndi mkazi wina" adatsegula chitseko. Pankhaniyi, amayi ambiri ali ndi funso: "Kodi ndichite chiyani kenako?". Zolinga zake, ndondomeko yothandizira tsogolo ikhoza kukhazikika molingana ndi zochitika ziwiri: kuyambitsa moyo watsopano wodzipangira kapena kubwezeretsa mkaziyo m'banja.

Ndiyenera kuchita chiyani ngati mwamuna wanga achoka kwa mbuye wamng'ono?

Ngati simukufuna kuima ndi kukhala ndi mphamvu zokhululukira mnzanu, ndiye kuti mukufunika kupita patsogolo kuchitapo kanthu ndikubwezeretsani ku banja lanu . Pali zothandiza zambiri zomwe zingathandize kuthetsa vutoli:

1. Chinthu choyamba chimene muyenera kuchita ndi kupita pagalasi ndikuyang'ana maonekedwe anu. Chovuta ndi kukhala wokonda bwino. Mwinamwake muyenera kulembetsa ku masewera olimbitsa thupi, kusintha tsitsi lanu ndikusintha zovala zanu.
2. Ngati mwamunayo apita kwa mbuye wake ndipo sabwerera, nkoyenera kutsimikizira kuti popanda iye moyo wakhala wabwino kwambiri. Ndi nthawi yoti muzindikire maloto ndi kuchita zinthu zomwe kale musanakhale ndi nthawi yokwanira.
3. Pamsonkhano ndi mwamuna kapena mabwenzi enieni nkofunika kuchita moyenera mwachibadwa komanso kulankhulana pamapepala abwino. Iye sayenera kuganiza kuti amadana naye ndipo amafuna kumupha.
4. Yesani kukhala bwenzi lake. Perekani malangizo, mvetserani mavuto ndipo muthandizidwe m'mavuto. Pamapeto pake, amadziwa kuti adalakwitsa kwambiri ndipo akufuna kubwerera.

Zimakhulupirira kuti mbuye wamng'ono - ndizochita zokondweretsa, ndipo posakhalitsa mwamuna mwiniwake akufuna kubwerera kunyumba yabwino komanso banja lokonda.

Momwe mungakhalirebe ngati mwamunayo akuchoka kwa wina?

Akatswiri a zamaganizo amanena kuti kuti azindikire mkhalidwewo ndi kubwerera kudziko labwino, zimatenga pafupifupi masiku asanu ndi atatu. Malangizo a momwe mungaiwale mwamuna wanu yemwe anapita kwa wina:

1. Choyamba, muyenera kuchotsa chirichonse chomwe mwinamwake kukukumbutsani za mkazi wanu wakale.
2. Musalankhule za kale ndi anthu ena, ndipo mochulukirapo, mumunyoze, ndipo mwanjira ina mum'dzudzule. Njira yabwino kwambiri yothetsera vutoli ndi kumufunira chimwemwe ndi kuchotsa kwathunthu.
3. Ndikofunika kutulutsa maganizo onse: Mthiti, kuthira mbale, mwachizolowezi, chitani chilichonse chomwe mukufuna. Pambuyo pake, kungokhala kopanda pake kumakhalabe mu moyo, ndipo ichi ndi maziko abwino omanga moyo watsopano.