Msungwana aliyense akulota kukhala mfumu, ndipo kalonga wake ayenera kukhala kalonga pa kavalo woyera. Tsoka ilo, moyo umapanga kukonza kwake komwe ndipo mmalo mwa akalonga ife nthawi zambiri timakumana ^ chabwino, osati kwenikweni akalonga. Pazikhalidwe zamaganizo za amuna ena ndipo tidzakambirana.
Psychology ya mtsogoleri wa amuna
Ingopangitsani kusungirako komwe kungachititse kuti anthu azikhala osokoneza maganizo. Kawirikawiri iwo ali otetezeka kwambiri, koma amayesa kusonyeza izo kunja. Anthu osokoneza bongo amatha kusonyeza kuti akuzunzidwa , pa nthawi yomwe sakuopsezedwa. Zovuta kwambiri "trolls" pa intaneti ndizosavuta.
Kuchokera pamalingaliro a psychology, amuna osokoneza sangathe kukonda chikondi konse, ndipo kwa iwo, ubale ndi mkazi ndi njira yokha yopindulira mwachuma, tsiku ndi tsiku, maganizo kapena kugonana. Mwachidziwikire, munthu wotero sangathe kukhala ndi malingaliro a umunthu wamba, kaya akhale bwenzi kapena chikondi. Pambuyo pa zonse, kuti mumange mgwirizano wogwirizana ndi chifundo ndi kukhulupilira, osati pa phindu ndi chidwi chodzikonda, muyenera kukhala munthu wokhutira. Zimatanthauza - kukonda ndi kuvomereza nokha ndi dziko lonse lapansi, ndi zofooka zake zonse.
Psychology ya munthu-egoist
Mu ndime yapitayi, tinalankhula za chikondi chathu ngati khalidwe lofunikira la munthu wodzikhutira. Komabe, ambiri amasokoneza chikondi chawo ndi kudzikonda, koma izi sizinthu zofanana. Egoism - yopotozedwa, yowonongeka, monga momwe imawonetsedwera mu mawonekedwe obisika owonetsera chikondi. Kwa ogoist, wokhazikika kwambiri ali ndi umunthu wake, amazindikira kuti anthu ena ndi njira yokwaniritsira zolinga zake. Munthu wotero nthawi zambiri amadzikonda yekha. Kukambirana komwe kuli pafupi kumakhudza wokondedwa wake. Inde, pali zokambirana, kuzungulira dziko lonse lapansi zimakhudza umunthu wake. Kwa munthu wa egoist, pali zifukwa ziwiri zokha - zake ndi zolakwika. Mu mkangano, iye nthawizonse amaimirira maganizo ake, osaganizira zonena za mdani, ngakhale ziri zolemetsa. Amachitapo kanthu, nthawi zonse amatsogoleredwa ndi zilakolako zake komanso zokonda zake.
Kuchokera ku maganizo a maganizo ndi nzeru, mkazi wogonana ndi munthu wotere ayenera kukhala wotheka kuteteza zofuna zake, osati nthawi zonse. Pomwepo iye adzakulemekezani ndikuwerengedwa naye.
Psychology ya mwamuna mwini
Ndipotu, anthu onse mwa njira imodzi - eni ake. Ndipo kuchokera ku lingaliro la psychology, izi ndi chifukwa chakuti munthu, zovuta kupirira chitsutso, chifukwa. Zimadetsa chidaliro chake kuti iye ndi atate wa ana a mkazi wake. Kawirikawiri, izi sizikusokoneza kwambiri ubalewu. Komabe, palinso milandu yoopsa kwambiri, pamene chikhalidwe cha mwini nyumba chimakula. Amuna amenewa amavutitsa mkazi ndi nsanje yake, kumutsogolera mpaka kufika posazindikira. Mwachitsanzo, wina amakakamizika kuvala pafupifupi chophimba, kuti afotokoze mphindi iliyonse yomwe amatha kunja kwa masomphenya ake, ndi zina zotero. ndi zina zotero.
Amuna nthawi zambiri amakhala otetezeka kwambiri, omwe amakopeka ndi akazi. Makhalidwe amenewa amachitika kwa amuna omwe ali achikulire kuposa zofuna zawo. Ngakhale pali eni eni eni omwe sakudziwa "kupita kumanzere," ndipo woweruza, monga akunena, ena okha.
Psychology ya munthu wankhanza
Pali mitundu iwiri ya olamulira pano:
- "Mkango wolimba " ndi munthu wamphamvu kwambiri, wozoloŵera aliyense womumvera. Kawirikawiri ali ndi udindo wapamwamba pakati pa anthu - bwana wamkulu, wamalonda. Kawirikawiri, uyu ndi munthu yemwe amagwiritsa ntchito kutsogolera ndipo sakudziwa momwe mawu ake angayankhire konse.
- "Nsonga zamatsenga" - mosiyana ndi mtundu wapitalo, m'moyo mulibe zambiri zomwe zakhala zikukwaniritsidwa, ndiko kudzidalira pakhomo pakhomo. Mwina nthawi zina, ndi kukweza dzanja lake, ndi kufuula ngati maganizo ali oipa. Komabe, ali paulendo ndi wina yemwe ali wamphamvu kuposa iye, kapena apamwamba
mwa chikhalidwe, kapena kungangopatsa kusintha, nthawi yomweyo amasanduka zolengedwa zanjenjemera ndi zonyansa.
Psychology ya munthu wadyera
Choyamba, tiyeni tifotokoze mwazinthu: munthu wonyada, uyu si munthu amene safuna kuti azikakamiza akazi onse ndikumupatsa mphatso. Chinthuchi, ngakhale munthu woimira mtundu wotereyu ndi Plyushkin, yemwe ndi wolemba mabuku a N. Gogol "Mizimu Yakufa." Mwamwayi, m'moyo weniweni anthu oterewa ndi osowa. Komabe, pali anthu osauka kwambiri omwe safuna kumvetsetsa kuti nsapato zazing'onozi sizingowonjezereka chabe, koma mkhalidwe womaliza wa nyengo, chabwino, chofunikira kwambiri mu zovala za mkazi aliyense wodzilemekeza.