Kugonana ndi njira yokopa chidwi cha woimira mwamuna kapena mkazi, kuti am'patse chidwi chake ndi chikhumbo chodziwana naye pafupi. Koma ngakhale kuti kudziyesa wokha nthawizonse kumatanthauza kukhala kosavuta kugawana, nthawi zambiri kumakhala ubale weniweni. Komabe, wina sayenera kuona kuti mwamuna ndi mkazi amangokwatirana, chifukwa choyamba, izi ndi zosangalatsa zomwe zimakuthandizani kuti mukhale "okongola" komanso kuti mumve nokha. Lero, atsikana ambiri amadziwika kwambiri ndi maphunziro opanga, omwe ophunzira amadziwika zinsinsi zazikulu zachinyengo. Zina mwa malamulo ofunika otsogolera ndipo adzaperekedwa m'nkhaniyi.
Mmene mungakonde ndi mnyamata, phunzirani zofunikira:
- Kuti muukitse munthu amene mumamukonda, muyenera kukhala munthu wokondweretsa. Ndipo mfundo apa siyikongola kowoneka kunja, koma mukhoza kudziphunzitsa nokha.
- Kuti wina athe kukupatsani chifundo, inu nokha muyenera kudzikonda nokha. Mwa kuyankhula kwina, muyenera kuphunzira kuti mudzidziwe nokha momwe muliri, ndi mphamvu zanu zonse ndi zofooka zanu.
- Chikondi cha mibadwo yonse ndi kugonjera, ndicho chifukwa chake mungaphunzire luso lokopa pakati pa zaka 16 ndi 40, chinthu chachikulu ndicho kukhala ndi chilakolako chophunzira china chatsopano.
- Musatseke mpaka mawa zomwe mungachite lero. Ngati mwaganiza kuti muyambe moyo watsopano, chitani nthawi yomweyo, mosachedwa, mawa. Lembani kuvina, pitani ku masewera olimbitsa thupi, chitani manicure oyambirira kapena mugwiritse ntchito njira iliyonse yodzikondweretsa nokha ndikudzidalira nokha.
Kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi ndi mnyamata, kumayambira pati?
Ngati simunayese kuti muyankhule mumsewu ndi munthu wachilendo chifukwa chakuti mukuwopa kuti ndiwopusa kapena kuti mumamukonda kwambiri, choyamba muyenera kuphunzira kudzigonjetsa nokha. Kuti muchite izi, tengani lamulo limodzi kamodzi pa tsiku kuti muyambe kukambirana ndi munthu wodutsa. Ndipo mwamsanga mudzawona kuti izi n'zosavuta kuposa momwe zikuwonekera poyamba. Pano pali zifukwa zomveka zokhalira kukambirana mwachidule: "Ndili koyamba mu mzindawu, kodi mungandiuze momwe ndingapezere malo osungiramo mankhwala / kusamba?" Kapena "Ndaphonya basi, kodi mukudziwa nthawi yotsatira?" , "Ndinauzidwa kuti kwinakwake kuli laibulale ..."
Pambuyo pa zokambiranazi zikulepheretsani inu, pitani ku ntchito yovuta kwambiri: kuthekera kumasulira zokambiranazo m'njira yoyenera kwa inu. Mwachitsanzo, atayankha funsoli: "Ndi nthawi yanji?" "Monga ngati, mwa njira, zindikirani kuti" lero mwakhala mukuyenda tsiku lonse ngati gologolo mu gudumu, koma mulibe chirichonse "kapena kutaya mawu ena, kuti simusintha kusinthana ndi machitidwe osalongosoka.
Ngati wokambirana naye ali ndi maganizo abwino, adzasangalala ndi masewerawo. Komabe, ngati izi sizichitika, musakhumudwe. Atsikana ambiri omwe sadziwa kukondana ndi mnyamata bwino, amatha kutayika ndipo amadzikonda. Musati muchite izi, chifukwa izi siziri zolakwa zanu. Ngati mukulephera, mvetserani mwakachetechete, yathokozani mlendoyo kuti athandizidwe ndikuyenda molimbika bizinesi yanu.
Momwe mungaphunzirire kukondana ndi anyamata, zinsinsi zina:
- werengani zambiri, kuti nthawi zonse mukhale osangalatsa. Khalani nthawi zonse zokhudzana ndi zochitika zatsopano mu nyimbo, cinema, ndale ndi zachuma;
- nthawi zonse mukhale nokha. Kuti asangalatse mwamuna, sikofunika kuti aoneke ngati iye akuyesa kupweteka;
- Mukhoza kumvetsera popanda kusokoneza. Mnyamata aliyense amamvetsera mwachidwi ndi chidwi chenicheni. Pofuna kusonyeza chidwi, nthawi zina mungamufunse wofunsayo akutsogolera mafunso, ndemanga pa mawu ake ena;
- tithokozani. Komabe, pa nkhaniyi nkofunikira kuyang'ana muyeso, chifukwa nthawi zina kutamanda kungamveke ngati kukongoletsa.