"Mwamuna amafunikira mwamuna." Tsiku lililonse timakumana ndi anthu ambiri osiyana. Mbadwo, chilengedwe, maonekedwe, maonekedwe, thupi, khalidwe - zonse ziri zosiyana, zili zofanana, koma zomwezo sizomwe zili pamenepo! Timadziwana bwino ndi kulankhulana, ndife abwenzi ndipo timakangana. Ambiri aife timakondwera, koma mungapeze bwanji anu, anu anu ndi apamtima anu apamtima? Zimapezeka kuti timapeza munthu, timayesera kwambiri kuti sitingathe kulingalira moyo wathu popanda. Koma, patapita nthawi, mwatsoka, zimachitika kuti zikhale zosiyana ndi izo. Ndiyeno, chifukwa chomwe sitikumvetsetsa, timayesetsa mozama, koma mopanda pake, kuti tipeze mwadzidzidzi kuti munthu ameneyo ndiye kuti "amene" uja wasiya kukumbukira ... Patatha nthawi ndithu tidzakumana nawo mwangozi yemwe kale anali "wake", ndipo osamuzindikira ... Ziri zomvetsa chisoni.
Mwamwayi, nthawi zambiri, sitimatayika okondedwa athu, chifukwa timawayamikira! Miyoyo iwiri ikuluikulu sitikufuna kutayana, ndipo izi zimakhala zolimba kwambiri, ndipo mphamvu ya ubale ndi yamphamvu kwambiri.
Zimatheka bwanji kuti munthu wapafupi ali pafupi?
Physics ikutsimikizira kuti kutsutsana kumakopeka. Koma kuti mumange mgwirizano uliwonse, nkofunika kukhala ndi chinthu chofanana, chinachake chomwe chingagwirizanitse zofuna. Ndichiwonekeratu kuti mofananamo, pafupifupi anthu ofanana, sangathe kulolerana kwa nthawi yayitali. Ganizirani, kodi mungagwirizanane ndi inu? N'zosatheka. Chifukwa mwa aliyense wa ife muli zosiyana zenizeni zokhudzana ndi khalidwe lapadera. Ndicho chifukwa chake ndizozoloŵera kuika malo opanda pake ndi oyankhula pafupi ndi tebulo kuti pasakhale kugunda ndi kudzipweteka! Pamene anthu otsutsana kwambiri akumana, akuwoneka akugwirizana. Chimene munthu woyamba adasowa m'moyo chimakhala chachiwiri, komanso mosiyana. Poyamba, zingakhale zovuta kupeza zosamvana, chifukwa malingaliro ndi malingaliro angakhale osiyana kwambiri. Koma ngati mutayesetsa kuyesa kumvetsetsa ndi kumumva wokondedwa wanu, posachedwa izi zidzakhala zabwino kwambiri, ndipo banjali lidzawonongedwa! Pambuyo pa mgwirizano wotero, iwo m'moyo adzasowa wina ndi mnzake. Mwina ndi chifukwa chake nthawi zambiri mwamuna kapena mkazi amayang'ana mofanana ndi awo akale: kaya kuwoneka kapena khalidwe.
Munthu wapafupi sikuti ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi. Ikhoza kukhala mayi kapena abambo, m'bale kapena mlongo. Popeza anthuwa amakhala ndi ife, ndiye kuti ngati sititsekedwa, amatidziŵa ngati palibe wina. Komanso, mwa anthu oterowo magazi amayamba. Banja ndi chinthu chamtengo wapatali kwambiri chomwe tili nacho, chinthu chamtengo wapatali kwambiri chomwe tifunika kuteteza! Tiyenera kuyamikila makolo athu kuti anatilera.
Chodabwitsa kwambiri, anthu apamtima sangathe kukhala oyanjana konse. Miyoyo yokha imakomana, ndipo kumvetsetsa mu ubale kumalamulira, monga palibe wina aliyense. Chitsanzo choterechi timachiwona muubwenzi wamwamuna, pamene mbale weniweni amaonedwa ngati bwenzi.
Ndipo palibe chomwe chingathe kusankha pakati pa okondedwa. Yesetsani kupereka nthawi kwa aliyense! Sizolondola, kusankha pakati pa amayi ndi chibwenzi, bwenzi ndi bwenzi. Ngati mutayamba kuika zinthu zoterezi - kumbukirani kuti munthu amene mumamukwera mtengo kwambiri, sangapite.
Ndipo pamene munthu wapafupi ali pafupi, timamva osasamala ndi bata, sitimasowa wina aliyense ...
Nchiyani chimapangitsa anthu kutseka?
Palibe amene angapereke yankho losavuta kufunso ili. Pambuyo pake, aliyense ali ndi zochitika zawo komanso nkhani. Koma zogwirizana zonse zimamangidwa pa nthaka imodzi. Kumvetsetsa, ulemu, chisamaliro ndi chiyamiko ndilo gawo loyamba loyenera kuti anthu oyandikana nawo akhale pafupi!
Ndikofunika kuti mumvetsetse ndikukhululukirana. Mmodzi ayenera kumvetsera anthu omwe ali okondeka pamtima, osawakhumudwitsa. Tsekani anthu kumverera wina ndi mzake, kotero musalole kukayikira! Sungani mgwirizano!