Palibe amene amatisamalira bwino kuposa ifeyo. Ndife okha omwe timadziwa mavuto athu onse ndipo timatha kudzipeza tokha nthawi iliyonse ya tsiku. Mwinamwake ndicho chifukwa nthawi zina kumverera kumabwera kwa ife, monga kudzimvera chisoni. Panthawi ino ikuyamba kuoneka kuti dziko lonse lapansi likukhazikitsidwa, ngati sikunatsutsana, ndiye kuti ndithudi alibe chidwi. Kumverera chisoni kumapangitsa pang'ono kuzindikira chidziwitso chonse, kuteteza kufufuza njira yothetsera vuto lomwe lakhalapo.
Psychology ya kudzimvera chisoni
Kudzimvera chisoni kungawoneke m'mavuto osiyanasiyana, ndipo uli ndi mitundu yoipa komanso yosasangalatsa.
Kumvera chisoni kumakhala kolimbikitsa pazochitika kuti munthu watopa ndi milandu yambiri yomwe iye wadzipangira yekha kapena zofuna za wina. Pachifukwa ichi, atadzidandaula yekha, munthu akhoza kuganiziranso ntchito yake ndi kukana bizinesi iliyonse.
Chisoni ndikumverera koipa ngati kulibe kulenga ndipo alibe chifukwa chabwino. Nthawi zambiri kudzimvera chisoni ndi gawo la kudzikonda.
Zingathe kuonedwa ngati zachilendo ngati kudzimvera chisoni kumawoneka pa zovuta kapena zovuta. Akhoza kumutsagana ndi munthu kwa masiku angapo, koma pamapeto pake nkofunika kuti m'malo mwake mubwere chilakolako ndi mphamvu zothetsera vutoli, m'malo momudandaula.
Kodi mungatani kuti musamvere chisoni?
Akatswiri a zamaganizo amapereka maseĊµero olimbitsa thupi ngati kudziletsa tokha kuti:
- Lembani mndandanda wa zomwe muli nazo, zomwe anthu omwe akuzungulirani angakonde: galimoto, nyumba, ntchito yabwino, makolo, ana, thanzi, banja, okondedwa, nzeru .
- Ganizirani za anthu omwe ali oipitsitsa kuposa inu: opanda pogona, ana amasiye, opanda ana, olumala, ndi zina zotero. Koma mwina mungathe kuwathandiza?
- Lembani zinthu zisanu zomwe mungapindule nazo. Mwachitsanzo, munaponya mnyamata. Zotsatira za izi: pali bwino; angatayike pambuyo pake, ndipo ngakhale ndi mwanayo; chikhalidwe chake chinawululidwa; kachiwiri muli ndi ufulu.
- Lembani tsiku lililonse zabwino zonse,
zomwe zinachitika kwa tsikulo. Izi zikhoza kukhala mtundu wa masewera: nthawi zisanu zabwino kwambiri pa tsiku. - Dzitetezeni nokha kudzimvera chisoni ndi kudandaula za ena. Ngati mumatsatira lamuloli kwa milungu ingapo, mudzawona mmene moyo umasangalalira.
- Dziloleni kudzidandaula nokha, koma osaposa masiku awiri. Masiku ano mungathe kukonza phwando lachisoni nokha: kukhala m'kafa, kugula zovala zatsopano, kugona pabedi tsiku lonse, ndi zina zotero. Chinthu chachikulu ndikuti mumadzikhutire nokha ndikukonzekera kuchita zina.