Momwe mungakulemekezereni?

Kulemekeza ndi kuzindikira - ndizo zomwe anthu ambiri amafuna, mwinamwake. Anthu, mosakayika, akugwira nawo ntchito pakupanga umunthu. Ndikofunika kwa ife momwe anthu amachitira ndi omwe amachitira ndi ife, omwe akukhudzidwa ndi moyo wathu. Ambiri amakhudzidwa ndi funso la momwe angakhalire munthu wolemekezeka. Werengani zambiri za izi.

Nchifukwa chiyani iwo samandilemekeza ine?

Maganizo a ena kwa munthu wina ndi osavuta kumvetsa. Kusasamala ndi kusayanjanitsika, kusaweruzika ndi nthabwala zosasangalatsa mu adiresi yawo - izi zonse zimatsimikizira kuti alibe ulemu. Si chinsinsi kwa aliyense yemwe aliyense amakondwera pamene anthu ozungulira amamvetsera, amasonyeza chisangalalo ndi chidwi. Makhalidwe oterewa angakhoze kupindula mwa kuchita. Anthu nthawi zonse amasamala zomwe mumanena ndi kuchita, kwa ambiri, mlingo wa kalata ya mawu anu kuntchito ndi ofunika. Munthu akamakamba za zolinga zake, zolinga zake ndi zomwe wapindula, komabe kwenikweni samachita chilichonse monga chomwecho m'moyo wake, ndiye pamaso pa anthu omwe amakhala naye pafupi, amakhala "chikwapu" chachibadwa.

Ngati mukufuna kupeza ulemu, khalani woyenera. Samalani ndi mawu "okweza" ndi udindo muzochita zawo.

Musaiwale kuti sikutheka kuti aliyense akhale "wabwino ndi wolondola". Pezani ulemu kwa omwe ali okondedwa kwambiri kwa inu. Kodi mungachite chiyani kuti muzimulemekeza? - Muyenera kuyamba ndi nokha. Matenda aumidzi ndi nkhawa siziyenera kukupangitsani kukhala "utoto" wofiira, mofanana ngati chidutswa cha mkati mkati. Khalani okondweretsa, muzichita nawo ntchito iliyonse. Dziwonetseni nokha m'zonse - mutonthozo wa kunyumba, monga mkazi ndi mayi. Khalani ndi chidwi pa zonse zomwe simukuzidziwe ndikukhalanso ndi chidwi ndi inu ndi kusonyeza ulemu pa chilichonse chimene mumachita.

Kodi mungayambe kudzilemekeza bwanji?

Kudzilemekeza nokha kumafuna kukhulupirika kwakukulu ndi kuwona mtima. Mungathe kunyenga aliyense, koma osati nokha. Ngati inu anadzipereka mu miyoyo yawo zomwe zimakhala zomvetsa chisoni kwambiri kapena manyazi, ndiye tikuyenera kuyamba ndi izi. Yesani kupepesa kwa anthu omwe simunachite bwino. Kubwezeretsani zomwe mwaba, kuvomereza kuti kwa nthawi yaitali mwakhala mukuzunzidwa, lapani zomwe mwachita.

Muyenera kuphunzira kudzikhululukira nokha. Dziwani zolakwitsa zanu ndi zolephera zanu, avomereze ndikudzipereka nokha kuti muzitha kusintha. Ndipo chofunika kwambiri, mawu aliwonse omwe mumadzipereka, muyenera kusunga ndi kukwaniritsa cholinga. Ndiye inu mudzayamba kudzilemekeza nokha, chifukwa inu mudzakhaladi ndi chifukwa cha izi.