Lolani kulankhulana ndi anthu

Tsiku lililonse munthu amalowetsa kukambirana ndi munthu wina. Anthu sangathe koma kulankhulana. Kulankhulana ndi chimodzi mwa zosowa zaumunthu. Koma kuti zitha kuyankhulana bwino, sizikanakhala bwino kuti aphunzire kuti kulankhulana bwino ndi anthu kumatanthauza kukhazikitsa malamulo ena.

Lamulo la kulankhulana kolondola

Kulankhulana kolondola ndi maziko a mgwirizano wabwino ndi anthu, omwe amachokera kwa anthu omwe ali ndi chikhalidwe chokwanira komanso kukhala ndi antchito wamba. Kupititsa patsogolo luso loyankhulana kukupatsani zotsatira zabwino, mwachitsanzo, kukambirana ndi othandizana nawo bizinesi yanu, zidzakupangitsani chidwi.

Kuti tikwaniritse cholinga chimenechi, kuti mukulumikizana bwino, tikukulimbikitsani kuti mugwirizane ndi zotsatirazi:

1. Musaiwale zaulemu. Ndi anthu osadziwika sapita kudera la malo awo, penyani mtunda pakati pa inu ndi interlocutor. Kuyambira pachiyambi cha zokambirana musamafulumize "kukugwedeza." Samalani kuti musagwedeze mawu a slang mumzere wanu.
2. Kumbukirani dzina la interlocutor. Sizingakhale zodabwitsa kumutchula dzina lake kangapo pa zokambirana zonse. Musasokonezedwe ndi wina aliyense yemwe simukumudziwa.
3. Kaya zili choncho, khalani okoma mtima.
4. Khalani munthu woona mtima. Musaname. Posakhalitsa, koma adzapeza za bodza.
5. Dziwani momwe mungamvere.
6. Musaiwale kusekerera.
7. Musati muopseze kapena mufunse.

Konzani kulankhulana ndi makasitomala

Nazi malingaliro oyankhulana bwino ndi makasitomala:

1. Musagwedeze ndodo pamene mukulankhulana.
2. Kuthandizira mwatsatanetsatane zokambiranazo, muzitsatira molimba mtima.
3. Funsani mafunso, kukambirana zonse.
4. Khalani ndi malingaliro anu onse, mofotokozera molimba mtima, kukhala munthu wodziimira.

Konzani kulankhulana ndi munthu

Monga momwe zimadziwira, maganizo a amuna ndi akazi ali ndi kusiyana kwakukulu. Ndipo momwe mumalankhulira ndi mnzanu, musakonde mwamuna. Tiyeni tiyese kupeza momwe tingakhalire, zomwe tinganene ndi momwe tingakonzekere munthu - wogwirizanitsa.

1. Cholakwika cha mayi polankhulana ndi mwamuna ndi chakuti mkazi nthawi zonse kwa munthu amapereka zokambirana. Mwachitsanzo, mmalo moti "Tiyenera kulankhula", afotokozereni munthu zonse zomwe mwaikapo m'mawu awa. Ndi zofunika kufotokoza mwatsatanetsatane tanthauzo lake.
2. Musalankhule mokweza za mavuto anu, madandaulo. Amuna ali okonzeka kwambiri kuti ayambe kukuyang'anizani kuti athetse vutoli, kapena amaganiza ngati mumayankhula nawo, zimatanthauza kuti ndi amene amachititsa zimenezi.
3. Amuna akumva chete. Sikoyenera kuchoka kwa interlocutor maganizo a chochitika chirichonse, etc. Ngati munthuyo akufuna, iye kwa inu za izo zidzadziwitsa.

Bukhu lonena za kulumikizana kolondola

Sizingakhale zosawerengeka kuwerenga mabuku okhudzana ndi luso lolankhulana:

1. J. Gray "Amuna ochokera ku Mars, akazi ochokera ku Venus".
2. A. Panfilova "Chitani ndi kuyankhulana".
3. S. Berdyshev "Teknolojia yogwirizana ndi ovuta makasitomala".

Aliyense ali ndi luso lomvetsetsa njira zamalankhulidwe abwino. Izi zimafuna chikhumbo ndi cholinga chokha.