Kuphatikizana kwa mawu ndi mawu osalongosola kumathandiza kuti alembe chithunzi chathunthu cha munthu. Kuwona woyendetsa wothandizana nawo, pakuganizira kuti amavomereza kuti asatenge mawu ake okha, komanso manja, malo, nkhope , ndi zina. Ndipo ndi khalidwe losalongosoka lomwe limapangitsa kuti mudziwe zambiri zokhudza interlocutor. Mwachitsanzo, mawu osakondweretsa mukamayankhula nthawi yomweyo amasonyeza mtima weniweni wa munthu.
Makhalidwe osakonda ndi zinthu zake
Kufufuza ndi kuneneratu khalidwe laumunthu, ndikofunika kulingalira mbali zingapo zofunika:
- Makhalidwe. Malingana ndi zochita za interlocutor, n'zotheka kupeza mfundo zambiri zofunika ndikudziwiratu zomwe zidzachitike. Chikhalidwe chingakhale chachibadwa, chopezeka, chokwanira, ndi zina zotero.
- Mphamvu za kusuntha. Mmene mtima wa interlocutor ungaganizire ndi momwe akuyendera, mwachitsanzo, kayendetsedwe kabwino kamene amasonyezera kuti amakangana komanso amakwiya.
- Zotsatirapo kwa zowopsya. Makhalidwe onse ndi opanda mawu amachititsa anthu oyandikana nawo ntchito zina. Izi zingagwiritsidwe ntchito pazinthu zawo zokha, pogwiritsa ntchito njira zamakono.
- Chizindikiro. Momwe munthu akukambirana akukweza manja ndi mutu, mungapeze zambiri zokhudza chidwi chake. Mwachitsanzo, anthu okhudzidwa ndi otsegula nthawi zambiri amawomba manja awo, akutsatira mawu awo ndi manja omwe amavomereza.
- Kugwirizana pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi. Chikhalidwe ichi cha khalidwe chimakhala ndi chiwerewere, mwachitsanzo, kusewera kwa mkazi ndi maso ake.
Mu kutanthauzira khalidwe losalankhula mawu, umunthu wake umakhalanso ndi tanthauzo lalikulu. Pamene akunena, kambiranani pa zovala, ndiko kuti, ngakhale kuyang'ana zovala za interlocutor, mukhoza kumvetsa zokhudzana ndi khalidwe lake ndi moyo wake wonse. Ngati mumaphunzira kutanthauzira zizindikiro zonse zopanda mawu, mukhoza kulongosola zomwe anthu akuzungulirani, zomwe zingapangitse moyo kukhala wosavuta.