Posachedwapa maphunziro ochuluka ndi masemina akhala akuchitika, kupereka uphungu wa momwe angakhalire wopambana komanso wodzikonda payekha pamoyo. Zikuwoneka kuti popanda mapulogalamu ophunzitsirawo anthu aiwala momwe angakwanitse zolinga zawo. Koma nthawi zambiri malangizowa amangotenga nthawi, zomwe zingagwiritsidwe ntchito kale kuti zisamuke bwino .
Momwe mungakhalire munthu wopambana ndi wolemera m'moyo?
Kuti mupeze yankho la funso ili, choyamba muyenera kumvetsa zomwe mukutanthauza kupambana. Aliyense amvetsetsa lingaliro limeneli, wina amaganiza kuti kupambana pa kukhazikitsidwa kwa malingaliro opanga, osayang'anitsitsa ndalama zobwezeretsa ndalama, wina akuyesera chuma ndi wosasamala, ndipo wina angapeze nyumba yabwino ndi banja lochezeka patebulo.
Choncho, sitepe yoyamba kuyankha funso la momwe mungakhalire munthu wopambana kwambiri m'moyo kudzakhala zolinga. Kwenikweni, kuchokera pa sitepe iyi yomwe kayendetsedwe imayambira, munthu akamangomvetsetsa zolinga zake, amayamba kufunafuna njira zomwe angazikwaniritsire. Kungotenga vuto kuti ukhale woonamtima komanso wogwirizana ndi mfundo zenizeni - akalonga a nyumbayi sanapiteko kwa nthawi yaitali, koma ngati atayika, mfumukaziyi sichisonyeza chidwi chokhudzana ndi zilakolako za mfumukaziyi. Choncho, ganizirani zazinthu zomwe mungagwiritse ntchito, osati zongoganizira.
Pankhani yowona mtima, muyeneranso kunena mawu ochepa, ganizirani zomwe mukufuna, osati anthu ena. Mwachitsanzo, lingaliro la anthu limapindula kukhalapo kwa mwamuna ndi ana azimayi, ngakhale mwamuna uyu sali chitsanzo chabwino, ndipo ana sali abwino kwambiri - ndibwinobe. Mukufuna kuti akazi wamba akhale osangalala, taganizirani. Kapena chitsanzo china: malo anu akudwala ndi kumasulidwa mu mawonetseredwe ake opambana, ndipo akuyesera kukupangitsani mtsikana wolemera, ngakhale wosungulumwa. Kodi mukufunikiradi moyo woterewu? Ganizilani, nthawi zonse mumalota ndi kampani yanu yaikulu kapena mumalota ana asanu ndi mmodzi, ngati munthu wokondedwa, ndipo mwinamwake mutakhala ndi mwana mmodzi komanso mutu wa dipatimentiyi kwa zaka 35. Dziwani chomwe, ndi mawu ati mukufuna kuti mukwaniritse.
Mutatha kudziwa zolinga, ganizirani zomwe muyenera kuchita kuti mukhale munthu wopambana. Mwina kukwaniritsa zolinga zomwe mukufunikira kusintha kusintha kwa ntchito kapena ngakhale maphunziro anu mosiyana. Musachite mantha, sikuchedwa kwambiri kuphunzira, ndipo lamulo silikhazikitsa zaka za ophunzira konse. Inde, mwina simukudziwa chidziwitso kapena luso, palibe choopsya pa izi, musachite mantha ndi wina watsopano, ngakhale mutakwanitsa zaka 30 mutha kudziwa chida choimbira ndi zala zopanda malire, ndipo ubongo wathu uli ndi mafoni ambiri.
Ngati mukuganiza kuti mutha kukhala wopambana komanso wolemera kapena wodziimira nokha, muyenera kuphunzira kukonzekera nthawi yanu. Inde, kuthetsa luso latsopano kumatenga nthawi, ndipo ngakhale ndikufuna kupuma. Choncho, phunzirani kusamalira zinthu zonse, inde, ndi zovuta, koma zimatheka kwambiri pogawa nthawi yanu.
Ndikofunika kusankha mndandanda wanu wa bizinesi mogwirizana ndi zomwe mumakonda. Zimadziwika kuti timayesetsa kwambiri kuti tikwaniritse ntchitoyi. Ngati muchita chinachake mwa mphamvu, ngakhale kufika pa maudindo apamwamba sikudzakupatsani kukhutira, kukakamiza mobwerezabwereza kuti mudzifunire nokha.
Ngati mutasankha ndalama zogwirira ntchito, ndiye kuti ndi bwino kuganizira mozama pa nthawi ya ubale wanu. Kawirikawiri pazochitika zawo tsiku ndi tsiku palibe nthawi, koma kusakhala kwawo kwathunthu kumakhala kosangalala? Ndipotu, kupambana sikungatheke popanda chimwemwe ndi chimwemwe.