Kodi munthu wamphamvu ndi chiyani?

Mwinamwake aliyense wamva za anthu amphamvu omwe ali ndi chifuniro ndi kudzidalira. Anthu oterewa amatha kupita mwamsanga ku cholinga chawo ndikuchigwiritsa ntchito. Zikuchitika sikuti zonse ziri zosavuta komanso m'njira zovuta. Komabe, umunthu wamphamvu sungagwedezeke mu mzimu ndipo saleka, chifukwa amadziwa kuti cholingacho chidzaperekedwa.

Kodi kumatanthauza kukhala munthu wamphamvu?

Pofuna kumvetsetsa mtundu wa munthu yemwe angaganizidwe kukhala wamphamvu, nthawi zina mungangoyang'ana pozungulira. Anthu oterewa amatsutsana kwambiri ndi malo omwe amawadziwa. Iwo ali ndi chidziwitso cholimba, mau omveka, ali ndi lingaliro la zomwe akufuna ndipo akuyenda mofulumira ku cholinga chawo. Funso likubwera, nchifukwa ninji ena amadziwa chomwe munthu wamphamvu ali ndi kuyesera kuti akhale amodzi, pamene ena akukhalabe masiku awo okhwima, osazindikira aliyense kapena palibe chozungulira?

Makhalidwe a umunthu wamphamvu

Kuti mudziwe makhalidwe a umunthu wamphamvu , muyenera kudziwa yemwe angakhale. Makhalidwe abwino ndi munthu amene ali ndi chilakolako champhamvu, chomwe anthu nthawi zina sazimvetsa komanso kuseka. Nthawi zambiri anthu amatsutsa anthu oterewa, kuyesa "miyezo ya chiŵerengero". Kuwonjezera apo, malingaliro osagwirizana, zikhalidwe zapadera, zomwe zimasiyanitsa munthu wamphamvu, zingayambitse zoyipa pakati pa ena.

Zizindikiro zazikulu za munthu wamphamvu:

• osakonzeka kulandira zifukwa ndi kupereka zifukwa;
• Zosankha zonse zimapangidwa molunjika;
• Musataye nthawi pazokambirana "zopanda kanthu";
• silingalole kuwonetsera kulikonse kwa kusadziwa;
• akhoza kumvetsera (komabe, izi sizothandiza nthawi zonse ndipo ambiri atatha kulankhula "mtima-kwa-mtima" akuyembekezera njira yothetsera mavuto awo nthawi yomweyo);
• sichimafuna nzeru zapamwamba;
• Musaope kuphunzira zatsopano komanso zosadziwika (kuti muthe kuphunzira chinachake ndikukwaniritsa zolinga zanu);
• amakhulupirira kuti zosayenera sizolakwa, koma zimalimbikitsa chitukuko ndi kusintha.

Nchiyani chimapangitsa munthu kukhala wamphamvu?

Aliyense anazindikira kuti anthu ena ali odzidalira ndi opambana, nthawi zonse amakhala ndi "chizindikiro", pamene ena, amakhala ndi chimwemwe chokwanira, akupitirizabe kudandaula za moyo. Nthawi zina amayesa kuoneka kuti ali ndi umunthu wabwino komanso wolimba, koma kuyesayesa kwatsopano kumathera popanda kanthu, ndipo iwo alibe mzimu ndi mphamvu kuti apange chiyero chatsopano kuti apitirize kukwaniritsa cholinga.

Nchifukwa chiyani izi zikuchitika? Chinsinsi ndi chophweka! Mtundu woyamba ndi munthu wamphamvu yemwe ali ndi zikhulupiriro, zizoloŵezi ndi mfundo zina. Samasintha khalidwe lawo mulimonsemo, mosiyana ndi mtundu wachiwiri wa anthu. Sakusowa kudziyerekezera kuti ali bwino - izi zimawoneka ndi maso. Chochititsa chidwi ndi anthu amphamvu, monga lamulo, anthu osavuta ndi otseguka.

Zizolowezi za anthu amphamvu

Munthu aliyense ali ndi khalidwe lolimba ali ndi malamulo ake, mfundo zake ndi zizolowezi zake. Zazikulu ndi izi:

• sangalalani ndi zinthu zopanda pake (musayembekezere kutamandidwa ndi kukhudzidwa mtima kuchokera kwa wina, zawo, ngakhale zazing'ono, zomwe zachitika - ino ndi nthawi ya chimwemwe);
• Musalankhulane mwano za ena (anthu amphamvu amadziwa kuti aliyense ali ndi ubwino ndi zovuta zonse, ndikuyang'anira ena ndikufanizira wina ndi munthu wina wodzidalira sakhala nthawi);
• sawopa kunena "ayi" (amachita momveka bwino komanso molimba mtima, opanda zifukwa zosafunikira ndi "syusyukaniy");
• Amamvetsera zambiri, amalankhula pang'ono (sayenera kuyesa kutsimikizira chinachake m'mawu awo, posachedwapa adzachita chinthu chomwe chidzalankhula okha);
• zomwe zimafotokozedwa momveka bwino komanso momveka bwino (munthu yemwe sangathe kufotokozera maganizo awo, sangawathandize kuti azitha kuwathandiza.

Chilimbikitso cha anthu amphamvu

Anthu ambiri amafuna kusintha miyoyo yawo kuti ikhale yabwino, koma momwe angakhalire munthu wamphamvu samadziwa aliyense. Malangizo pang'ono kuti akuthandizeni kukhala amphamvu:

• Kupweteka ndi zakale ndikuwotcha milatho (pozindikira kuti sipadzakhala njira yobwerera, munthu ayamba kupita patsogolo, pang'onopang'ono, kenako mofulumira);
• kuonjezera zolimbikitsa (ntchito zabwino zowonetsera zojambula ndi chithunzi cha cholinga);
• Kupatula nthawi yocheza ndi anthu omwe ali ndi malingaliro abwino (oterewa amawombera ndi vivacity ndikulimbikitsa mapangidwe a mapulani);
• kukhala ndi zozizwitsa (kumvetsera zojambula zojambula, kuwerenga mabuku , kuwona mafilimu omwe amachititsa chidwi - izi ndizofunikira kwambiri pokwaniritsa zolinga);
• kuchotsa maganizo olakwika ndi magwero a zowonjezera (kupatula nthawi ndi anthu achifundo ndi achibale, kubweretsa moyo ndi kunyumba);
• Chotsani zovala zakale (muyenera kupeza malo atsopano ndikudziŵa zomwe zimatanthauza kukhala munthu wamphamvu);
• kuti achite (pokwaniritsa zolinga, muyenera kuyamba kuyamba kuzigwiritsa ntchito popanda kuyang'ana kumbuyo, kuyambira panthawiyi - kutsogolo).

Momwe mungakhalire munthu wamphamvu?

Anthu omwe atsimikiza mtima kusintha miyoyo yawo, amafunika kudziwa momwe angakhalire munthu wamphamvu m'maganizo? Pogwiritsa ntchito malangizo ochepa, mukhoza kupambana:

1. Musadzimvere nokha chisoni (muyenera kuphunzira kukhala ndi udindo pa zochita zanu, osati "kulira pa chiuno" za kusowa chilungamo).
2. Phunzirani kukonda, kuyamikira ndi kulemekeza moyo wanu (simungalole wina kutaya ndi kuyisamalira).
3. Sungani moyo ndikudzaza ndi zabwino, pamene mutaya zomwe sizikugwirizana.
4. Kudzikonda nokha komanso kusayesa kukondweretsa aliyense (padzakhala wina yemwe alibe chirichonse cholawa).
5. Yambani kusintha paokha, musayembekezere thandizo kwa ena.

Nchifukwa chiyani anthu amphamvu ali okhaokha?

Anthu ambiri kamodzi pa moyo wawo adadzifunsanso kuti n'chifukwa chiyani anthu amphamvu ali okhaokha? Zikuwoneka kuti ali ndi chilichonse chokhala ndi moyo wa banja losangalala komanso mabwenzi ambiri. Komabe, pali zinthu zingapo zomwe zingathe kufotokoza udindo umenewu wa atsogoleri. Iwo ali ndi chitsanzo chabwino cha banja ndipo amadziwa zomwe wokondedwayo ayenera kukhala, koma palibe nthawi yokwanira kuti afufuze munthu wopambana. Amzanga a umunthu wotere, komanso, osati zambiri. Iwo samathamangira kuti azidziwana nawo atsopano, ndipo ndi anzanu akale omwe sagwirizana nawo.

Anthu amphamvu a dziko lapansi

"Dziko ndi nkhanza" - ambiri anganene, koma anthu okha omwe alibe mphamvu mu mzimu. Chitsanzo cha umunthu wamphamvu chingatumikire anthu omwe amachititsa chidwi ndi kulemekeza kosawerengeka:

1. Nick Vuychich , wobadwa wopanda miyendo yapamwamba ndi yotsitsa, anakhala bambo wachimwemwe ndipo adapeza kuyitanidwa kwake m'moyo.
2. Esther Werger ndi wosewera mpira wa ku Holland, yemwe ali pa njinga ya olumala kumene ali ndi zaka zisanu ndi zinayi, atatsutsidwa miyendo (dziko lobwerezabwereza ndi championic Olympic).
3. Jim Armstrong ndi membala wa Canada Wheelchair Curling Team (pambuyo pa maliro a mkazi wake, amaletsa ana atatu ndikupitiriza kuchita masewera ake) -ndiyo munthu wamphamvu.
4. Jessica Cox - msungwana yemwe anabadwa wopanda miyendo yakumtunda, akhoza kuyendetsa galimoto ndi kuwuluka ndege ndikugwira bwino ndi makina a makompyuta.
5. Ben Underwood , wachinyamata wa ku California yemwe mosakayikira anakwera njinga, kuwombera pansi, komanso kuchita masewera ena odziwika bwino kwa anyamata a msinkhu wake, ali wosiyana kwambiri ndi zimenezo, ali ndi zaka ziwiri, iye amachotsedwa maso onse chifukwa cha matenda.

Mafilimu onena za anthu omwe ali olimba mu mzimu

Kwa ena okhutira kuti apindule ndi moyo, akatswiri a zamaganizo a zamaganizo amalangiza kuonera mafilimu onena za anthu amphamvu:

1. "Mpaka nditasewera m'bokosi" - filimuyo imakuphunzitsani kuyamikira tsiku lililonse, tk. palibe amene amadziwa zam'tsogolo.
2. "Kupitiliza" - nkhani yokhudza ubale wosasokonezeka wa anthu osiyana, ndizochitika zenizeni.
3. "1 + 1" / Zosayembekezereka - filimuyi imaphunzitsa kuti munthu wamphamvu ndi wotani komanso kuti asadandaule ndi zochitika zosiyanasiyana tsiku ndi tsiku, koma kufikitsa pamtunda.
4. "Wamkulukulu wa kachisi" - filimu yonena za mtsikana wa autistic amene angatsimikizire kuti matendawa sali chopinga kuphunzirira ndi kudzizindikira.

Mabuku okhudza anthu omwe ali olimba mu mzimu

Pangani ndi kusintha nthawi zonse, mphindi iliyonse yaulere. Werengani mabuku onena za anthu amphamvu omwe angakuthandizeni kuyang'ana mwatsopano pazochitika za moyo ndi ziwerengero zowonongeka:

1. "Psychology of influence" - amaphunzitsa molondola kuti azindikire mfundo zowona komanso zooneka bwino ndikupeza chisankho chokha chokha, chosagwirizanitsidwa ndi zochitika ndi anthu.
2. "Momwe mungaleke kuopa ndi kuyamba moyo" - amaphunzitsa momwe mungasonyezere mphamvu yanu yamkati ndikusankha njira yoyenera pamoyo .
3. "Amuna ochokera ku Mars, Akazi a Venus" - athandiza kumvetsetsa maganizo a amuna ndi akazi komanso mavuto omwe akugwirizana nawo, kulimbikitsa maubwenzi ndi theka lina.
4. "Psychology of myths" - amaphunzitsa anthu amphamvu kuzindikira abodza ndi manja awo ndi nkhope zawo.