Mu psychology, pali njira zambiri momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito anthu. Zingakhale zothandiza kwa iwo amene akufuna kuzigwiritsa ntchito kuti akwaniritse zolinga zawo, komanso gulu lonselo, lolimbikitsidwa kuti lizitetezeka ku chikoka cha ena. Nkhaniyi ikukuuzani za njira zosiyanasiyana zokopa.
Kodi mungagwiritse ntchito bwanji anthu ndi mawu ndi zochita?
Nazi njira zofala kwambiri:
- Njira yokhudzana ndi chisamaliro ndi chikondi. Chofunika chake ndi kuchititsa munthu kukhala ndi udindo , komanso mosadziŵa. Mwachitsanzo, mzimayi akufuna kupeza chinachake kuchokera kwa mwamuna wake ndikumukonzekeretsa kukambirana, kukumana ndi kumwetulira, kutenga madzi osamba ndi kusangalala. Pambuyo pa zosangalatsa, mwamunayo sangathe kukana.
- Njira yomwe ikugwirizana ndi kubwereza, omwe amadziwika kuti ndi mayi wa kuphunzira. Njira iyi yowonongolera ndiyo yaikulu mu zida za otsatsa. "Pambuyo pake, ndiwe woyenerera!" - kufuula malonda ndi akazi akuchitidwa, kugula ndalama zambiri pa kugula katundu.
- Kukhoza kuwonetsa anthu kumaphatikizapo njira yogwirizana ndi mayesero. Ndi chidakhwa chotani chomwe chingatsutse musanadze galasi yodzazidwa kapena wokonda akazi patsogolo pa msuzi wina? Zochita zamtundu uliwonse ndi kuchotsera m'masitolo, kukuwa kuti lero zokha mungathe kupeza nthawi yogula katundu pa mtengo, pangani cholinga chogulitsa mankhwalawa.
- Anthu omwe ali ndi chidwi ndi momwe angaphunzitsire anthu kugwiritsa ntchito maganizo a maganizo, ndibwino kugwiritsa ntchito njira yotere yotsutsana ndi boma, yomwe imakhala yachilendo mu nthawi ya USSR, pamene anthu anaitanidwa kuchitetezo ndi kulengeza poyera chifukwa cha vuto lililonse.
- Anthu amene amapempha kuti azigwiritsa ntchito bwino anthu, mungagwiritse ntchito ziphuphu. Monga mukudziwira, nkhondo yolimbana ndi ziphuphu imayendetsedwa ponseponse, koma mpaka kuthetsa kwatha, palinso iwo omwe ali okonzeka kulipira ndi kupereka ntchito.
- Njira ya maganizo opangidwanso, yomwe imapangitsa anthu kupeza zoyenera. Mwachitsanzo, mzimayi akufuna kupita kumapeto kwa mlungu ndi wokondedwa wake, ndipo akupita kukawedza monga mwayi. Kenaka amamuuza zinthu monga: "Ndimasangalala kukhala ndi mwayi wotsitsirana ndipo usiku uno ndipita ndi abwenzi anga ku nightclub." Mwamuna akudabwa, sakufuna kuti mkazi wake apite yekha ndipo amakhala kunyumba.
Inde, izi siziri njira zonse zomwe zilipo, palinso ena. Kugwiritsira ntchito bwino kumadalira makamaka mmene munthu amadziwira bwino, makhalidwe ake, zofooka, ndi zina zotero. Komabe, pogwiritsira ntchito chinyengo, sikofunikira kufotokozera khalidwe la funso, chifukwa mawa wina akufuna kugwiritsa ntchito njirayi kwa inu.