Kodi mungayambe bwanji kukambirana?

Chinthu chovuta kwambiri ndicho kutenga sitepe yoyamba ndipo ziribe kanthu poyerekeza ndi zomwe kapena ngakhale kwa ndani. Izi zikhoza kukhala kuyamba kwakulankhulana ndi mlendo kapena kungokambirana pa mutu waukulu, ngakhale ndi munthu wapafupi. Nthawi zina zimakhala zovuta kuyambitsa kukambirana, koma izi sizikutanthauza kuti sizingatheke, monga zimawonekera poyamba. Chinthu chachikulu ndicho kupeza njira yolondola.

Mmene mungayambire zokambirana ndi munthu: nambala nambala 1

Anthu amamvera chisoni, choyamba, ndi omwe akumwetulira ndi mtima wonse. Ndipo izi zimakhudza momwe tingalankhulire ndi anzathu, ndi onse osadziwa.

Musanayandikire munthu, munthu ayenera kutenga mpweya wochepa, yesetsani kupumula (pambuyo pake, panthawi yovuta, zidzakhala zovuta kwambiri kuti mutenge mimba).

Mmene mungayambire kukambirana: nambala ya nambala 2

Poyamba kukambirana, ndikwanira kulankhula zina mwachindunji, mwachitsanzo, za nyengo. Sitikhala mafunso osasamala za interlocutor. Inde, iwo ayenera kukhala ndi chifukwa. Anthu ambiri amakonda kukamba za "Ine" ndipo ndizosangalatsa kwambiri akamamvetsera, osasokonezedwa.

Onetsetsani kuti mumveketse kayendedwe kazokambirana. Poyambira, ndi bwino kufunsa mafunso omwe amayenera kuti ayankhidwe koposa "inde" ayi, mwachitsanzo: "Nthawizonse ndimakhala ndi malo osangalatsa, kupatulapo iwo amatha kukhala osangalala tsiku lonse. Ndipo nchiyani chimakupatsani chisangalalo? ".

Ndibwino kuyambitsa zokambirana: Bungwe la nambala 3

Moyo wopanda mawu onyoza ndi wosangalatsa. Choncho zokambiranazo ziyenera "kuchepetsedwa" ndi nthabwala zowala (ndithudi, zosagwirizana ndi makhalidwe a munthu wina kapena maonekedwe).

Pomwe mungayambe kukambirana kwakukulu, musayambe ndi mawu akuti: "Ndikufunika kukuuzani chinthu china chofunikira." Nthawi zina zimangowopsya wothandizira. Pachifukwa ichi, nkofunikira kuti nkhaniyi iwonetsenso zokambiranazo. Tiyenera kuyamba mwachindunji, kutseguka kwa interlocutor.