Ngakhale m'nthaŵi zakale, kuwongolera kunatchedwa luso la kukopa, zokongoletsera za kulankhula, zomwe zimaphatikizapo, kukongola kwake, kudziwonetsera, komanso, chikhalidwe.
Kulumikizana pakati pa ziganizo ndi chikhalidwe cha kulankhula
Chikhalidwe cha chilankhulo ndi mawu a ku Russia omwe adatulutsidwa zaka makumi atatu zapitazi kukhala asayansi a ku Russia. Ndilo lingaliro la kulankhula koluntha kwa mtundu uliwonse ndi munthu aliyense. Chiyanjano pakati pa icho ndi chiwonetsero chiri chobisika kwambiri. Pambuyo pake, iwo akuphatikizana. Popanda iwo, popanda kukonzekera, chikhalidwe, munthu akhoza kugwiritsidwa ntchito, kunyengedwa, ndi mwayi wothandizira bwino moyo wawo ndi umoyo wawo. Ndizo luso la kulankhula la munthu aliyense lomwe limatsimikiza kuti ali ndi luso lomveka bwino, kufotokozera mosavuta maganizo ake kwa interlocutor, gulu la anthu.
Chikhalidwe cha malankhulidwe chimatha kutchulidwa ngati mtundu wa ukhondo pazoonekera pamaso pa anthu, kukambirana ndi abwenzi. Luso lophunzitsa luso limathandizira pomanga luso la ntchito, komanso pa moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku. Zimakhala zosangalatsa kwambiri kuti munthu aliyense alankhule ndi munthu yemwe ali ndi liwu labwino, osati ndi munthu yemwe amagwiritsa ntchito mawu osalongosoka omwe sanaganizire kutanthauzira, kapena molakwika amaika zovuta. Zonsezi zimayambitsa munthuyo pa malo osalongosoka mofanana ndi womulankhulana naye. Nthawi zina, chifukwa cha mawu osasuliridwa, kutsutsana kungabwere.
Kukamba mawu ndi luso la kulankhula
Kulankhula kwa anthu ndikumapeto kwa aliyense wa ife ndi chimodzi mwa zida zamphamvu zogwira mtima. Kuti ntchitoyo ipambane, nkofunika kusamalira osati zokhazokha, kufunika kwa mutu, ndondomeko yolongosola, komanso chipolopolo chake. Izi zikuphatikizapo mapangidwe a zomwe zanenedwa, ndipo izi zikuphatikizapo:
- kuika molondola mawu, kulankhula, zomwe zimapangitsa kukhala ndi mtima wodzidalira;
- Kupumula, manja oyenerera amatha kuwonjezera chithunzi cha wokamba nkhani;
- njira yosunthira, pokhala pagulu.
Maphunziro a chikhalidwe ndi chilankhulo amapezeka kwa aliyense. Kuti muzindikire luso ili likutsatira, choyamba, kwa nokha. Mulole kukondweretsa kwatsopano uku kukhala chifukwa china chokhulupirira mwa inueni, kudzidalira nokha.