Ndikulangiza kuyambira kumapeto ena - kuti mupulumutse mphamvu ndi nthawi yanu. Monga akatswiri a zamaganizo amati, kuyesa kupeza mwamuna kukwatira, nthawi zina, ndizosatheka. Zizindikiro zosadziwika kuti ndi o-o-o-chen kutali ndi lingaliro laukwati ndi awa:
- Amayamba kutsokomola, pamene zokambirana zimapita ku njirayi, ndikusintha nkhaniyi ndi chisokonezo chodabwitsa.
- Mukamanena kuti, mwachinsinsi, mwachisawawa, ponena za ukwati, akukuuzani kuti samamuwona posachedwa, ndipo akadakali wamng'ono kwambiri kuti ...
- Amafuna kuthera nthawi yochuluka ndi anzake. Mugule iye magulu a asilikali a tini, ndipo musiyeni mwanayo yekha - msiyeni iye azisewera mpaka atakula.
- Sakukudziwitsani kwa banja lake, ngakhale kuti mwakhala pamodzi kwa zaka ziwiri, ndipo amapewa kudziwana ndi makolo anu, monga mdierekezi wa zofukiza.
- Amafotokoza nthabwala zachipongwe komanso zamwano zokhudza abwenzi ake okwatirana ndi anzawo.
Ndiye inu mumachita chiani?
Ndipo tsopano tiyeni tiwone momwe mungathere ngati simumakakamiza mwamuna kuti akakwatira mwezi umodzi pambuyo pa mnzanuyo, ndiye kuti musamukakamize kumaganiza.
- Musamupatse iye kumverera kwa munthu wodana naye. Dzifunseni nokha kupusa kwake kuyembekezera kuti mwa khalidwe ngati limenelo mudzamupangitsa iye kukwatira. Palibe munthu wamba yemwe sangafune kusokoneza ndi mkazi yemwe ali pamwamba pamutu pa moyo wake wonse ndi maofesi monga: "Amuna onse ndi owopsa!".
- Musadzipatse muyeso ya msungwana wosadziletsa, womasuka, yemwe ali ndi chikondi cholimba ndi mazana a masewera akufa kuchokera ku chikondi chonse chopanda kukwaniritsidwa m'madera onse. Ngati awona kuti sangathe kukukhulupirirani, funso la momwe mungamuthandizire munthu ameneyu kuti akwatire yekha adzalandira mpweya kwa ... bwino, kwa zaka zambiri!
- Onetsani ulemu kwa achibale ake ndi abwenzi ake (ngakhale ngati mukugwedeza kwa iwo ndi mantha aakulu), Popeza izi ndizo nthawi yaitali zatsimikiziridwa ndi amayi momwe angapezere mwamuna aliyense kuti akwatire. Zisonyezero za kuti mumadziwa bwino anthu omwe ali pafupi naye, kumapereka njira yopita kumalo okondedwa omwe ali ndi chida cholimba kwambiri kuposa china chilichonse.
- Ziribe kanthu kuti mukufuna kukakamiza munthu kuti akwatire yekha, nthawi zonse sungaganize kuti ukwati ndi mapeto okha. Palibe munthu amene angakonde kumverera zonyansa m'manja mwa msaki kumbuyo kwa scalps. M'malo mwake, um'limbikitseni ndi lingaliro lakuti chiyembekezo chaukwati chimangobisika chifukwa mumamukonda.
- Mofananamo, musadzipangitse nokha kuti mutayika komanso mukusowa chotsalira - m'malo mwake, onetsetsani kuti mukukhala ndi chidaliro komanso kudzidalira. Ndi makhalidwe awa a mkazi wamtsogolo amene amakopeka munthu.
- Muwonetseni iye kuti moyo ndi inu udzakhala wodzaza ndi zodabwitsa zodabwitsa. Sinthani maonekedwe anu, funsani zosangalatsa zatsopano ndikumuuza za iwo. Kodi ndingapezenso nokha kukwatira ndekha, kupatula kumumangirira nthawi zonse? Zomwe zimakhazikitsidwa nthawi zonse komanso zamaganizo za m'zaka za zana lotsatira zimadzudzula munthu aliyense, choncho pangani pang'ono, misala ya chiwerewere mu ubale wanu.
- Musadandaule kosatha, musakhale osayera ndipo musamuwonetse kusakhutira kwanu nthawi zonse ndi chinachake. Kuyambira nthawi ina, zonsezi zimayamba kumveka ngati mbiri yofooka, yomwe ndi nthawi yoti iponye. Kutsata mbale mu zinyalala kungathe kutsatidwa ndi funso la momwe angamupangire iye kukwatira iwe.
- M'lingaliro loyenera, yesetsani kumusamalira pa mavuto ake, ndipo mumulole iye amve kuti akhoza kudalira pa inu. Ngati nthawi zonse mumangoganizira za mavuto anu komanso momwe mungamuthandizire kuti akwatirane, mudzayenera kuyang'ana munthu wina osati zovala zaukwati.
- Phunzirani chinachake chophika, mwinamwake munthu angayambe bwanji famu nawe?
- Bwanji? Kodi mukuganiza kuti nthawi yathu ino imapangitsa mwamuna kukwatira msungwana yemwe sangathe kulipira ngongole kunyumba kwake kapena kulandira chiphuphu chake chozizira? Kodi ndinu wodziimira zachuma? Ngati ayi, khalani mwamsanga!
- Zomwe - nkomwe! - musamayese ulemu wake wamwamuna, ndipo musamuchititse manyazi kumbali kapena pagulu. Izi sizilandiridwa!
Yang'anani zomwe mumanena panthawi ya mkangano. Izi sizingathetsedwe!
Zida zamphamvu
Ngati mutayesa zonsezi, komanso funso la momwe mungamuthandizire kuti akwatirane naye, ndipo simunayankhe, yesani kutsatira zotsatirazi:
- Kutali pang'ono kuchokera pa izo, kusankha ngati chifukwa chokhala ndi ntchito yambiri, kapena dzipe nokha paulendo ndi chibwenzi chako. Komabe mungathe, pangani zolemba zazing'ono zokhudzana ndi zochitika zanu zonse, kumuuza kuti mukusowa nthawi yoganizira za moyo wanu. Zonsezi ziyenera kumukhumudwitsa - choonadi, ngati akukukondani.
- Ngati, pambuyo pa zonsezi, akusewera gawo la anthu a Chitchaina osamvetsa Chirasha, muuzeni mosapita m'mbali kuti miyezi ikubwerayo ayenera kusankha ngati ali wokonzeka kupanga mgwirizano wanu. Komabe, ngati muika chiwonongeko, muyenera kukhala okonzeka kuti mumutsatire nokha. Ndiye taganizirani izi. Ngati mwakhala mukuyesera kupeza momwe mungamuthandizire munthu uyu kuti akwatirane naye kwa zaka zitatu ndikuyembekezerapo njira yovuta yochokera kwa iye, mulibe zaka zitatu zomwe zatsala ndikusunga - ndikuzigwiritsanso ntchito mosayembekezera. Ziribe kanthu kuti zimakhala zopweteka ndi zopweteka bwanji, yesetsani kumvetsa izi: ngati sanasankhepo kuti ndinu mtsikana wa maloto ake, mwina simungathe! Koma, ngati choncho, n'chifukwa chiyani anafunikira iwe?
- Zifukwa zopanda kukonzekera kukhala pachibwenzi chifukwa cha mavuto azachuma, mulibe maziko olimba.
Mavuto otere akhalapo ndipo adzakhalapo nthawi zonse, koma palibe munthu amene amasankha kugawana moyo wake ndi mkazi wina, samakhala mukuyembekezera nthawi yomwe iye, potsirizira pake, adzakhala mamilioni. Ndipo ngati munthuyu akufuna kuti atuluke, amangozipeza.
N'zomvetsa chisoni, koma sizingatheke kuti wokondedwa wanu akwatirane nthawi zina. Tinayamba ndi zochitika za akatswiri a maganizo, ndipo timatha ndi mawu a ziwerengero. Kawirikawiri munthu amapereka chopereka kwa wosankhidwa wake kwa zaka 1.5 kuchokera tsiku limene akudziwana nawo - kapena samachita konse.