Chikhalidwe cha anthu chomwe chilengedwe chimapanga mosakayikira chimakhudza kwambiri njira yonse ya mapangidwe ake, ngakhale sikuti chokha chofunikira chomwe chimapangitsanso chitsogozo cha chitukuko chake.
Ndiuzeni kumene mukuchokera, ndipo ndikuuzani kuti ndinu ndani
Mwalamulo kapena ayi, dziko lirilonse, ngakhale m'mayiko otukuka kwambiri, likugawidwa ku castes mwa njira imodzi, ndipo ndi chikhalidwe chiti cha anthu momwe chikhalidwe cha munthu chimakwiriridwira, ndipo m'tsogolomu, munthu aliyense akuzungulira, makamaka akusonyeza makhalidwe, makhalidwe abwino makhalidwe a khalidwe lake.
Zimakhulupirira kuti kupeza malingaliro ena ndi maluso a moyo wa munthu pa chikhalidwe cha anthu, poyamba pozungulira, chodabwitsa ndi chachilendo kuti ochepa akhoza kuyesa kutsutsa. Ngakhale kuti, sikuti zonse zili zophweka, ndipo sizingatheke kuti mwana m'banja la zidakwa kapena mankhwala osokoneza bongo apitirize kuyenda mofanana ndi makolo ake ndipo alibe mwayi wolowa mwa anthu. Chilichonse chiri chotheka m'moyo, ngati wina alibe mwayi ndi chilengedwe, ndiye kuti adzachita zochulukirapo kuti apite ku malo apamwamba a masitepe kusiyana ndi anthu omwe anali ndi mwayi wobadwira ndi okhwima mwa wolemera, anthu amasiku ano, zochitika.
Momwe mungayitanire, kotero muyankha
Kuyanjana kwa chikhalidwe cha anthu ndi munthuyo ndi ndondomeko yawiri ndi yodalirana ndi zomwe zimatchedwa boomerang . Mwa kuyankhula kwina, momwe mumachitira anthu, kotero iwo adzakuchitirani inu. Cholinga chachikulu chimene anthu ambiri amawunikira mamembala awo, ndipotu, chiwerengero chawo chotsatira ndondomeko ya chikhalidwe cha anthu, zomwe poyamba zimaphatikizapo kusunga miyambo ya makhalidwe yomwe anthu omwe apatsidwa (kapena gulu linalake).