Ponena za tsiku loyamba, funso loti ndi losangalatsa kumudabwa ndi mnyamata sikoyenera - zonse zidzakhala zachilendo, zosayembekezereka. Koma ngati misonkhano ikuchitika kwa nthawi yaitali, ndiye lingaliro la "momwe angadabwe ndi munthu ali pabedi?" Amapita mobwerezabwereza, chifukwa magazini a amayi nthawi zonse amatiuza za chikhumbo cha amuna chosiyana pa kugonana, choncho tiyenera kufanana.
Kodi mungadabwe bwanji ndi mnyamata?
- Ngati simukudziwa kuti mungadabwe bwanji munthu ali pabedi, yesetsani kupsompsona. Kodi mukuganiza kuti izi ndizosatheka? Kodi mwawunika? Pakuti kumpsompsona sikokwanira kwa ife nkhope ndi khosi, pa thupi chifukwa cha kuchuluka kwa zowonongeka, kuyenda momwe mungakondweretse wokonda wanu mosangalala, kuchuluka kwa zosangalatsa zomwe mungapeze pakupsompsona. Inde, zotsatira zimangokhala ngati simunasewere monga chonchi. Kotero, tiyeni tiyambe. Timayambira pa khosi, timatembenukira ku chifuwa, osasiya nsapato, osapita kumbuyo. Dera lomwe lili pakati pa mapewa, mzere wa msana - timaphimba ndi zopsopsona zonse. Ndiye tibwerera ku chifuwa ndi m'mimba, tifuuzani pang'onopang'ono malowa. Zomwe zatheka sizimayima, kutembenukira kwa omwe mukufuna kwambiri malo amodzi a amayi a mthupi. Kukulitsa malingaliro ndi kukondweretsa kwambiri, chingwe chimatha kubisa khungu ndi kukonza kandulo kuzungulira chipindacho ndi fungo losangalatsa kapena nyali ndi nyali zonunkhira.
- Kuzoloŵera ku chithunzi china? Kotero musinthe izo, kubwereranso kuchokera kwa msungwana womvera kupita ku mphaka wakutchire. Inde, kuchita talente n'kofunika, koma amanena kuti m'mayi aliyense wochita masewero amatha. Ndipo kawirikawiri, yesetsani machitidwe osiyana a khalidwe, kukhala pa nthawi yomwe mwana ali ndi maso osayang'ana, kapena wopambana kwambiri wa seductress amene angathe kumusangalatsa munthu.
- Njira iyi ndi kupitiliza koyambirira, koma pano pangatenge zowonjezereka kuti azikhala m'chithunzichi, chifukwa ndi za masewero owonetsera. Funsani mnzanuyo za malingaliro ake, mwinamwake iye amaganiza kuti zovala za namwino ndizovuta kwambiri, kapena maloto ake obisika ndi woyang'anira. Chabwino, mwinamwake palibe chomwe chimakondweretsa wokondedwa wanu, monga chovala cha amayi chokhala ndi aprononi imodzi ya lace? Kapena m'malo mwake, amawerengedwa m'ma Amazons omwe ali mwana? Ndiye iwe uyenera kuti ubadwenso mu mkazi wolimba ndi wamphamvu wamphamvu, yemwe angamulandire modzimangira iye wamndende.
- Mumamva nyimbo zabwino ndi kuvina? Ndiye ziyenera kuwonetsera maluso awa kwa wokondedwa wanu pakuvina seti. Ngati pali vuto ndi kuvina, ndiye kuti ndi bwino kuyendera maphunziro ochepa chabe, izi zimapatsa mwana wanu zosangalatsa (monga iye, amayesa, amatha nthawi), ndipo mudzapeza chidaliro ndi chidwi. Chifukwa palibe chiwerewere china kuposa mkazi yemwe ali ndi thupi lake mwangwiro.
- Amuna amakonda maso, chabwino? Ndipo ife, kupitilizabe ndi maganizo awa, kuvala zowonongeka, kugwiritsira ntchito mapangidwe apamwamba ndi kupanga mazokongoletsedwe a maso. Ndipo bwanji osadzikongoletsa nokha?
Mwachitsanzo, penyani tsitsi, muzikongoletsa pachifuwa ndi zikopa kapena m'chiuno mwachitsulo chosangalatsa. Ndipo mukhoza kupanga zolemba. Zoona, ngati simukufuna kudzikongoletsa nokha kuti mukhale ndi moyo, timachita zojambula zosakhalitsa pamalo omwe amakonda kwambiri osankhidwa anu. Zomwe mungakoke, dzipangire nokha, mwachitsanzo, mukhoza kusangalatsa kudzikuza kwa mnzanuyo poyika thupi lake chizindikiro kapena dzina lake. - Lembani pa makadi anu zilakolako za kugonana, ziike zonse mu mtsuko ndi kusakaniza. Limbikitsani tsiku lililonse kuti mutulutse khadi limodzi (kapena mwinamodzi osati panthawi imodzi) ndikukwaniritsa zolinga zomwe zili pa pepala. Inde, osaiwala kusinthana ndi wojambula ndi kasitomala, kotero kuti chirichonse chinali chowona mtima.
Yambani ndi njira izi, ndipo ngati chiyanjano chikukula, mwinamwake mudzabwera ndi chinachake chatsopano pa momwe mungadabwe ndi munthu wogonana. Kotero ife timayima kupondaponda mapazi athu ndi kunena "Ine ndikufuna kudabwa mnyamata, koma ine sindikudziwa bwanji," ndipo ife tikupitirizabe kuchitapo kanthu.