Kuti mukhale wokonda bwino, sikofunika kuchotsa amuna ena , kuwononga mabanja. Monga mukudziwira, mkazi wabwino ayenera kukhala ndi talente yakubadwanso mwatsopano. Kotero, mu khitchini kuti akhale mkulu wapamwamba, mmisamaliro - mkazi wanzeru kwambiri ndi mayi wa ana ake, m'chipinda chodyera - mbuye waubwenzi, kutetezera nyumba ya pabanja, ndi pabedi - akambuku okondeka, omwe amatha kumuthandiza mwamuna wake kuti asatope chifukwa cha chikondi.
Pali zinsinsi zambiri za momwe mungakhalire wokonda bwino. Tiyeni tione mwatsatanetsatane aliyense wa iwo.
Kodi mungakhale bwanji mbuye wabwino?
Kuti muonetsetse kuti mgwirizano wanu sungathe, umayenera kukhalabe pamtundu woyenera mbali iliyonse, kuphatikizapo kukula kwa chikondi chomwe chimatonthoza. Kapena, ngati mudakali kufunafuna wina wanu ndikuyesera kumvetsetsa momwe mungakhalire wabwino kuposa mkazi aliyense, mutapambana munthu amene mumamukonda, ndiye mverani mfundo zotsatirazi.
- Choncho, ngati mukufuna nthawi zonse kukwaniritsa mnzanu kapena kukhala mbuye wabwino kwa munthu aliyense, muyenera kukumbukira kuti mu ubale wapamtima ntchito yofunikira imayimbidwa ndiyambidwe. Musaope kutenga izo. Mu malo omwe simukuli, yesetsani kusuntha. Onetsani mnzanu yemwe mumamulakalaka chikondi monga momwe amachitira. Ngati simukufuna kukhumudwa nanu, monga mbuye wabwino, musakhale mu bedi la "log". Gwiritsani ntchito m'chiuno mwanu. Pangani mapulasitiki a thupi lanu
- Musaope konse kuyesera. Kumbukirani kuti amachoka kwa akazi omwe adapangitsa kuti kugonana kukhala chinthu chodabwitsa. Kuti muteteze izi kuti zisadzachitike, phunzirani zochitika zatsopano za alfabeti ya chikondi. Chifukwa chakuti muli ndi chilakolako choyesera china chatsopano, mwinamwake, ngakhale chodabwitsa, palibe chochititsa manyazi. Kumbukirani kuti mwa munthu aliyense amakhala Columbus, amene akuyesetsa kupeza zatsopano. Ngati mutamva uphungu kuchokera kwa mnzanuyo kuti muyesere chinthu china chatsopano kwa inu usiku uno, musamangotenga chilichonse mwakamodzi. Gwiritsani ntchito zosankhidwa ngati masewera atsopano, momwe padzakhala maphwando omwe amakupatsani chisangalalo.
- Ziribe kanthu momwe izo zimamvekera zachilendo, koma kuti mumvetse momwe zingakhalire bwinoko kuposa mbuye aliyense, wokhoza kutsogolera wokondedwa wanu, muyenera kuphunzira kukana. Musadzipangitse nokha chilakolako cha kugonana. Kwenikweni uyenera kukhala ndi malo ako, maganizo ako. Pambuyo pake, ngati mulibe chikhumbo chochita zomwe zingatheke kuti mukhale ntchito yovuta m'chipinda chogona, ndiye kuti sikungakhale kwanzeru kupereka nsembe yonyada ndi ulemu chifukwa cha izo. Amuna amalemekeze ndi kuyamikira makamaka amayi omwe amakonda ndi kulemekeza, poyamba, kwa iwo okha. Mukhoza kunena "ayi" ngati mukuyesera kuti mupangitse chinachake chopanda pake.
- Pansi ndi maofesi! Ngati mukuganiza kuti simukuwoneka ngati chithunzi pa chivundikiro cha gloss, izi sizikutanthauza kuti muyenera kugonana pansi pa bulangete, kutseka kuwala.
Munthu aliyense ali ndi chidziwitso chake chayekha chabwino kwa thupi lachikazi, choncho, musachite manyazi ngakhale mwa mawonekedwe ake kapena maonekedwe ake onse. Onetsetsani kuti bamboyo panthawiyi sangaganizire za cellulite kapena ayikidwa khungu m'matumbo.
Oimira chigawo cholimba cha umunthu sadzakana kuyang'ana njira yokonzanso chikondi. Ndipo izi zikutanthauza kuti muyenera kusiya zovuta zanu ndikudzikumbutsanso za zomwe tazitchula m'ndime yoyamba.
Musati mukhale pansi pa bedi. Ngati mukufuna kufuula ndi kusangalala ndi zosangalatsa, chitani, motero muwonetseni mnzanuyo kuti akhoza kukukondweretsani.
Musaiwale kuti kuti mukhale ambuye osamvetsetseka kwa mnzako, muyenera kuyikapo malingaliro pa zochita zanu zonse zokhudzana ndi iye.