Akazi akhala akumenyera ufulu wawo kwa zaka mazana ambiri. Chifukwa cha chilungamo, timadziwa kuti adalandira. Koma pamodzi ndi ufulu, adalandira mwayi wina wowonjezera. Tsopano, kuchokera kwa amayi ndi atsikana, ntchitoyi mu nyumba iliyonse ndipo osati nkhani zokha zinayamba kubwera nthawi zambiri. Ndiponso, palibe amene adzadabwa ndi zomwe zimakhalapo pamene woimira chiwerewere wokondana adzamuuza mwamuna kuti akhale mbanja. Koma pakadali pano msungwanayo ali ndi mafunso ambiri, sakudziwa momwe angamuperekere mnyamatayo. Mfundo yakuti abambo amachitabe zimenezi nthawi zambiri, amakhala ndi zovuta zambiri m'dera lino. Nthawi zambiri, bambo awo nthawi zonse amawathandiza ndi uphungu. Ndipo mtsikana ayenera kuchita chiyani? Kwa yemwe iye akutembenukira? Amayi omwe ali ndi vuto lomwelo sangathe kuthandizira, kuyambira ali achinyamata akadali ochepa kwambiri. Izi zinamupweteka mtsikanayo poganiza kuti angamuitane mwakachetechete komanso mosakayika kuti athandize mnyamata, kapena momwe angachitire iye mwiniyo. Tidzayesera kuthandizira kuthetsa vutoli.
Mungapereke bwanji mnyamata kuti akakomane naye?
Ngati mukumverera mwachikondi kwa mnyamata, koma simukudziwa momwe mungapangire mapazi oyambirira kwa iye, ndiye mutha kutsatira ndondomeko yathu.
Poyamba, msungwanayo ayenera kudziwa chifukwa chake munthuyo samamuitanira kukakumana naye. Zifukwa zikhoza kukhala zingapo, monga zoyenera, ndi njira zingapo kuti chitukuko chichitike.
Chifukwa choyamba ndi chakuti mnyamatayo watanganidwa ndi mtsikana wina. Zikatero, inu mukhoza kuyesa kubwezera, koma momwe mungakhalire bwino, mukudziwa, mwinamwake, ndi munthu yekhayo.
Chifukwa chachiwiri ndikuti simukumufuna. Eya, palibe amene adanena kuti zingakhale zophweka ndipo sizikutsimikiziridwa kuti maganizo anu ndi ogwirizana. Koma mu mkhalidwe uno, si onse omwe atayika. Lero inu simukumukonda, ndipo mawa akhoza kukhala ndi chidwi ndi inu. Ndipo ntchito yanu ndikutsimikiza kuti amadziwa bwino momwe mungakhalire ndi makhalidwe abwino.
Ndipo chifukwa chachitatu ndi manyazi ake. Pankhaniyi, zidzakhala zosavuta kuti muchitepo, chifukwa mnyamatayo akufuna kukumana nanu, koma sakuyesera kuti asonyezepo kanthu. Choncho, zonse zili m'manja mwako, pemphani kuti adzikane naye, koma panthawi imodzimodziyo musakhale wowongolera, kumuopseza munthuyo.
Tsopano ife tipereka njira zingapo momwe mungaperekere mnyamata kuti akakomane.
- Mukhoza kumupempha kuti akuthandizeni, ndipo motero amakopeka "mumsampha". Mwachitsanzo, pemphani kuti akuthandizeni kuthana ndi chipangizo chovuta, kapena kuyeretsa kompyuta yanu ya mavairasi, kapena chinachake chonga icho. Ndipo mukakumana naye panyumba, mwapereka kumwa tiyi ndi makeke anu ophika, onetsetsani kuti mukufunikira kuti mumuthandize, kuti muyanenso naye, komanso ngati chizindikiro
zikomo mumamuitanira ku cafe (paki, circus, etc.). Kawirikawiri, nyumbayo ikuchitapo kanthu. - Ngati muli ndi ubale wabwino ndi mnyamata, ndiye kuti mungagwiritse ntchito wina kuchokera kwa anzanu omwe mumacheza nawo. Mulole bwenzi lanu kapena bwenzi lanu limvekere kwa mnyamata yemwe amakukondani, kuti musaganize kuti muzikhala naye nthawi, koma mukuchita manyazi kukufikirani nokha. Potero, mungathe, mungathe kupeza munthu woti amupatse.
- Ngati mulibe abwenzi omwe angakwaniritse ntchito yodalirika, ndiye kuti makalata apakompyuta ndi mapepala angakuthandizeni. Ndipo ngati mphuno yako ndi tsiku la Valentine, ndiye kuti chochitika ichi chidzakuthandizani kuzindikira. Mumagula valentine, kapena mumapanga nokha, lembani ndikutumiza. Ngati mnyamata ali ndi chidziwitso chodziwika bwino kwa inu, ndiye kuti amvetsetsa malingaliro anu pomwepo. Koma samalani, zikutheka kuti patsiku limenelo simudzakhala woyenera kutsutsana pa mtima waulere wa kalonga wanu.