Maximimalism amapezeka kwambiri pakati pa achinyamata, koma anthu ena amanyamula mwa iwo okha m'moyo wawo wonse. Njira imeneyi ya moyo imaonetsa chizolowezi chochita zinthu mopitirira muyeso. Kwa anthu otero pali wakuda ndi woyera - osati mthunzi umodzi wa imvi. Iwo ali osagonjera, osasamala komanso ovuta kulankhulana. Tanthauzo la liwu lakuti "maximumimalism" (kuchokera ku Chilatini kwambiri, lalikulu kwambiri) limatanthauza chikhumbo chokwaniritsa chirichonse mwakamodzi, ndi khama lochepa.
Maximimalism achinyamata: zaka
Monga lamulo, maximalism mu mawonekedwe ake amayamba pamene mwana salinso mwana, koma osati munthu wamkulu, ndiko kuti, kuyambira zaka 13 mpaka 17. Nthawi zina malire amenewa akhoza kusintha. Pazaka izi, ana akuyamba kukangana ndi makolo awo , akudandaula kuti sangakwanitse moyo wamasiku ano, ndipo malingaliro a abwenzi awo, monga lamulo, ndi ofunikira kwambiri kuposa bungwe la makolo. Ndicho chiwerengero chachikulu cha zopanda pake komanso zopusa zimene ana amachita nthawi zambiri pazaka zovuta kwambiri.
Achinyamata amakana chirichonse chimene makolo awo amawawona, ndipo amathandizana ndi makampani a achinyamata ndi ma subcultures , omwe aliyense amawoneka ngati ali - kusiyana kwakukulu pakati pa zabwino ndi zoipa komanso osadziŵa bwino za zosankha zambiri. Achinyamata amaganiza kuti achikulire sakudziwa moyo, amawasokoneza kwambiri - ndipo amakhala ndi moyo wosalira zambiri, osangalatsa komanso osangalatsa kwambiri!
Kupsya mtima, kufulumira, kudzikonda, kuphatikizapo kusowa kwa moyo nthawi zambiri kumapangitsa achinyamata kukhala ndi zotsatira zoopsa - koma uwu ndi moyo, ndipo aliyense ayenera kupanga zolakwa zawo.
Tiyenera kuzindikira kuti nthawi yathu mumatha kukomana ndi anthu akuluakulu, omwe adakali ndi khalidwe la maximalism. Kawirikawiri zimawoneka ngati zachilendo pamene munthu wamkulu, yemwe ali kale ndi chidziwitso chabwino, amathabe kuchoka pamwambo wochuluka kwambiri - koma pa nthawiyi munthu akhoza kuona maximalism monga khalidwe la khalidwe.
Maximimalism achinyamata mwa atsikana
Mu theka lachikazi, gawo ili ndi losangalatsa kwambiri. Msungwana yemwe adasewera zidole zaka zingapo zapitazo, mwadzidzidzi amadziwa kuti nthawi ya maseŵera yadutsa. Iye ali wokonzeka kumenyana ndi onse chifukwa cha malingaliro ake atsopano, iye amafunikira chirichonse mwakamodzi, ndipo pa "wofooka" ali wokonzeka kuchita chirichonse, akuganiza kuti akutsimikizira mphamvu ya umunthu wake, ndipo samasonyeza kufooka kwake.
Ndi nthawi yomwe asungwana amayamba kuyesa zosavuta kupanga ndi zovala kuti aziwoneka okhwima. Kawirikawiri, pamodzi ndi atsikana omwe akukula "akukula" akuyesera, kutsanzira abwenzi odziwa zambiri, kulawa ndi kuletsedwa zipatso, kaya ndi kugonana, mowa, kusuta kapena mankhwala osokoneza bongo. Izi, mwinamwake, ndizovuta kwambiri, chifukwa psyche yofooka ya izi nthawi zina imavulala kwambiri.
Maximism: momwe mungapindulire?
Chinthu chofunika kwambiri chomwe chimapatsa maximalism - ichi ndi mphamvu yowopsa. Ngati mukuwatsogolera m'njira yoyenera, mukhoza kukonzekera kuyamba bwino kwa moyo wanu.
Koposa zonse, ngati asanakhalepo msinkhu, mwanayo adasankha pazochita zodzikongoletsa. Anyamata omwe akuvina, masewera, zojambula ndi zina zojambula zomwe zimatenga nthawi yambiri yaulere, monga lamulo, sakhala ndi zotsatira zovuta za maximalism, monga kuyesa "kukula" mofulumira. Ndipo ngati mtsikana kapena mnyamata ali ndi cholinga chokwaniritsa zambiri m'munda wosankhidwa, ndiye kuti zolinga zomwe zimaphatikizapo maximalism zidzangowonjezera. Chinthu chofunikira kwambiri ndi kukhazikitsa zolinga zenizeni ndikupitiliza kupita kwa iwo, osayesa kupambana chirichonse popanda kukonzekera koyamba.