Ambiri samvetsa kuti kugonana kumatanthauza chiyani komanso chifukwa chake n'kofunika. Komanso, atsikana nthawi zambiri amachita mantha: "Bwanji ngati akufuna kukhala yekha ndipo sangabwererenso?". Ndipo, ngakhale zili choncho, ndikumangika mu ubale womwe nthawi zina umalola munthu kukhalabe ndi maganizo.
Kodi pali kutha kwa ubalewu?
Nthaŵi yapadera imeneyi, yomwe ingakhale yofunikira, imakhala ndi zolinga zabwino kwambiri. Kukana kuyankhulana ndi munthu, mungathe kuchepetsa mikangano, kukana kudzudzula, kuchoka pa zodandaula. Kuwonjezera apo, panthawi yopuma mungathe kuzindikira kufunika kwa ubalewo, kapena mosiyana, kuti iwo atopa kale.
Inde, izi sizikugwirizana ndi mabanja onse, koma ambiri mwa iwo omwe adagwiritsa ntchito, pambuyo pake, ndi changu chachikulu, adakondana. Pambuyo pake, ngati malingaliro ali enieni, kupatukana kumangowalimbikitsa, ndikupangitsa kuti banja likhale pafupi.
Kodi mungakonze bwanji chibwenzi?
Kawirikawiri, nthawi yowonjezera imafunika pamene anthu adya moyo, kapena chochitika chosasangalatsa chinachitika. Kusokoneza chiyanjano kuyenera kukhazikitsidwa mosamala, musanayambe kukambirana, kotero kuti panthawiyi palibe mavuto ena. Ndi bwino kukambirana mfundo zotsatirazi:
- Kodi udzayamba liti kuswa ndipo mudzamaliza liti? Kawirikawiri masiku 10-14 ndi okwanira. Kwa nthawi yaitali mutha kukwiya, ndipo muyenera kuyesedwa kwa munthu ameneyu, zomwe zimakhala zovuta kwambiri.
- Kodi mumayitana panthawi yopuma kapena musokoneze kulankhulana kwathunthu? Izi ziyenera kukambidwa mofulumira, kotero kuti palibe zolakwa. Inde, kupuma kosavuta kwambiri kulibe kuyankhulana konse, koma mukhoza kukambirana ndikuitana masiku atatu onse.
- Kawirikawiri aliyense amalonjeza kuti sangalole
panthawi yopuma yomwe sakanalola kuti azigwirizana. Kuphatikizanso, mungathe kuonjezeranso mfundo zozama. Kupumula sikuli kupuma, ndikudziwitsa nokha zakugonana kapena zinthu zofanana, ndipo kuti izi ndizofotokozedwa bwino ndi zonsezi, ndi bwino kunena izi mosiyana.
Ndikofunika kufotokoza chifukwa chake mukufunikira kusokoneza chiyanjano. Ikani nokha pamalo a mnzanu - pempho lanu likhoza kumunyoza ndi losasangalatsa kwa iye. Ndikofunika kukambirana zonse pasadakhale, kapena kupeza chifukwa chabwino - mwachitsanzo, kunena kuti agogo anu amafunikira kusamalidwa, ndipo mumakhala naye nthawi yokha, pitirizani ulendo wa bizinesi, ndi zina zotero. Pachifukwa ichi, simungathe kunena kuti "kusweka mu ubale" - ziwoneka ngati chokakamizidwa, choncho sichikhumudwitsa mnzanuyo.