"Osati kuti apindule yekha, koma kuti akwaniritse chifuniro cha mkazi wodwala" - kumbukirani mawu awa a Bambo Fyodor kuchokera ku ntchito zosakhoza kufa za Ilf ndi Petrov "Mipando khumi ndi iwiri"? Ndizosadabwitsa kwa ife njira yolankhulira, molondola? Koma ngakhale zosavuta kwenikweni ndi mawu akuti "umbombo", kuchokera ku mawu omwe tatchulawa tingathe kuganiza kuti lingaliroli liri ndi malingaliro oipa. Koma kodi izi nthawi zonse zimakhala choncho?
Kodi "kudzikonda" kumatanthauza chiyani?
Mawu akuti umbombo ali ndi tanthawuzo limodzi, ndizosangalatsa kuti tanthawuzo lapachiyambi la mawu linali losiyana kwambiri ndi lero. Kotero, poyamba mawu akuti kudzikonda ankatanthauza phindu lokha, phindu kapena kukonda. Kupanda phindu kunali m'mawu odzikonda kapena odzikonda, zomwe zimatanthauza chilakolako chodzidzimutsa kuchotsa pa chirichonse kuti chikhale chopindulitsa, ndi kusakhumba kukwasa chala chala, ngati sichilonjeza phindu, ngakhale kuli kochepa. Kotero, pamene mawu akuti "osati kudzikonda okha chifukwa cha, koma kokha ..." amapezeka mu epic, zimatanthauza kuti munthuyo samapindula yekha, ndipo osati kuyesera kuti munthu woipa ndi woipa awoneke bwino kwa ena.
Lero, lingaliro la kudzikonda liri ndi lingaliro lokha lokha, lokhala ndi mtengo wa chilema chimene chiyenera kuthetsedwa. Komanso lingaliro limeneli likugwiritsidwa ntchito mu lamulo lachigawenga, kukhala cholinga cha chigawenga.
Vuto la kudzikonda
Mosakayikira, vuto la kudzikonda pa dziko lamakono liri lovuta kwambiri. Kutumiza ndi malipoti okhudza zikondwerero zimapangitsa maloto onse atatu kuti akhale ndi moyo wokongola. Tili ndi kalembedwe kuti chuma ndicho njira yokhayo yokhalira wachimwemwe, timakonda kuganizira zachilendo omwe amatsatira moyo wosavuta ndipo samathamangira pamwamba pa piramidi ya chakudya. Choncho chikhumbo chopeza ndalama zambiri, ndalama zakhala zikukhala cholinga cha moyo. Ndipo izi zimayesa kuyesa zopindulitsa pazochitika zilizonse, popanda kuchititsidwa manyazi ndi makhalidwe abwino ndi makhalidwe abwino. Komanso, m'magulu amasiku ano, fano ndilofunika kwambiri, kuti anthu akhalebe okonzeka, nthawi zambiri amakhala okonzeka kuchita zoipa. Ndipo pokhala Msamaria wabwino tsopano mosasangalatsa, polemekeza ulemu wokondweretsa anthu, amadzikonda kwambiri kuti apeze phindu.
Koma umbombo ukhoza kutenga mitundu yonyansa. Ndi kangati timawawona anthu akuyimira makampani akuluakulu ogulitsa ogulitsa, akupereka ndalama kuti apulumutse zinyama, pothandizira zipatala za ana, ndi zina zotero. Funsani chomwe chiri cholakwika apa? Palibe, kupatula kuti zonsezi zimachitidwa pazinthu zamagulu, chabwino, chinyengo, ndithudi. Ndikosavuta kupereka gawo laling'ono la phindu ku "zobiriwira" kapena mabungwe azachipatala kusiyana ndi kulipira ndalama zochititsa chidwi kuti zipangidwe bwino, kotero kuti mavuto a chilengedwe ndi matenda omwe amayamba chifukwa cha kuwonongeka kwa chilengedwe samawuka. Koma ambiri amangoona mbali yeniyeni ya nkhaniyi, ndipo makampani ndi anthu oterewa amatchedwa opactors, osati zolengedwa, zonyansa mu ndalama zawo.
Komanso, sitiyenera kuiwala kuti chiwongolerochi nthawi zambiri chimapangitsa anthu kuti achite zachiwawa. Koma ndizofunikira kusiyanitsa umbombo waumphawi ndi umbombo wa olemera, monga Aristotle adanena. Omwe akufuna kukhala owonjezera, ndipo amangofuna kukhutiritsa zosowa zawo zoyambirira. Chodabwitsa n'chakuti boma limapereka chidwi kwambiri ku zolakwa zomwe anthu osauka amachita, osati ndi olemera, omwe
Koma, monga chodabwitsa chirichonse, pali mbali ina yodzikonda. Pamwamba pafotokozedwa zomwe zimachitika munthu akamumvera, koma mukhoza kuikapo chidwi pa ntchito yanu. Kukoma mtima ndi kudzikonda ndizo makhalidwe abwino, koma pali anthu ambiri padziko lapansi amene akufuna kugwiritsa ntchito izi. Onetsani chidwi chawo kwa iwo omwe "amakhala pansi pa khosi" (mwachitsanzo, kwa mkulu amene akukutsani ntchito zambiri kwa inu ndipo amakana kulandira malipiro ake chaka chachitatu) sikuti ndi wochimwa, kupatula masaya kuti abwezeretsere mobwerezabwereza ndi wopusa.