Mavuto osavuta mu moyo - momwe mungatulukire?

Mu moyo wa munthu aliyense, zovuta zimakhala zochitika, pamene anthu oyandikana nawo amanyazi, amanyazi komanso amanyazi "kugwa" pansi kapena kukhala wosawoneka. Nkhani zoterozo zimakhala zotalika komanso zomvetsa chisoni kwambiri kwa munthuyo, zimayendetsedwa mobwerezabwereza, zomwe zimapangitsa munthu kuti azidzipangira yekha.

Kodi mungatani kuti mutuluke?

Mavuto osaneneka - ambiri, kuchoka ku manyazi alionse sikuti ali ndi inshuwalansi ndi munthu aliyense, ndipo pazifukwa zina zotsatirazi sizinachitike:

• pokambirana, munthu amadziwa mwadzidzidzi kuti sakumbukira dzina la interlocutor ndikuitcha dzina lina;
• kugwa pagulu pamtunda kapena pamalo otetezeka, pa siteji;
• pitani muzinyumba ndikukumbukira kuti ndalama zatsala kunyumba;
• mu sitolo pamene mukuwerengera kuti palibe ndalama zokwanira.

Chochita ndi momwe mungatuluke pa zochititsa manyazi pamene zakhala zikuchitika:

1. Dziwani moona kuti izi zinachitika.
2. Zinthu zochititsa manyazi kuti zikhale nthabwala.

Zovuta zochitika mu chiyanjano

Zinthu zovuta pamoyo zimabweretsa chisoni chachikulu. Anthu omwe ali pachibwenzi: mbanja, okhudzana, ochezeka omwe ali ndi moyo amakhala ovuta kwambiri. Zitsanzo zambiri:

• Nkhondo yosayembekezereka m'banja kapena chakudya chamadzulo, kutha ndi matemberero;
• Kukambirana za abwenzi kapena abwenzi omwe akusowapo, omwe ali panthawi yosafunika ndikumva zokambiranazo.

Kusiya "madzi owuma" panthawi ya nkhondoyo kumathandiza kuzindikira kufunika kwa maganizo onse ndi kuvomereza kulakwa kwawo. Poyanjana ndi abwenzi, ngati zidawoneka ngati zonyansa kuti mudzipangire nokha, mwachitsanzo, ngati chibwenzi chinatsutsidwa chifukwa cha khalidwe la dzulo pa phwando, mukhoza kunena kuti: "Ndinalinso bwino dzulo, ndikudziwika bwino!" Zingakhale zopanda phindu kupepesa.

Zovuta zochitika patsikuli

Ubale watangoyamba kumangidwa komanso maulendo aakulu, monga nthawi zonse, sungapewe muyeso yoyamba. Vuto lovuta ndi mnyamata kapena msungwana yemwe angakhoze kuchitika pa tsiku ndi zomwe angachite pa izo:

1. Chisokonezo chosavuta. Mutha kukambitsirana zokambirana zanu kapena kuyamba kulankhula za okondedwa anu, zosangalatsa, kuyenda.
2. Nkhani yokhudza ticklish yokhudzana ndi maonekedwe, mgwirizano wakale. Wopanga malirewo amachokera ku mulandu akhoza kugwiridwa ndi awiri: mwatsatanetsatane mnzanuyo za nkhani yosasangalatsa kwa inu ndikusintha zokambiranazo kupita kumalo ena kapena kungoyimirira ndikuchoka popanda kufotokoza chilichonse ngati munthuyo amachititsa chidani.
3. Malo osonkhana - chakudya chodetsa nkhaŵa, ndipo vutoli ndi lovuta kwambiri chifukwa chakuti mnyamatayo amaganiza ndalama iliyonse, amafunsa kuti awonongeke. Mtsikana aliyense adzachita manyazi (ngati sali mpulumutsi wa amuna ovuta). Ndikofunika kudziyamikira nokha komanso nthawi yanu, musakhale ndi munthu woteroyo.

Zinthu zosasangalatsa panthawi yogonana

Ndibwino kukumbukira heroine ya mndandanda wakuti "Kugonana ndi Mzinda" - Carrie, akugona pabedi ndi mwamuna wa maloto ake mosayembekezereka ... farts, wokongola kwambiri wazimayi ndipo amavutika ndi manyazi kwa masiku angapo. Bambo Big, wokondedwa wake amamukakamiza ndipo nthawi yomweyo amamutsimikizira kuti izi zingachitike kwa wina aliyense, koma Carrie sathandiza. Ndiye, Bambo Big farts akudandaula, osati konse mokongola, ngati munthu. Pali mpumulo wa zochitika, zomwe zimasangalatsa kuseka konse. Zinthu zovuta kwambiri zomwe zimachitika pa kugonana:

• kudumpha m'mimba;
• Kuwombera kumveka kumatulutsa ubini;
• mwadzidzidzi akugwedezeka mwa anthu;
• Pakati pa bwenzi lanu kapena mnzanuyo kapena mufuule dzina lina.

Zomwe mungachite ndi zochititsa manyazi zonsezi:

1. Zosangalatsa, monga momwe ziliri zoyenera.
2. Maganizo oyenera kwa wokondedwayo ndi kumverera kwake: kuti akhale chete, asamalimbikitse komanso asapange zovutazi.

Kodi mungaiwale bwanji vuto lovuta?

Mkhalidwe wosavuta si chifukwa chodzikweza ndi kudzichepetsa . Izi ndizochitikira zomwe ziyenera kuwerengedwa, koma musati muzichita ndi katundu wolemetsa. Chimene chingakuthandizeni kuti musakumbukire:

1. Anthu sali angwiro, osalimba komanso osatetezeka, ndipo izi zimakhalanso ndi zowona komanso zokondweretsa. Aliyense wamoyo, anakumana ndi milandu ina yokhumudwitsa.
2. Phunzirani kuzindikira zomwe zikuchitika mwakachetechete.
3. Pangoyamba kamphindi kosasangalatsa, kutembenukira ku chinthu china: kuyeretsa, kumvetsera nyimbo.
4. Ndikofunika kukumbukira: anthu ena mwamsanga amaiwala zomwe zinachitika.