Mosiyana ndi chisoni kwa ena, omwe timawatcha " chifundo " ndi omwe, ngakhale mwachinsinsi, koma odzitukumula, timadzimvera chisoni poyera, sitinalandirepo. Ndipo ndi mwambo kuti ena amvereni chisoni. Pafupi chifukwa chake chisoni ndikumverera koipa, ndi momwe tingachotsere izo, tidzakambirana lero.
Mtundu wobisika wodzimvera chisoni
Vuto la kudzimvera chisoni ndikuti sitidziwa nthawi zonse ndikukumvetsa.
Tiyeni tiyesere kuzindikira kuti kudzimvera chisoni ndi chiyani. Uwu ndiwo mwayi wosintha maudindo kuchokera kumapewa awo kupita kudziko lozungulira. Mwachidule, njira yothetsera alendo ndi zochitika pa zolephera zawo zonse.
Koma kodi ndi zabwino, kudzipangira nokha ndikudziimba nokha, ngati mukulephera - mumapempha. Chowona chake ndi chakuti sikuti ndi funso la kulakwa , koma la udindo. Ngati palibe chodalira pa inu, simungathe kulamulira moyo wanu. Mwadzidzidzi mumadzipeputsa mphamvu zanu, kusunthira udindo kwa ena.
Momwe mungazindikire mawonekedwe obisika a kudzimvera chisoni:
- mumakonda kukambirana ndi kutsutsa ena. Zamoyo zoipa, dziko losauka, ntchito yovuta, etc;
- mu ziganizo nthawi zambiri zimaphwanya manotsi a chiyembekezo: "Ndi liti pamene izo zidzasintha," "pamene utsogoleri wandiwona ine," "pamene aboma akumbukira kale anthu", ndi zina zotero;
- mumakonda kutonthozedwa, kuthandizidwa, ndipo simunayesedwe kusintha njira yowonera vutoli. Mwa kuyankhula kwina, iwe umapangitsa kudzidzimvera chisoni chako.
Ndikoyenera kuzindikira kuti vuto la kudzimvera chisoni komanso kudzipereka kwambiri ndi khalidwe la amayi. Ndipotu, kangati, kulandira uphungu kuchokera kwa munthu, timakhumudwitsidwa naye kwambiri. Tiyenera kuwamvera chisoni, ndipo sitikuwonekeratu kuti vutoli lasinthidwa. Osachepera mu gawo loyamba.
Kodi mungatani kuti musamvere chisoni?
Choyamba pa zonse - dziyang'ane nokha. Nthawi iliyonse pali chikhumbo chodandaula za ena, imani, ndikuganiza:
Kumbukirani: nthawi zonse mumasankha. Ngati simukukonda ubalewu, mukhoza kusintha, mungasinthe kapena, pamapeto pake, musiye. Kuntchito, komwe simukuzindikira, mukhoza kudziwonetsera nokha kapena kufotokozera momasuka maganizo anu kwa akuluakulu a boma.
Kamodzi, kumvetsetsa kuti udindo si wofanana ndi wolakwa. Kutenga udindo pa moyo wanu ndi chizoloŵezi cha anthu opambana ndi achimwemwe. Ndipo akudandaula mu malingaliro a kulakwa kwawo - maere otaika. Pangani chisankho chanu!