Ngati simukukonda msinkhu wanu pasipoti, mungathe kudziwonetsa nokha kuti zoonekazo si zoona. Kwa inu mu chigamulo, kupatula nthawi ("pasipoti") zaka zitatu zonse:
- chilengedwe;
- chikhalidwe;
- maganizo.
Mibadwo ya chilengedwe ndi kukula kwa thupi. Kwa m'badwo uliwonse uli ndi zofunikira zake zowonjezera. Kotero, ngati chomwe chikanati chikhalepo sichinafikepo, nthawi yanu yachilengedwe imakhala ikudutsa nthawi ya nyengo. Ngati chinachake chasintha chomwe sichiyenera kukhala - biologically (kapena physiologically), ndinu wamkulu kuposa kulemba pasipoti.
Mibadwo ya msinkhu ndi momwe ndiyomwe timayang'ana pamaso pa ena. Chizindikiro ichi chikhoza kusiyana mosiyana ndi momwe ndi, ndi ndani, timayang'ana m'maso mwathu.
Chigamulo chammbuyo chimagwirizana ndi zaka za maganizo za munthu. Amene timadzimva tokha.
Zakale zamaganizo - malamulo akuluakulu a "ukalamba" ndi "kubwezeretsa"
Lingaliro la m'badwo wa maganizo - chinthu chosakhazikika. Izi kapena zochitika m'moyo zingakupangitseni "mtsikana" kapena "mkazi wachikulire". Choyamba, zaka zathu zamkati zimadalira pa zomwe timayimira, zotsutsana zokhudzana ndi zaka zomwe timakhala nazo.
Choncho, achinyamata a zaka 20 nthawi zambiri amakonda kukokomeza zaka zawo zamaganizo. Amadzimva kuti ali ndi udindo, atsimikizika, amphamvu - amayang'anira miyoyo yawo (ndicho chimene amaganiza).
Zaka 25 ndi nthawi yomwe zaka zamkati zamaganizo zimagwirizana ndi nthawi.
Kuyambira ali ndi zaka 30, anthu, mosiyana, maganizo "amakula" ndipo izi zikhoza kupitirira mpaka kukalamba.
Koma, zizindikiro zonse ndizokhakha, palinso ziwerengero.
Mwana, wachinyamata, wamkulu
M'badwo wamalingaliro wa munthu ndizo lingaliro la dziko lapansi ndi ubale ndi anthu oyandikana nawo. Mibadwo ya mkati imamangidwa kuchokera ku chiŵerengero (mgwirizano kapena kusagwirizana) kwa mwana - wachinyamata - wamkulu.
Ngati chirichonse chiri chosiyana - zaka za maganizo sizisiyana ndi nthawi. Ngati pali matenda osokoneza bongo (imodzi mwa "Ine" ikupezeka), kusiyana kwa mafanizo kudzadabwitsa.
Mwanayo ndi amene amakhala ndi chimwemwe, maloto, chidwi, luso lophunzira komanso kukhala wosangalala.
Mnyamata ali ndi udindo woganiza, kuti adzikane yekha ku dziko lonse lapansi.
Munthu wamkulu ndi chilango, udindo, kulamulira ndi kusanthula zonse zomwe zikuchitika.
Ngati muli ndi chidwi ndi momwe mungadziwire msinkhu wanu wamaganizo, pali njira ziwiri zowunikira:
- zenizeni (inu mudzadziwa zaka zanu zamkati mu zaka zofanana ndi zomwe mukuganiza bwino) - kupititsa mayesero ;
- zolakwika (mudzadziwa kuti ndi ndani mwa "Ine" omwe mukulamulira) - onani kufotokoza kwa mwana, mwana wamng'ono ndi wamkulu pansipa.
Mwanayo
Mu psychology, anthu omwe ali ndi mwana wamkulu amatchedwa wonyamula matenda a Pen Pen. Munthu wotero amakoka ena ndi chisomo chake ndi kusasamala. "Peter Pen" ndikutsimikiza kuti dzikoli likuzungulira iye ndipo aliyense ayenera kukwaniritsa zomwe akufuna. Chidziwitso "Ine" chimene sichifuna kumva za udindo, ntchito, mapindu.
Achinyamata
Munthu wotereyu sanamalize kusasitsa. Iye akuwopa dziko lalikulu, koma iye ali wovuta pa ilo. Ali ndi kudzichepetsa, komabe amapereka malipiro pazifukwa zosagwirizana ndi chilengedwe chake.
Mkulu
Anthu oterewa amakonda kutsutsa aliyense ndi chirichonse, kumanga zolinga zam'tsogolo ndikuyesera kuwatsata. Samasangalala, samapumula - sali kwa iwo.
Chinthu chosangalatsa kwambiri kwa iwo ndi moyo wamtendere, wotetezedwa, wopanda kusintha.
Ngati mwana ndi mwana akunyengerera mwamuna, amakhala ngati wokalamba.