Chikhalidwe cholankhulana

Ndondomeko ya maphunziro tsopano ikugwiritsidwa ntchito kwambiri pa chitukuko cha kuyankhulana. Kulankhulana bwino nthawi zambiri kumatchedwa chimodzi mwa zolinga za maphunziro, pamodzi ndi maluso ena ofunikira, monga kuganiza mozama komanso kuthetsa mavuto.

Kodi chikhalidwe cholankhulana ndi chiyani?

Chimodzi mwa matanthauzo a chikhalidwe choyankhulana ndi mphamvu ya munthu kukumbukira njira zogwirira ntchito zogwiritsa ntchito ndikugwiritsa ntchito chidziwitso ichi, kuzigwirizanitsa ndizosiyana.

Pano pali mndandanda wa luso lomwe limapanga chikhalidwe cholankhulana:

1. Fotokozani maganizo awo momveka bwino.
2. Pitirizani kulankhulana molondola, mogwirizana ndi miyezo yoyenera.
3. Kumvetsetsa nthawi yomwe kuyankhulana kuli kosavuta.
4. Dziwani momveka bwino cholinga cha mauthenga anu.
5. Sankhani njira yabwino kwambiri komanso yolumikizira.
6. Onetsani kukhulupirira mu interlocutor.
7. Dziwani ndi kuchepetsa nthawi za kusamvana.
8. Kukhoza kuteteza kapena kuthetsa mikangano molondola.
9. Kutsegula kumvetsetsa kwa malingaliro a wina.
10. Mvetserani mosamala.

Chikhalidwe cholankhulana cha umunthu

Akatswiri a zamaganizo a anthu amagwiritsanso ntchito mndandanda wa luso lomwe limapanga chikhalidwe cholankhulana.

1. Mphamvu ya kuganiza ndi kulingalira.
2. Chiyankhulo cholankhulana.
3. Luso loletsa maganizo anu.
4. Chikhalidwe cha manja; mapuloteni okongola apulasitiki, zoyenera.
5. Kukhoza kumvetsera komanso mwatcheru kumvetsetsa mawu a interlocutor.

Ndikofunika kuzindikira kuti munthu yemwe ali ndi chikhalidwe cholimbikitsana sagwiritsa ntchito "botanist" ndi kolala yowongoka. Uwu ndi umunthu wapadera , wokhoza kugwirizanitsa mwamaganizo ndi mwakachetechete ndi chilankhulo chilichonse kapena kukambirana. Mwa njirayi, ngati mukufuna kuyankhulana ndi ma diplomatira, tikukulimbikitsani kuti muwerenge ntchito ya akatswiri achi China "36 stratagems".