Mikangano yovuta

Mikangano yovuta sikumenyana komwe kumachitika pakati pa anthu awiri kapena kuposerapo. Zimachitika mkati mwa munthu aliyense. Tikhoza kunena kuti tonse tili ndi umunthu wambiri mkati mwathu. Musamafulumire kuganiza za maganizo anu. Choncho, aliyense wa ife amachita maudindo ena (amayi, bwana, mwana wamkazi, ndi zina zotero). Ndiwo mkangano pakati pa aliyense wa iwo ndipo adzapitiriza kulankhula.

Mitundu ya mikangano

1. Mtsutso wamtundu . Palibe ichi ndi inshuwalansi. Kotero, munthuyo amakhala ndi malo atsopano. Ali ndi ziyembekezero zina ndi zoyembekeza, ndipo mwadzidzidzi, pazifukwa zina, sangathe kuzilungamitsa. Chotsatira chake, chimapangitsa maganizo a ena kukhala opanda nzeru, osakhoza kukwaniritsa malonjezo ake kwa munthu. Komanso, ngati ntchitoyo ndi yothandizana, pali mavuto mukulumikizana ndi wogwira ntchito aliyense.
2. Munthu wamkati . Chifukwa cha kusamvana kumeneku ndikumatsutsana pakati pa zofuna zawo ndi luso lawo. Mwachitsanzo, munthu amakhulupirira kuti amatha kuthana ndi mavuto ena, koma pakuchita zomwe akuyembekeza sizolondola, ali ndi mantha ndipo sangathe kuchita chilichonse. Sizingakhale zopanda pake kupereka chitsanzo pamene zimakhala zovuta kuti munthu athe kulimbana ndi kugwira ntchito yatsopano chifukwa chomwe "sanakule" kuyambira kale. Ku India, atsikana anapatsidwa kukwatiwa. Mmodzi wa akwatibwi awa anaza mwana. Chinali chiani? Mayi wake wamng'ono sanazindikire ngozi. anapita kusewera ndi zidole zogwirizana ndi anthu.
3. Kusalongosoka . Kugonana kwachinyengo kumayambira pamene munthu ali ndi zofunikira ziwiri zosiyana, kusagwirizana kwa zikhalidwe zomwe zingamupangitse kukhala wopanikizika. Mwachitsanzo, ntchito yabwino kwambiri ya ntchito yawo ndi yotheka ngati malamulo okhudzidwa ndi chitetezo amapezeka. Zonse sizikanakhala kanthu, koma pa chomera ichi, kupanga malonda, malamulo amenewa sanaperekedwe.
4. Zosakwanira zokwanira . Pachifukwa ichi, chifukwa cha kusamvana komweku ndi kusowa kwa nthawi, chikoka cha mkhalidwe, kusowa kwachangu, ndi zina zotero, zomwe zimapangitsa kukhala kosatheka kuchita ntchito zomwe munthu wapatsidwa.

Kodi ndi chiani chomwe chimayambitsa nkhondo?

Mtsutso wapadera ndi mtundu woipa, womwe umakhala ngati kulimbana pakati pa mbali ya dziko lapansi la munthu. Ichi ndi chizindikiro cha kukhalapo kwa mavuto pakutsutsana ndi chilengedwe. Amazengereza kupanga kupanga. Chifukwa cha mkangano wotero, munthu amakula, amayesetsa kudzizindikiritsa yekha, amawongolera, ndipo amadziŵa yekha "I". Inde, palibe amene akunena kuti njira iyi ikhoza kukhala yosangalatsa, koma, monga mukudziwira, palibe chinthu chachikulu, chopindulitsa sichimangopita. Poyamba, pakali pano kupanga mawonekedwe, amaonedwa kuti ndizochitika zosavuta kwenikweni. Mu njira zambiri, zimatengera zochita za munthuyo ngati zingathetsere vutoli kapena ayi.

Chitsanzo chowonekera cha mikangano yotereyi m'moyo ndi izi: Munthu yemwe ali ndi maganizo oyenerera amapita ku yunivesite yowunikira, kumene akukumana ndi mavuto. Mofanana ndi kufalikira ndikumenyana, pamene kuli koyenera "kugwiritsidwa ntchito" ku ntchito ya amayi, mkazi wokwatira, pensioner kapena wophunzira.

Pofuna kuthana ndi mkangano wa mtundu uliwonse, zimachitika popanda zotsatira zapadera, kukonzekera malingaliro, mphamvu, komanso chilakolako chothandizira kukhala ndi thanzi labwino.