Anthu oona mtima sali, tonse timanama. Wina amagwiritsa ntchito chinyengo pazochitika zapadera, kwa ena, mabodza ndi mbali ya moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku, wina amagona ndi zolinga zoipa, ndipo wina amakhulupirira kuti mabodza ake ndi abwino. Pano pali chodabwitsa chomaliza chimene ndikufuna kulankhula zambiri, chifukwa nthawi zambiri timamva za zotsatira zowononga zachinyengo, ndipo ngati ziri choncho, kodi angathe kupulumutsa winawake?
Amanama mu Dzina la Chipulumutso
Pofuna kuyankha funso ngati bodza likufunika mu dzina la chipulumutso, nkofunikira kumvetsetsa chomwe tanthauzo lenilenili.
Kawirikawiri amanama za chipulumutso ndi zosokonezeka ndi zomwe zimatchedwa bodza loyera. Uwu ndi chinyengo chamanyazi, chomwe chimapita, osati kufuna kukhumudwitsa munthu wina. Mtundu uwu wachinyengo, mwamunayo akumuuza mkazi wake kuti sanathenso, ngakhale kuti muvi wa zolemera uli pafupi ndi chizindikiro cha 100, mnyamata akuuza msungwana woipa kuti iye ndi wokondeka, ndi zina zotero. Bodza lamtundu uwu sikuti nthawi zonse limayambitsa mlandu, ndipo m'madera ena ngakhale amaonedwa ngati wachifundo. Pakati pa bodza lamtundu umenewu ndi kutsekemera ndibwino kwambiri, ngati munthu ayamba kudzikweza wina kuti apindule, ndiye kuti izi ndi zomveka bwino, ndipo palibe ulemu.
Bodza lenileni la chipulumutso lingagawidwe mu mitundu iwiri: bodza lopindulitsa munthu wina ndi bodza pofuna kupulumutsidwa kwa malo ake ofewa. Mtundu woyamba umaphatikizapo bodza kwa munthu wodwala kwambiri kuti amupulumutse ku chisokonezo, kunama kwa mwana yemwe atate wake anali woyesayesa woyesedwa ndipo anamwalira ngati msilikali kuti asamve ngati alibe vuto, ndi zina zotero. Pa bodza limeneli, ambiri samawona chochititsa manyazi chilichonse, chifukwa amatha kuchita zinthu ndi chikumbumtima chawo kuti apindule ndi munthu wina, m'maso mwawo chinyengo chimenechi chili cholemekezeka.
Bodza lachiwiri lachipulumutso chao ndilololedwa kawirikawiri, chifukwa palibe funso la olemekezeka, munthuyo amakhala ngati wodzikuza, amalavulira pamaganizo a anthu ena. Komabe, nthawi zambiri anthu amagwiritsa ntchito chinyengo chotere: kuchedwa kwa ntchito, nthawi zambiri timayendetsa msewu, sitikufuna kupita ndi shopaholic mnzanga sabata lachitatu kuthamanga m'masitolo, timakumbukira chisoni cha kusamba, mwana wamng'ono, yemwe anafunsidwa kuti akhale pafupi ndi mnzako ndi zina.
Bodza bodza lachipulumutso kapena choonadi?
Ndilo vuto losasintha, pakati pa choonadi ndi mabodza ndipo palibe chosankha! Maganizo amenewa amachitika ndi anthu ambiri (ngakhale kuti 80 peresenti ya iwo amagona nthawi zina), amakayikira ngati pali bodza la chipulumutso. Pambuyo pake, ngati chinyengo chikuyamba, zidzakhala zoipa kwa wonyenga komanso wonyengedwa. Tikhoza kunena kuti bodza ndi tchimo, ndizosatheka kunama pazochitika zonse ndikubweretsa nkhani zambiri zowonongeka, zomwe zabodza zimayambitsa kuthetsa mavuto, sitili Sande sukulu. Tonse ndife akuluakulu ndipo timamvetsetsa bwino kuti sizingagwire ntchito popanda chinyengo, ndizo umunthu waumunthu, koma simungatsutse. Potero kusankha pakati pa choonadi ndi bodza, simukuyenera kuganizira za khalidwe labwino, ndikuyesera kuyesa mkhalidwewo ndikuyesa zomwe zingakhale zovulaza - chinyengo champhamvu kapena choonadi chopanda pake. Tengani vutoli ndi munthu wodwala kwambiri. Nenani
Kotero bodza lirilonse limafuna njira yolunjika, osati bodza lililonse lachipulumutso ndilobwino, ndipo osati chinyengo chirichonse chiri choipa.