Kulingalira ndi zotsatira za kulera bwino ndi kolondola. M'banja lachikondi silingagwirizane kuti anyozanani wina ndi mzake ndi kukweza mawu awo. Ana amatengera chitsanzo kuchokera kwa makolo awo, kotero yang'anani kulankhula kwanu! Ali aang'ono, amajambula akuluakulu mosazindikira. Ndipo pamene akukula, amakhala ndi zizoloŵezi ndi zikhalidwe za mamembala awo. Makolo ayenera kuphunzitsa mwanayo kuti adziwe kuti ayenera kulemekezedwa pokambirana. Kulongosola mwanzeru: kuti ukhale woyenera kusunga, osati kumira kunyoza, kukhala wosakhwima, wolemekezeka, wodekha ndi wololera - izi ndizo tanthauzo la mawu osamala.
Anthu omwe ali ndi mikhalidwe yochititsa chidwi imeneyi ali ndi ena ozungulira. Ndili nawo, ndi zabwino komanso omasuka. Anthu achangu amakopeka ndi ena mwa khalidwe lawo, mofulumira komanso mosavuta kupeza chinenero chimodzi.
Kulankhulana momasuka
Kugwira ntchito ndi anthu osiyanasiyana, kulingalira, kulingalira komanso kukhudzidwa, ndiwothandiza kwambiri. Anthu oterewa adzalemekezedwa ndi anthu, ndipo adzapambana.
Masiku ano, nthawi zambiri timakumana mosasamala. Achinyamata ambiri amazoloŵera izi kuti asiye kuwona ndi kuwamvetsera. Tsoka ilo, palibe nthawi yokwanira yofotokoza makhalidwe abwino ndi makhalidwe. Tsopano ndemanga zolunjika ndizotheka pa maonekedwe a munthu akunja. Ndipo chiphunzitso chosadziwika cha moyo ndi uphungu, momwe mungachitire, ndi chovomerezeka. Ulemu wa maphunziro sunathe kuwonetsedwa mwabwino. Ngakhale anthu apafupi, abwenzi amalola kuti akhumudwitse wina ndi mzake pa cholinga, powalingalira mwachibadwa.
Koma sikuti chirichonse chatayika! Titha kusintha zambiri poyambira ndi tokha. Zokwanira zazifuna kwambiri.
Tiyeni tiyese kuyesera
Pa ichi tikusowa:
- kukhululukira;
- luso lokhala wokhulupirika;
- chipiriro chopanda malire;
- Kulemekeza;
- kudziletsa;
- luso lowerengera 20.
Koma musaiwale kuti aliyense wa ife akhoza kulakwitsa. Ingoyang'anirani zolankhula zanu ndi khalidwe lanu. Mulimonsemo, musataye mtima ndikukhala oleza mtima.
Kuyesera ndikuti ife tokha timaphunzira kukhala osamala komanso mosapita m'mbali kuphunzitsa mwaluso komanso mosamala za anthu omwe timakambirana nawo, omwe akutizungulira.
- Timaphunzira kuchita mwanzeru. Sitikulozera zolakwitsa ndipo osatsutsa.
- Ntchito yathu ndi kusonyeza chitsanzo choyenera ndi khalidwe lathu. Ndiponsotu, tikakhala ndi zokoma komanso osamala, ndiye kuti tidzakhala ndi ufulu woweruza ena.
- Mu nthawi yomwe muli ndi chikhumbo chofotokozera zinthu zonse zoipa zomwe mukuganiza, taganizirani kuti izi zimangowonjezera mkhalidwewo. Tikakhumudwitsa munthu, amayesetsa kudziteteza: amadzilungamitsa yekha, samavomereza zolakwa zake. Ndiye, amakwiya ndi iwe, ndipo iwe sungapindule nazo kanthu, kungovulaza ubwenzi wake ndi iye. Inu mumakhala mukutsutsana nokha pamene mumatulutsa zoipa zonse.
- Kumbukirani, akubwerera kwa inu patapita nthawi. Koma ikhoza kubwerera kumbali ina ndi yaikulu
matalikidwe. - Bwanji ngati chipiriro chikutha kale? Apa, ndiye kudziletsa kumafika pothandizira komanso kumatha kuwerengera 20.
- Ife timadziyimira tokha m'malo mwa munthu yemwe pamakhala mkangano, timayesetsa kumvetsetsa ndikumukhululukira. Sitikudziwa zifukwa zenizeni za khalidwe lake loipa. Mwinamwake, iye anali ndi mavuto m'banja. Kapena amadzifotokozera yekha, kufunafuna chidwi, chomwe chimakanidwa. Mwina zimafuna kulankhulana, koma sadziwa kudziwonetsera. Amachita izi m'njira yophweka - kunyenga. Mulimonsemo, iye sakondwa, ndipo akufuula za izi kwa anthu ...
Sizakhalanso mochedwa kwambiri kuti tiyesetse zinthu zabwino. Kuleza mtima ndi kulingalira ndi ntchito yaikulu yomwe imaikidwa pamaso pa anthu nthawi zonse.