Ndi anthu angati padziko lapansi, alipo ambirimbiri. Munthu aliyense mwa njira yake yekha ndi wapadera komanso wapadera, koma amasiyana ndi anthu ena. Pachifukwa ichi, n'zovuta kupanga chiphatikizidwe chophweka cha anthu omwe angakuthandizeni kuyankha funso la mtundu wa khalidwe lomwe munthu angakhale nalo.
Kodi ndi khalidwe lotani limene lingakhalepo?
Khalidwe - mndandanda wa mikhalidwe yosiyanasiyana ya maganizo yomwe imachokera ku chikhalidwe cha munthu, zikhalidwe za moyo ndi kulera. Kuti mudziwe chikhalidwe, nkofunikira kufotokozera munthu mwa magawo awa:
- malingaliro a munthu kwa iyemwini (kudzikuza, kudzikonda, kudzichepetsa);
- ubale wa munthu kwa ena (wowolowa manja, kudzikonda, chifundo);
- malingaliro a munthu kuchita ntchito (ulesi, kugwedeza, kugwira ntchito);
- Kukhalapo ndi nyonga za mikhalidwe yofuna mphamvu (munthu wofuna mwamphamvu, wopitilira, wofooka);
- malingaliro a moyo (chiyembekezo, kudandaula).
Kodi anthu ndi otani?
Kuti mumvetse khalidwe lachimuna, lingalirani izi molingana ndi zomwe zili pamwambazi:
- Momwe mumadzionera nokha . Amuna nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi kudzikuza kwambiri, osati amayi, omwe, chifukwa cha mbiri ndi chitukuko cha anthu, nthawi zambiri amapatsidwa udindo wachiwiri.
- Maganizo kwa ena . Amuna oipa kuposa amayi amamvetsetsa anthu ena, nthawi zambiri amakhala ovuta komanso ovuta.
- Mkhalidwe wa zochitika . Kawirikawiri, amuna amakhala otentheka pa ntchito zawo kapena zosangalatsa, momwe amadzifotokozera okha ndikuzindikira.
- Makhalidwe apakati . Mosiyana ndi amayi, amuna amakhala ndi khalidwe lolimba, kotero amatha kukhazikitsa zolinga ndikuzikwaniritsa.
- Mkhalidwe wa moyo . Koma parameter ndiyekha ndipo sizimadalira kugonana mwanjira iliyonse. Ngakhale zikhoza kunenedwa kuti amai amakhala ovutika maganizo , chifukwa cha mkhalidwe wosasunthika wa mahomoni.
Ndi khalidwe lanji limene mnyamata angakhale nalo?
Makhalidwe ena a anyamata ndi ovuta kufotokozera, chifukwa chitsogozo cha mawonedwe a makhalidwe angasinthebe m'moyo wotsatira. Nthawi zambiri achinyamata amakhala ndi makhalidwe otere:
- chiyembekezo;
- mtima wamdima;
- kusagwirizana;
- chisamaliro;
- kuwona mwachidule;
- maximalism.
Kodi ndi makhalidwe otani omwe ali obadwa mwa amuna osaphunzira?
Munthu wokalamba ndi munthu amene amakhalabe moyo
- chilakolako chokondweretsa;
- chisamaliro;
- kudzikonda;
- kusowa chochita;
- chiyembekezo;
- mtima wamdima;
- ulesi.
Makhalidwe oterewa amakonzedwa ndi zinthu zovuta pamoyo komanso chikhumbo cholimba chaumwini.