Kusiya

Ntchito ndi kusasamala ndizo zikhalidwe ziwiri za khalidwe la umunthu. Amavomerezedwa kuti ntchito nthawi zonse imakhala yolimbikitsa, ndipo kutengeka nthawi zonse kumakhala koipa ndipo kumayambitsa kutsutsidwa kwa anthu ena. Koma mu psychoanalysis, ntchito, yogwirizana ndi mfundo yamwamuna, correlates ndi nkhanza, zomwe sizingatengedwe chizindikiro chabwino. Komanso, kudzikweza si nthawizonse choipa, nthawi zina izi ndizo khalidwe lokha lokha.

Kodi kusamvera ndi chiyani?

Kukhumudwa mu kuwerenga maganizo kumamveka ngati kusagwirizana, khalidwe losiyana ndi kachitidwe ka khalidwe. Kugonjetsa kungakhale mwadzidzidzi komanso mopanda cholinga.

Nthawi zina timasankha mwadala mwapadera - chifukwa cha ulesi kapena kuopa kukhala pakati pa zochitika. Koma kusaganizira ena sikungatheke:

• ndi kukhalapo panthawi yomweyo komwe kumalimbikitsa zinthu zosiyana;
• ndi kufooketsa thupi kwakukulu chifukwa cha matenda, kuwonjezera ntchito, kutopa;
• Pa mantha omwe amayamba chifukwa cha mphamvu;
• ndi zowawa za khalidwe zowawa.

Kukanika kwakukulu kwa khalidwe ndikuteteza thupi kuti likhale lopanikizika, choncho silingatsutsedwe. Koma ngati khalidwe lachidziwitso ndilo moyo, ndiye vuto lalikulu lomwe liyenera kuthandizidwa.

Kusasamala mu ubale

Mwinamwake, mkazi aliyense amafuna kuti wosankhidwa amvetsere maganizo ake. Koma ngati munthu sangathe kuchita chirichonse popanda kukankha bwino, ndiye palibe amene angakonde. Kodi ndichite chiyani pano? Ena amayesa kumukonza munthuyo, kumukhumudwitsa ndi kumayankhula nthawi zonse ndi kunyoza. Ndi zophweka kumvetsa kuti palibe chabwino chomwe chingabwere. Ngati mwamuna sakufuna kuchita chinachake, ndiye, mwina, vuto la zolimbikitsa. Ndiyeno mungathe kumupatsa izi kapena kuyanjanitsa ndi udindo wa mutu wa banja. Choipa kwambiri ndizochitika pamene munthu sakugonjetsa pabedi - kutengeka mu kugonana sikukondweretsa aliyense. Pankhaniyi, muyenera kudziwa komwe maganizowa akuchokera, mwinamwake mutatha tsiku lovuta mukufunikira ntchito, pakadali pano "logi" lovomerezeka ndi lovomerezeka koposa. Komanso, kufooka kwa chilakolako pambuyo pa zaka zingapo ndikukhala limodzi ndi chinthu chachilendo, koma mukhoza kusintha vutoli, pali njira zambiri zomwe zingapangire flamme yotha. Ndizoipa ngati ntchito yanu iliyonse singabweretsere, pano mwina ndizoopsa za ulesi kapena kusowa chidwi kwa inu.

Kusagwirizana ndi anthu

Posachedwapa, mawu oti "kusagwirizana ndi anthu" nthawi zambiri amamveka makamaka makamaka achinyamata. Kawirikawiri mumatha kumva mawu omwe achinyamata samasowa kalikonse pamoyo kupatula zokondweretsa. Koma izi siziri zoona, zotsatira za kachitidwe ka anthu zimasonyeza kuti achinyamata, pamodzi ndi chikhumbo chofuna ntchito ndi kulenga banja, ali ndi chikhumbo chokwaniritsa bwino moyo wawo. Kotero chilakolako chosintha zinthu zabwino (mwachangu, mzinda, dziko, dziko) ndi chinthu china, kuti palibe chotheka kuti muzindikire zilakolako izi, ndipo mwamsanga mungatope ndikumanga makoma a konkire.

Kulephera Kuchita Mwachinsinsi

Ndi lingaliro la kusagwirizana pakati pa anthu, lingaliro la kusaganizira kwa aluntha likuphatikizana kwambiri, ngati vutoli ndilo chifukwa cha kusakhutira. Kusamvera kwaumunthu kumakhalanso chifukwa cha khalidwe losadziwika la njira zamaganizo, koma izi zikugwiritsidwa ntchito kwa anthu omwe akusochera. Kukhumudwa kwa mtundu wina kumawonedwa paliponse - pakati pa ana a sukulu ndi ophunzira omwe akufuna kupeza chidziwitso pa maphunziro, osati chidziwitso, kwa anthu akuluakulu omwe anaiwala kuti ubongo waperekedwa chifukwa chodziwunikira zenizeni, osati chikhulupiriro chopanda kanthu kwa wokamba nkhani wokongola. Vutoli ndilo, monga momwe tafotokozera pamwambapa, mukulimbikitsana - simukuyenera kuphunzira, pa ntchito yanu "asanu" sakufuna aliyense, chidziwitso chakuya sichifunikanso, kudziwa bwino "gouge" pa maphunziro a masabata awiri, kukhala katswiri pa bizinesi yanu ndi chidziwitso chakuya sikofunikira - malipiro awo nthawi zambiri wosachepera wogwira ntchito wamba, wokhala mu kampani yaikulu kapena wochitidwa ndi bwana "ndi mnzako."

Kodi mungatani kuti musamakhumudwe?

Ngati mukufuna kuchotsa misala ya anthu, ndiye kuti muyenera kuyamba nokha. Njira zochepetsera - chachikulu chimakupatsani inu kuyamba kukonzekera moyo wanu, phunzirani kupatsa 100% mu bizinesi iliyonse. Koma njira zonse zotsutsana ndi zonyansa sizidzakhala zopanda phindu popanda kulimbikitsa. Choncho, njira yaikulu yothetsera nkhondo ndikumvetsa zomwe mukufuna kumoyo. Kumvetsetsa nokha, mukuzindikira zomwe mukufunikira kuti mutenge - mwina zomwe mumachita, kutalika kwanu kuchokera ku cholinga, motero kusadzikonda, ndi kusafuna kuchita chinachake.