Mantha ndikumverera kwakukulu komwe kumayambitsa munthu. Kwa ena, ndizolimbikitsa kwambiri komanso kuyitana kuchitapo kanthu, komanso kwa ena - chilango chenichenicho. Kodi mungaphunzire bwanji kuti musakhale wamanyazi? Lero funso ili ndi lofunika kwa anthu ambiri. Maganizo ooneka ngati ana ndi osalakwa amakhala vuto lalikulu lomwe lingasokoneze moyo wambiri kwa mwiniwake. Koma, mofanana ndi mantha aliwonse, mwachisangalalo, manyazi amatha kusintha mosavuta.
Kodi mungatani kuti musamachite manyazi komanso manyazi?
Choyamba, manyazi ndi chabe koma mantha. Kuopa kutuluka kwa anthu, kulankhula pagulu, kukambirana kapena kungodziwana bwino. Kunyalanyaza sikungowonongeka moyo wa eni ake. Ikhoza kusintha kwathunthu cholinga cha munthu poipa kwambiri. Ndipotu, ndi anthu ochepa okha omwe angathe kupambana popanda kutenga nawo mbali pazokangana ndi zochitika zina, poopa kudziwana bwino, ndi kukhala chete ponena za kugulitsa ndalama komanso ntchito.
Funso lina ndilo momwe mungasiye kukhala wamanyazi? Kumverera kosasangalatsa uku kubwerera kuyambira ubwana. Ndithudi aliyense adzatha kuyankha funso la momwe anakhala wamanyazi, wosatetezeka ndi wosaphunzira. Koma mwatsoka, ngakhale kuti zimayambitsa matendawa, kuchotsa izo zikhoza kuvomerezedwa, njira zovomerezeka ndi zogwira mtima.
Kodi mungatani kuti musakhale wamanyazi ndi mantha?
Musanalandire malangizo ofunikira, tiyenera kuzindikira kuti ali oyenerera magulu osiyanasiyana a anthu. Kuponderezana kuli ndi mitundu yosiyanasiyana. Mwachitsanzo, anthu omwe amachita zinthu molimba mtima m'mbali zambiri za moyo angathe kufunsidwa momwe angalekere kuchita manyazi ndi mwamuna, mwamuna, thupi, pamapeto, ndi zina zotero. Mantha amachokera kuzinthu zomwe zili mu moyo wa munthu. Kotero, malangizo okha:
- Gonjetsani manyazi anu powerenga mokweza. Ndipo ziribe kanthu komwe inu mumachita izo: kunyumba, pamaso pa abwenzi, kapena osadziwika kwathunthu. Chizoloŵezichi chidzakuphunzitsani kuti mumve mawu anu, phunzitsani kutanthauzira kwanu ndikupereka chidaliro ku mawu anu. Ndipo kawirikawiri pamene mumawerenga poyera, zochepa chabe zidzatsalira mantha anu.
- Lowani ku zokambirana ndi alendo. Izi sizidzangokhala njira yabwino yothetsera vuto la momwe mungalephere kuchita manyazi ndi anthu, koma pamapeto pake mudzawonjezera kudzidalira. Funsani anthu osadziwa kuti ndi nthawi yanji, momwe mungapititsire kumsewu wodutsa mumsewu kapena mutenge njira zina komanso zovuta.
- Amayi ambiri okongola amadandaula za momwe angasiyire manyazi pa maonekedwe awo. Ndipo yambani kuthetsa vuto ili ndi kuyang'ana mwachidwi pagalasi. Mvetserani chifukwa chake mudaima kukonda galasilo ndi zomwe muyenera kuchita kuti mukhale wosangalala. Kafukufuku amasonyeza kuti amayi ambiri amakonda kukokomeza zofooka zawo. Nthawi zina kuthetsa vuto ndizokwanira kudzikonda nokha. Izi zikuphatikizapo yankho la funso la momwe mungalephere kukhala wamanyazi a amuna ndipo musamachite manyazi ndi chibwenzi chanu. Ngati muli ndi zofooka, mwachitsanzo ndi chifaniziro, ndiye kuti mukuganiza kuti adzakukondani komanso kuti, sizingakhale bwino. Dzizisamalire nokha, yambani kuyenda moyenera, ndipo amuna oyandikana nawo adzasintha maganizo awo, monga momwe mumadzikondera nokha.
- Musaiwale za zinthu monga zovomerezeka ndi kuziwonetsera. Aloleni ambiri asakhulupirire mwa iwo, koma chizoloŵezi cholankhula mawu monga "Ndikukhulupirira ndekha", "Sindidzachita manyazi ndi wina aliyense", ndi zina zotero. Zili choncho
miyeso ikugwirabe ntchito. - Lembani pa tsambali mphamvu za umunthu wanu. Lembani ndi kukumbukira mpaka akuposa manyazi anu. Kumbukirani kuti ndinu munthu wapadera, amene mwina wina amawopa. Ndiye bwanji mukuchita mantha pamaso pa ena. Onetsani aliyense zomwe mungathe!
Kawirikawiri, vuto loletsa ndilofanana kwambiri ndi matenda monga chiwindi. Kuopa uku kuli ndi mawonekedwe osiyanasiyana ndi mawonetseredwe, kuphatikizapo manyazi. Ndipo mungathe kuligonjetsa mwanjira yomweyo. Khalani ndi ndondomekoyi: "Ngati mukuwopa chinachake, ndiye kuti muyenera kuchita." Ndipo mudzawona momwe manyazi ndi zotengedwa zake zidzasiya moyo wanu.