Zomwe zinachitika kuti m'masiku ano, "kuyankhulana" kumakhala kukonda kwambiri makompyuta. Kotero sizodabwitsa kuti funso la momwe mungapezere chinenero chofala ndi anthu chikukhala chotchuka kwambiri. Inde, wina angatanthauzire kulengeza kwa munthu, koma osakhoza kuyankhulana momasuka kwa womulankhulana naye, zingakhale zovuta kuti apambane mwachinthu chilichonse.
Kodi mungapeze bwanji chinenero chimodzi ndi munthu aliyense?
- Kawirikawiri kumangolankhulana bwino sikungapezeke chifukwa cholephera kufotokoza bwino maganizo awo. Chifukwa chake chingakhale kusatsimikizika kapena manyazi, kunyalanyaza, kusowa kuwerenga, mawu okhwima.
- Kukwanitsa kupeza chinenero chofala ndi anthu makamaka kudalira kumatha kumvetsera. Gwirizanani, sikutheka kulankhulana ndi munthu yemwe amasinthasintha nthawi zonse, amakumvetsera ndi maonekedwe akusowa kapena amalola kuyang'ana kwodzikuza.
- Kodi mungapeze bwanji chinenero chofala ndi anthu omwe samakuona kuti ndinu interlocutor woyenera? Fufuzani kalembedwe yanu, mwina mumadzichita nokha kuti zokambirana zisadzachitike. Khalani oleza ndi lingaliro la wina, ngakhale liri losiyana kwambiri ndi lanu.
- Ngati simukupeza chinenero chimodzi ndi wina aliyense, kungakhale nkhani yoyesera kuyankhula, pamene chinsinsi cha kukambirana bwino ndi chete. Tchulani mawu otsatirawa pokhapokha ngati pakufunika, perekani zowonjezereka zowonjezera malingaliro anu. Izi zidzamuthandiza kukhala ndi chidaliro, ndipo iwe upeza zambiri.
- Kodi mungapeze bwanji chinenero chimodzi ndi munthu aliyense? Katswiri aliyense wa zamaganizo angakuuzeni kuti n'zosavuta kuyambitsa kukambirana ngati munthuyo akukonzekera. Ndipo inu mukhoza kusonyeza malingaliro anu ndi kumwetulira, yesetsani kuti muzipanga izo moona mtima, zovuta zowonongeka sizingatheke kuti mukhoze kukhala ndi winawake wonga.
- Kodi mungakambirane bwanji ndi mabwenzi anu, ngati simukupeza chinenero chimodzi ndi wina aliyense? Inde, mwina mwina muli ndi interlocutors osasangalatsa, koma mwina ndi awa. Nthawi zina anthu amakana kulankhulana, chifukwa sakuwona mfundo. Musayese kukoka bulangeti nthawi zonse,
yesetsani kupeza chiyanjano chimene chingakhutire mbali zonse. - Zimakhala zovuta kupeza chiyankhulo chofala ndi anthu pamene akugwirizana ndi mkangano, amatsutsa mwachangu zochita ndi mawu. Choncho, ngati mutangothamanga, yesetsani kusintha, phunzirani kulankhula mawu okoma, kutsutsa nthawi zosawerengeka komanso kukhala ndi chifukwa chabwino komanso kutsutsana.
Nthawi zina, ngakhale pamene mukuwona malamulo onse a kukambirana bwino, n'kovuta kumanga kuyankhulana , zimachitika chifukwa cha zithunzi zosaoneka bwino. Kotero, kupita ku msonkhano, yesetsani kuyang'ana zoyenera.