Njira yamagulu ndi khalidwe la munthu yemwe amakhutira ndi ang'onoang'ono. Alibe zolinga zapadera ndi zofuna zake, akusambira ndi kutuluka ndipo amasangalala nazo. Munthu wotero amachita zokhazokha kwa ena komanso zochitika, koma kenanso. Iye si woipa kwambiri, koma zabwino mwa iye sizikwanira. Munthu uyu ndi wamba komanso wosasangalatsa. Kodi muyenera kuchita chiyani kuti musakhale munthu wonga ameneyo? Tidzafotokoza za izi.
Tanthauzo la mulungu wambiri
Mumasanthawuzidwe lingaliro ili likufotokozedwa ngati chithunzithunzi, chopanda phindu. Amagwiritsidwa ntchito kuti akhale woyenera munthu, koma angathenso kutanthauzira kuwonetsetsa zomwe akuchita. Mwachitsanzo, masewero a masewerowa ndi ofanana, kapena bukhu losasintha, lomwe ndilopanda phindu. Mungathe kubwezeretsa mawu oti mediocrity ndi mafanankhu - imvi, mediocrity, yachiwiri.
Kusamalidwa monga chiopsezo cha chikhalidwe
Masiku ano khalidwe ili lafalikira kwambiri kotero kuti munthu aliyense wokhala ndi chidziwitso kuposa chiwerengero amawoneka ngati wongopeka. Timalepetsa mwayi wathu, kuyika zopinga, kuchokera kumpoto - kusalongosoka, kuchokera kummwera - kukhumudwa, kuchokera kumadzulo - malingaliro otsogolera, ochokera kummawa - kusowa cholinga. Moyo watha, ndipo timayesetsa kukhala ngati wina aliyense. Timadzizungulira tokha ndi miyambo imene ena amatipatsa. Kawirikawiri timangiriza mfundo izi osati kwa ife eni okha, koma kwa anthu ozungulira ife. Aliyense yemwe sali ngati ife ndi wotayika. Umphaŵi ndi woipa, munthu ndi wopusa ndipo sangathe kupeza, chuma ndi choipa - zedi mwiniwake wa nyumba, machitsulo ndi galimoto zamtengo wapatali amaziba kwa anthu. Kotero ife tikukhala, kuyesa zonse pansi pa chisa chimodzi.
Ndiye n'chifukwa chiyani anthu ambiri akukhutira ndi chisankho? Yankho la izi liri pamwamba. Nthawi zambiri timadziyerekezera ndi ena, koma tikuyenera kudziyerekezera lero ndi ife dzulo ndikuwona zomwe tapindula tsiku, mwezi ndi chaka. Pankhaniyi, sipadzakhala mpikisano wokha ndi anthu ena, koma tidzakhala mpikisano ndi ulesi wathu ndi chitukuko. Zokwanira kuti mukhale okhutira ndi zochepa, ndi nthawi yokhala ndi cholinga ndikuyesera. Aliyense wa ife ndi wapadera. Ndipo aliyense ali ndi talente iliyonse yobisika. Ngati ali obisika kwambiri, m'pofunika kuwulula ndikuwathandiza. Kukulitsa maluso ake, munthu amadziona kuti ndi wofunikira kudziko ndipo amadziika patsogolo pa zolinga zatsopano.
Momwe mungagonjetse mdani ndi dzina la mediocrity?
- Maloto! Moyo wopanda maloto ndi wopanda pake komanso wopanda cholinga.
- Khalani wapadera. Pewani mu kuya kwa moyo wanu, ganizirani zomwe mukufuna kuchita. Pezani njira yanu yapadera yokwaniritsira cholinga.
- Zolinga zolinga ngakhale zilizonse. Musatseke msewu, ngakhale kuti pali mavuto ndi zovuta.
- Ikani malingaliro anu. Ngakhale ngati sizili ngati wina aliyense, yesetsani.
- Tamverani maganizo a wina. Koma osati kuti muzitsatira, koma kuti mupange nokha. Potsata malingaliro a mnzanu, mumayenda ndikukhala moyo wawo.
- Tulukani mu malo otonthoza. Lolani kukhala okonzeka kwambiri ndi omasuka, koma moyo umakufikitsani. Mutha kutaya mwayi wopambana.
- Gwiritsani mwayi uliwonse
titsimikizireni nokha. - Khalani ngati kuti mukukhala tsiku lomaliza la moyo wanu.
- Chitanipo kanthu. Zokwanira kuchita zomwe ena akuyembekeza kwa inu.
Gwiritsani ntchito malangizowo ndipo mutha kumvetsa kuti kwa zaka zambiri sakhala ndi moyo wawo, adayesa kutayika mu misala yonse, kukhala amvi ndi osadziwika. Khalani nokha. Osakhutitsidwa ndi miyezo yochepa. Musawope kuti mudzapatsidwa zina zofunika. Iwo samawopsyeza iwe. Muyenera kuyesetsa kwambiri kuti musachoke pa anthu osavuta, opanda kanthu. Koma zidzakutengerani ku msinkhu watsopano wa moyo. Mudzadzikweza nokha kuti mukwaniritse bwino!