Nthawi siimaima, ndipo amzanga ambiri adapeza kale amuna ndi ana, ndipo simungapeze nokha wanu? Mwinamwake muli ndi chibwenzi, koma vuto ndilokha amakukondani, ndipo simukukonda. Kumbali imodzi, izi ndizimveka bwino pamene mukukondedwa, ndipo pamzake mukufuna kukhala ndikumverera kotereku. Ngati mumamva chisoni chakumtima kwa mwamuna, ndiye kuti zonse sizikutayika. Akatswiri a zamaganizo amanena kuti chikondi chimayamba ndi ubwenzi weniweni. Ndipo maubwenzi ena, omangidwa ndi chilakolako, samakhala nthawi yaitali. M'nkhaniyi, mudzaphunzira momwe mungagwirizane ndi mnyamata amene amakukondani.
Kodi mungakonde munthu pakapita nthawi?
Monga mukudziwira, chikondi ndi, koposa zonse, kumverera kwakukulu. Poona chikondi, timakhala osangalala . Ndipo kwa chitukuko chakumverera uku, ndithudi mutenge nthawi. Ndikhulupirire, mutangokondana, mudzamva nthawi yomweyo. Musadzithamangitse nokha, khalani oleza mtima ndipo poyamba muzisangalala ndi chikondi chenicheni. Chinthu chachikulu ndicho kukhala ndi chikondi, ndiye kukondana kwenikweni sikovuta.
Yesetsani kucheza naye nthawi zambiri. Kotero mutha kuzindikira mwamsanga zofuna zomwe mumakonda komanso nthawi yowonongeka mwamsanga mungathe kukhala ndi maganizo osadziwika. Koma musagwiritse ntchito nkhanza, nthawi zina kusungulumwa kumathandiza kwambiri. Mwina mungakhumudwe ndi mnzako, kenako mupumule ndikukhala nthawi yosiyana. Ngati mulibe mwayi wokhala osanyalanyazidwa ndi wosankhidwa, ndiye kuti izi zingathe kutha, ndipo mudzayamba kumva kuti simukukondwera naye. Mwachitsanzo, izi zimagwira akazi okwatiwa. Ndipo iwo amazunzidwa kwambiri ndi funso la momwe mungagwirizane ndi mwamuna amene amakukondani.
Potsutsana pa mutuwo, kaya munthu akhoza kukonda munthu ndi nthawi, timanena motsimikiza kuti inde!
Kodi mungakonde bwanji munthu amene amakukondani?
Poyankha funso la momwe mungakonde munthu amene amakukondani, choyamba muyenera kumvetsetsa kuti chikondi ndi chimwemwe, chomwe chiyenera kubweretsa chisangalalo, osati kupweteka ndi kuvutika.
Atsikana ayenera kusamala kwambiri kwa osankhidwa awo. Yesetsani kumvetsera mwamuna, yesetsani kumvetsa malingaliro ake, mavuto onse ndipo musanyalanyaze maganizo ake. Muyenera kuphunzira momwe mungathere, mwinamwake simumudziwa bwino? Ndipotu sizingatheke kuti munthu atsegule nthawi yomweyo.
Pewani kutsutsidwa! Musagwirizane kwambiri ndi zochita ndi zolakwika zina. Ngakhale atachita chinachake, sizolondola, musakwiyire, yesetsani kulankhula naye mwakachetechete. Izi ndi zoona makamaka
Akazi, kuti mukonde munthu amene amakukondani, yesani kugawana naye nthawi yanu yosangalala ndi yachisoni. Koma pa nthawi yomweyi musaiwale za moyo wake, kwa aliyense, nayenso akufuna kugawana nawo. Kukambirana kotereku mosakayikira kudzabweretsa awiri palimodzi. Khalani owona mtima kwambiri, chifukwa ngakhale bodza pang'ono lingathe kupasula kwakukulu mu ubale wamphamvu.