Munthu wokoma mtima amawala kuchokera mkati, ndipo kuwala uku kufalikira ponseponse, kumadzutsa mu moyo malingaliro okhazikika. Komabe, m'mayiko amakono mwinamwake sizinali zofewa kukhala okoma mtima. Liwu lofanana ndi liwu limeneli linali lodzichepetsa komanso lopanda banga, chifukwa cha kulemekeza lero, kudzipatulira, kusowa kwa malamulo komanso bizinesi. Komabe, mfundo zazikulu za zabwino ndi zoipa zakhala zikusintha ndipo sizidzasintha, ndipo lero anthu ambiri akuyang'ana njira ndipo akufuna kudziwa momwe angakhalire okoma mtima, chifukwa pomwe ubwino umapulumutsa dziko.
Kodi mungatani kuti mukhale wokoma mtima komanso wodekha?
Moyo wamakono wamakono umasiya umboni wa khalidwe la anthu m'dera. Amakonda gologolo mu gudumu mobwerezabwereza amabwera ku bwalo latsopano, osadziŵa kumene akuthamanga ndi chifukwa chake. Moyo umayenda mofulumira ndi ntchentche ndi makina. Nthawi yoti muime, yang'anani mozungulira ndikuganiza chifukwa chake zonsezi ndizofunika konse, sizikhalabe. Ubale pakati pa anthu unayamba kukhala ndi mawonekedwe a msonkho, kutanthauza, "kupereka kwa dash" kapena utumiki wa utumiki. Ndi anthu ochepa chabe omwe amaganiza za mbali ya uzimu ya nkhaniyi ndipo ngakhale maanja apangidwa chifukwa chachangu komanso mofulumira: palibe nthawi yothetsera kugonana ndi zotsamba zina.
Ambiri amatopa ndi moyo wotere, amayamba kuvutika ndi matenda, kusowa tulo ndi matenda ena okhwima, pozindikira kuti ndi nthawi yosintha kanthu, koma momwe mungachitire ndi momwe mungakhalire munthu wokoma mtima mukhalabe funso lotseguka. Koma pakalipano, palibe chinthu china chosavuta-ndikofunikira kuti afune kubweretsa zabwino kwa anthu.
Kodi mungatani kuti mukhale wokoma mtima komanso wodekha?
Lekani kuyika baramwamba ndikuyesera. Ayi, izi sizikutanthauza kuti n'kofunika kusiya kukhala munthu wamtima umodzi, koma pakufunafuna chuma, anthu amasiya kuika chidwi pa zinthu zomwe zimakhalapo nthawi zonse - nyongolotsi ya udzu, kuseka kwa ana kapena kusekedwa kwa chiweto. Ndipo ndi liti pamene munakumbatira amayi kapena abambo anu? Tiyenera kufulumira kuti tichite ntchito zabwino ndikuyang'ana iwo omwe akusowa thandizo - agogo aakazi okhala ndi thumba lolemera, chikhomo chopanda pokhala, ndi zina zotero. Cholinga chachikulu cha moyo ndi uzimu, osati chuma, ndipo ngati mukumvetsa izi, mukhoza kukhala osangalala, choncho ndi okoma mtima.
Ndikofunika kuyesa kukhala wodalirika ndikuwona chilichonse chili chokha. Musakhumudwe chifukwa chakuti mtsikana wa cashier amadziwa kusintha kwake kwa nthawi yaitali, koma kuti amumwetulire ndi kuyamika. Anthu ali okonzeka kwambiri kuti amvetsere zabwino ndi zabwino, ndi zoipa ndi zoipa, choncho atangokhala wokwiyitsa, wokwiya komanso wotsutsa wina, mukhoza kuyembekezera kudzaza moyo wanu ndi chimwemwe ndi nthawi zosangalatsa. Ndikofunika kuti musamayembekezere kuyamikira chifukwa cha ntchito zabwino zomwe zachitidwa. Iwo adzalipira ndalama zambiri ndipo mabungwe apamwamba adzasamalira izi. Monga chojambula chokhudza kalulu, chomwe chinapatsa nkhalango kukhala ndi thumba lonse la maapulo, kusiya ana osadya, osadziwa ngakhale kuti zinyama zoyamikira zinalowa m'nyumba yake aliyense yemwe angathe.
Anthu omwe ali ndi chidwi chokhala okoma mtima, ayenera kulekerera zofooka za ena, kulemekeza malingaliro ena, ndikumasulira mikangano ikukula kukhala nthabwala. Osalumbira ndi bwana. Ndi bwino kuyang'anitsitsa ndi kuganizira mmene zimamera makutu akuluakulu kapena mphuno ngati Pinocchio. Zowonjezera mphamvu zowonjezereka kwa tsiku zingathe kuwonetsedwa mu masewera olimbitsa thupi kapena kuchita masewera ena, ndipo poyamba mungathe kudzisamalira nokha pakuwerenga zovomerezeka. Ndipo ndifunikanso kukhululukira munthu aliyense yemwe walakwitsa kapena kukhumudwitsa. Izi sizili zophweka kuchita, kotero n'zomveka kutembenukira kwa wovomereza, kuvomereza ndikudya mgonero. Pemphero kwa Mulungu limathandiza kwambiri ndipo limaperekedwa kwa omwe amadziwa kuyamikira.