Kujambula ndi a Donzhu amasiku ano omwe amalingalira atsikana pa zokopa zambiri ndi kugonana, ndipo adzidziwe okha chifukwa cha kugona. Pa nthawi yomweyi, zizindikirozo zimachita molimba mtima komanso mwachikondi kuti n'zovuta kuti musayambe kukondana nawo. Zotsatira zake, izi ndi zofanana nthawi zonse: mtima wosweka wa mtsikana ndi dzina lotsatira pa mndandanda wa kupambana kwa mnyamatayu. Choncho, ndibwino kumvetsetsa momwe zingathere kuzindikira wojambula wokonzekera kuti mutonthoze nokha ndi ziyembekezo zonyenga komanso kuti musataya nthawi yanu pa munthu yemwe, ndithudi, sakuyenerera.
Momwe mungazindikire chojambula mu moyo?
Zithunzi zonse ndizodalirika kwambiri. Angayambe kukambirana ndi mawu alionse, kaya ndi chida chopanda kanthu kapena chinachake choyambirira ndi kukopa chidwi . Koma chinthu chachikulu ndicho kudzidalira nokha, komwe kumamveka ndi kukopa, chifukwa mkazi aliyense amafuna kuona munthu wamphamvu pafupi naye.
Pikapery nthawi zonse amadziwa zomwe mungachite. Sipadzakhala phokoso lachisokonezo pazokambirana, koma kutengeka kwakukulu sikudzawonekera. M'malo mwake, mnyamatayo amasonyeza bwino golidi amatanthawuza: kukambirana kokondweretsa kumene iye anganene za iye mwini, ndipo adzafunsa za mtsikanayo. Chizindikiro chofunika cha momwe mungazindikire chojambula ndicho kugwirana ndi maso kapena maso. Mnyamata adzayesera kukomana ndi maso ake ndi mtsikana, kumukhudza mwachikondi ndi zina zotero.
Ndipo, ndithudi, wojambulayo adzayesera kukondweretsa mtsikanayo, kuchita chinachake chachilendo ndi chosakumbukika, kuti msungwanayo aganize kuti iye adapeza imodzi, yokhayo, yomwe siili yofanana padziko lonse lapansi. Ndipo zonsezi ndi cholinga chimodzi - kukokera mtsikanayo pabedi, ndipo mwamsanga.
Kodi mungapeze bwanji chithunzi pa intaneti?
Ngati m'zonse moyo uli wovuta kwambiri, ngati n'kofunika kufufuza zizindikiro zambiri mwakamodzi, komanso chisangalalo cha mnyamatayo chidzasokoneza, ndiye zonse ziri zophweka pa intaneti. Ngati mnyamata amachokera kumalo ali ndi chilakolako chofuna kudziwana bwino, amapereka kukomana, kuyamikizana ndi ena onse mumzimu womwewo, mwinamwake pulogalamu. Ndipo kawirikawiri pa intaneti palibenso akatswiri odziwika pa nkhaniyi, kotero sizovuta kuwapeza, ndizoonekeratu.