Kodi kuseketsa ndi chiyani?

Mark Twain, amene sadziwa kuti palibe munthu amene anganene kuti alibe chisangalalo, amamuuza kuti, "Munthu wosasangalatsa amalephera zambiri.

Ndipo iye, ndithudi, ndi zolondola. Pambuyo pake, munthu wododometsa angathe kupeza njira yothetsera vuto lililonse - iye samangoganizira kwambiri. Ngati chinachake chosasangalatsa chikuchitika, ndithudi, mukufuna kukwiya, ngakhale, mwina, kulira, kukhumudwa. Kulephera kwaumunthu (weniweni kapena kuwoneka), monga momwe, kubwerera kuunyamata, pamene sikukanatheka kuti zisonkheze zenizeni chifukwa cha msinkhu, koma kunangokhala kulira, kufunsa chifundo kuchokera kwa akulu. Koma tsopano palibe amene angadandaule, zaka sizinthu zofanana, ndipo akuluakulu amamvera chisoni ana awo. Izi zimapangitsa kuti zikhale zovuta kwambiri, ndipo munthu amakhala ndi nkhawa.

Kodi kuseketsa ndi chiyani?

Inde, kuseketsa ndi khalidwe labwino lomwe limakupangitsani kuti muyambe kutero kuyambira pachiyambi mosiyana. Munthu wodzitama angathe kukwera pamwamba pa zochitika, kuzindikira ndi kuseketsa, ngakhale ndizosewera zakuda. N'zoona kuti imfa ya munthu kapena matenda aakulu si chifukwa chokondweretsa, koma sizinthu za zochitika zoterozi, koma zosavuta kwenikweni: adagwa pansi pa mgwirizano kuntchito, anataya pasipoti, anasefukira pafupi ndi anansi ake, anathyola galimoto, naponya wokondedwa ... Inde, izi, mwinamwake, ndizo tsoka la moyo wonse. Koma izi siziri zonse za moyo. Zidzakhala zabwino. Koma izi sizikutanthawuza kwa wina amene tsopano akuvuta kwambiri. Kuseketsa kokha kumathandiza munthu kuti asamadziwe yekha mavuto, kudzimangirira yekha ndi kuyang'ana mkhalidwe ndi kuseketsa.

Ponena za chisangalalo, palibe lingaliro lofala pakati pa asayansi kapena anthu wamba. Zambiri zingatheke kufotokozedwa.

Kumaseketsa ndi mankhwala osokoneza bongo. Zimathandiza kusintha zinthu zovuta kwambiri, zosasunthika. Nkhondo, iwo amapanga zizindikiro, ngati simungapulumutse!

Choncho, ngati mukufuna kupanikizika, muyenera kuseka. Musalole kuti mudziwe nokha m'nyanja yovutika maganizo . Kuseka misozi. Izi zikutsatila kuti anthu opanda chisangalalo amakhala ovuta kwambiri kuposa omwe amasangalala.

Kumaseketsa ndi chizindikiro cha nzeru. Ndipo iwo amene ali ndi malingaliro abwino, oganiza komanso oganizirana, amakhala ndi chisangalalo champhamvu kwambiri.

Koma kuthetsa nthabwala kumadalira maphunziro. Chidziwitso ndi erudition amalola munthu kukhazikitsa nthabwala zokongola, zobisika komanso zopanda pake, pamene anthu osaphunzira nthawi zina amangokhalira kudandaula zomwe zidakumbukira popanda kudandaula za momwe zililibwino komanso ngati wina akukhumudwa ndi kuseketsa koteroko. Ayi, iye mwiniwake amapeza "chisangalalo chachisangalalo ndi chisangalalo chabwino", ndipo ena onse adzavutika. Ndikutanthauza kuti ndi munthu woipa, wodzikonda komanso wosadzilemekeza. Koma izi zimakhalanso zosangalatsa, ndipo munthu yemwe "mwachisawawa" adanena pa phwando la mkazi wake kuti anali wonenepa, ngati njovu: kuyang'ana kwa thunthu kumakula, kumakhala wochenjera kusiyana ndi alendo omwe sankaseka nthabwala iyi.

Pomalizira, munthu wanzeru, satero, sangalekerere kunena zopusa kapena kunyenga, nthabwala zake ndi zokoma ndipo zimabweretsa chimwemwe kwa onse, zopweteka aliyense.

Chizindikiro cha nkhawa. Nthawi zina zimachitika, munthu woterowo ndikuwona kuti nthabwala zake sizikupezeka, koma sangathe kuima. Iyi ndi vuto lokonzekera. Ndikofunika kuchitira zinthu zoterezo mwachisangalalo, monga munthu yemwe sakondwera kuti azifufuzika, koma samatuluka. Ndipo, ndithudi, musamamvere zinthu zotere: ndiye iyeyo adzachita manyazi.

Kawirikawiri, asayansi akuphatikizapo kusangalala ndi kulenga. Mwinamwake, iwo ali olondola, chifukwa nthabwala zabwino sizomwe zimatuluka ndi bile, koma chilengedwe.

Lolani mu moyo wathu padzakhala nthabwala zabwino zokha, zomwe sizidzapweteka "amoyo", koma zimangobweretsa chimwemwe ndi chimwemwe.