Amati chilengedwe ndi chinthu chachilendo. Koma aliyense ndi momwe iwe umalimbikitsira iwe kuti usawulimbikitse, iwe umakhala mwana, iwe mwamsanga moona mtima ndipo mosakayikira umalimbitsa chidaliro choti khalidwe lake lingathe ndipo liyenera kusinthidwa. Kwa iye mwiniwake. Komabe, zikafika pakuchitapo kanthu, khalidwe lalikulu la chikhalidwe limakhazikika kwambiri. Apa anthu ali ndi zisankho ziwiri: kusiya mwana yekha, ndikuganizira za kukula kwake, kapena kupitiriza "kugwirira," kufotokozera kuuluka kwake, mwana wolakwiridwa, kuti ayenera kukhala wolimba, wolimba mtima, wolimba mtima ngati abambo.
Sitikuti tikuphunzitseni maphunziro a ana, koma tiyambanso nkhani yathu yokhudzana ndi khalidwe la munthu kuyambira pachiyambi.
Makhalidwe a ana
Mwana amabadwa ndi chikhalidwe. Chikhalidwe ndi chimodzi mwa zinthu ziwiri zomwe zimayambira kuyambira masiku oyambirira a moyo mu kuwala koyera, zimafalitsidwa ndi makolo. Koma zikuluzikulu za khalidwe la mwanayo zimakhudzidwanso ndi anthu omwe amakhala nawo:
- kulera;
- chitsanzo cha makolo ndi anthu oyandikana nawo;
- miyambo ndi zikhalidwe zomwe mwana amakula;
- maubwenzi pakati pa anthu ozungulira.
Muyenera kuzindikira kuti mwana wanu sanabadwe wabodza komanso wosokoneza bongo, akhoza kukhala ndi makhalidwe amenewa pokhudzana ndi chibadwa chomwe mwasamutsa, koma ana amaphunzira kunama pamodzi ndi makolo awo.
Chikhalidwe cha makhalidwe amtundu
Pali magulu akulu atatu a makhalidwe:
- kulankhula;
- bizinesi;
- mwachangu.
Ndi zoona kunena, ndi makhalidwe angati omwe munthu sangakwanitse, koma mndandanda wa chiwerengero cha 150 mpaka 500, ndipo zimadalira amene amakhulupirira.
Tiyeni tilembere mbali zazikulu za khalidwe lanu ndi magulu.
Zochita zamalonda zikuwonetsedwa mu gawo la ntchito za anthu:
- ulesi;
- khama;
- kudzipereka;
- kunyalanyaza;
- kusakhulupirika;
- molondola;
- chisamaliro;
- udindo.
Zolankhulirana zimawonetseredwa kudzera mukumverera mu kulankhulana:
- kusadzikonda;
- chisamaliro;
- kukoma;
- kudzichepetsa;
- chokhazikika;
- chisokonezo;
- kukwiya;
- kukwiya.
Makhalidwe enieni amasonyezedwa powonetseredwa kwa mfundo ya munthu:
- chipiriro;
- chidaliro;
- kukondweretsa;
- chipiriro;
- kutsata;
- kusowa chifuniro;
- kusagwirizana.
Ponena za mtundu wa khalidwe, ndiko kuti, magulu a zikhalidwe zina, sayansi imapanga magawo awiri okha: a introvert ndi a extrovert. Zoonadi, palibe 100% oyamba ndi oproverts, chifukwa aliyense wa ife akhoza kukhala ndi makhalidwe omwe amatsutsana.