Kwadziwika kale kuti mawu aliwonse ali ndi mphamvu zake. Chifukwa cha iwo, ubalewu umalimbikitsidwa. Chifukwa zomwe zanenedwa nthawizonse zimasonyeza malingaliro anu. Mawuwo amatha kulimbikitsa zonsezi ndi kuvulaza pamtima wa moyo. Izi zikutsatila kuti pamene muzindikira mau omwe anthu amakonda, simungakwanitse kukwaniritsa munthu wofunayo, komanso kuti muwongole mtima wake.
Tiyeni tiyesere kuzindikira kuti ndi mau otani omwe anthu amawafuna komanso pamene akufunikira kutchulidwa. Kusankhidwa kwa mawu kumadalira momwe mumadziwira mnzanuyo kwa nthawi yaitali bwanji komanso momwe mungadziwire mwaluso khalidwe laumunthu.
Ndi mawu ati oti ndiyankhule kwa munthu?
Mitundu yosiyana ya anthu imachita mwa njira yawo ku mawu omwewo. Tiyeni tione izi mwatsatanetsatane.
- Mtundu wothamanga, wokonzedwa bwino, ndi bwino kutchula mawu mu zochitika za thupi ("rabbit", "pupsichek", etc.). Mutembenukira kwa iye, musamangoganizira za mphamvu zake. Iye sakusowa kukumbutsidwa izi. Amatha kumasula maina okondedwa, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti adzasangalala.
- Ndipo amuna, omwe malingaliro awo amagonjetsa thupi, ndizofunikira kunena mawu omwe angathe kutsindika kulimba mtima kwawo. Mwachitsanzo, tauzeni munthu wotero kuti, pafupi ndi iye, iwe, ngati wina aliyense, umamva wotetezedwa.
- Mudzamvetsetsa mawu omwe ali okondweretsa kunena kwa munthu, pamene mukuyesa kupanga mayina a pet kwa wokondedwa wanu. Kuti muchite izi, lembani zosiyana zonse za dzina lachiwiri pamapepala.
- Kukhudzidwa ndi kufotokozera kumbuyo kwanu kumapereka zizindikiro zosiyana, zolemba (kwambiri, kwambiri, kwambiri).
- Musaiwale za madigiri odziwika bwino (apamwamba). Yang'anani momwe munthu amachitira ndi mawu anu.
- Kutamandidwa kwa amuna onse chikondi. Ndipotu, mayamiko ndi mawu osankhidwa bwino bwino. Osangowonjezera. Musanene kumwamba
mayamiko (mwachitsanzo, "Sindinakayikire kuti m'chilengedwe palibe amene angafanane ndi momwe mukuyendetsa galimoto). Ganizirani za zomwe zanenedwa (mwachitsanzo, njira yabwino kwambiri ikanakhala "Mukuchita ntchito yabwino yolamulira makina, ndikuganiza kuti ngati simunathandizidwe, ndingachedwe ku msonkhano uno"). - Mawu achikondi amatsagana ndi kukhudza. Mwachitsanzo, poyenda mumsewu, gwiranani manja kapena kudya chakudya cham'mawa, kupweteka pamutu pa wokondedwa, kuwonjezera kuti: "Ndiwe wabwino".
Musaiwale kuti mawu okondweretsa onse ayenera kukhala ochepa, kuti asamatsutse munthu wanu.