Mu ubale uliwonse, pangakhale mavuto ndipo osati onse, mwatsoka, nthawi zonse mukhale bata. Nthawi zina zimakhala kuti chifukwa chake wokondedwa akhoza kukhumudwitsidwa ndikudalira chidani chake kapena mwamuna kapena mkazi, mwachitsanzo, atatha kulandira chipsinjo cha maganizo kuchokera ku ubale wapitalo. Pamene mtima uli wodzaza ndi chikondi kwa munthu ndipo ukufuna kuti ukhale ndi iye, m'pofunika kukhala woleza mtima ndikuyesetsa kuti udzikonzekere wekha.
Ngati zikuwoneka kuti dziko likutsutsana ndi inu, tsoka likukonzekeretsanso chinthu china chosautsa chodabwitsa, musataye mtima. Ndipo mulole tsiku lirilonse liwuke ndi lingaliro la momwe mungatsimikizire kwa mnyamata yemwe ndimamukonda ndi mtima wanga wonse, nkofunika kukumbukira nthawi zonse kuti ndikumverera kotereku komwe mukufunikira kumenyana. Apa chinthu chachikulu sikuti tisaleke, kukhulupirira nokha ndi kudziwa kuti, atayesedwa bwino, adzatha kumva ndi kuona umboni wachikondi.
Momwe mungatsimikizirire mnyamata chikondi chake ndi zochita zake?
Umboni wa chikondi chanu, monga lamulo, ndi ntchito ya amuna. Ngakhale nkhani zonse zofalitsa za padziko lapansi zokhudzana ndi njira zosiyana kwambiri zothetsera zochitika mu dzina lakumverera kwakukulu. Komabe, asungwana ambiri amakhumudwa ndi funso la mtundu wanji wotsimikizira mnyamatayo chikondi chake. Koma zonse sizili zovuta, monga zikuwonekera poyamba.
Kupambana pa kusonyeza chikondi kwa mnyamata kumakhala kuwonetsera kolondola kwa malingaliro ake. Chitani mosamala ndi mosamala. Simukuyenera kukhala wovuta kwambiri ndikudziponyera pamutu wa wosankhidwa wanu, ngakhale mutamva kuti chilichonse mkati chimayamba ndi chikondi ndi chilakolako.
Ndikofunika kuyesa kuchita kuti mnyamata atenge bwino pafupi nawe komanso ayenera kukhala munthu wokondweretsa kwa iye. Muyenera kusonyeza chidwi china mu bizinesi yake, zosangalatsa ndi kupambana kuntchito kapena kusukulu. Ziyenera kumupatsa chimwemwe, makamaka nthawi yomwe ali ndi mavuto ambiri omwe ayenera kusokonezedwa.
Tonsefe timakonda kulandira mphatso, koma kuti tisawapatse zosangalatsa. Sikofunika kugula zinthu zamtengo wapatali. Mphatso yaing'ono ingapangidwe mwachindunji, kuganizira zofuna ndi zokonda za wokondedwa. Mwamuna adzakhaladi wosangalatsa kwambiri, ndipo adzayamikira khama la wokondedwa.
Komanso, musaiwale kuti woimira abambo sayenera kukhala ndi njala. Choncho, ngati n'kotheka, ndi bwino kumusangalatsa ndi mbale yokoma.
Poganizira za momwe mungasonyezere kuti mumamukonda, muyenera kukumbukira kuti mtsikana ayenera kukhala woona mtima ndi wokhulupirika. Ali pafupi ndi kumvetsera
Momwe mungatsimikizirire mnyamata chikondi chake ndi mawu?
Kuphatikiza pa zochitika, mawu amathandizanso kuti awonetse chikondi. Ngati chibwenzi ndi mnyamata sichinayambe, koma kwenikweni mukufuna kumuwonetsa maganizo ake , ndi bwino kulankhula naye momveka bwino za momwe zimakhalira zosangalatsa komanso zokondweretsa kulankhula naye, ndikukondwera ndi kumwetulira pamene mukukumana naye. Ndikoyenera kupereka chidwi chapadera pa maganizo anu. Akatswiri a zamaganizo amanena kuti ngati mukukambirana, kuyang'ana m'maso mwa munthu, nenani m'malingaliro "Ndimakukondani", ndiye malingaliro amasintha. Ngakhale kuti interlocutor sadzawona kusintha kulikonse, adzamva bwino kwambiri ndipo amadzimvera chisoni ndi wothandizira.
Kuonjezerapo, musawope kulankhula za chikondi ndikutsatira choyamba. Chifukwa cha zenizeni za malingaliro, amuna samamvetsetsa malingaliro, chifukwa mawu owona sangakhale odabwitsa.