Palibe chiyanjano chabwino, ndipo onse okwatirana ali mu gawo lopera, makamaka pamene ayamba kukhala pamodzi. Tiyeni tione zochitika zomwe nthawi zambiri zimayambitsa mikangano.
Zimakhala zovuta kupeza banja lomwe silikanakhala lovuta kuthana wina ndi mzake pansi pa denga limodzi. Nthawi zambiri mavuto amabwera pachiyambi, chomwe chimatchedwa "lapping". Chifukwa cha kafukufuku, zinkatheka kukhazikitsa zinthu zomwe zimakwiyitsa amuna ndi akazi mu miyoyo yawo palimodzi.
1. Sinthani mosavuta
Ambiri amaona kuti ndi udindo wawo kusintha mnzawo, chifukwa sali wokwanira, wochenjera, wachikondi, wochenjera ndi zina zotero. Koma muwonetseni munthu yemwe amakonda kukakamizidwa ndi kuuzidwa momwe angachitire bwino, koma bwanji. Ndikofunika kuzindikira kuti mumakonda munthu kuti ndi ndani. Mungapereke uphungu ndi uphungu, koma musagwedezeke pansi pa mnzanuyo.
2. Kupitiriza kuwunika
Malinga ndi kafukufuku, chifukwa china chomwe chimagwirizanitsa magawo awiri ndizolamulira zonse. Wokondedwayo akufuna kudziwa za zinthu zing'onozing'ono ndipo amafunsa lipoti la theka la ola limodzi, zonsezi ndi zolemetsa pamapewa ndipo zimayambitsa mkangano. Pali zochitika zomwe kuyesa kulamulira zimasokonezedwa ngati chisamaliro. Mu mkhalidwe umenewu, pali chisankho chimodzi chokha - kukambirana momasuka. Ndikofunika kuti mudziwe za zifukwa za ubale wotere ndikufotokozera kufunika kwa malo. Pamene anthu ali okondwa muukwati, sangakhale ndi chikhumbo chosintha.
3. Ndi bwino kupepesa
Ambiri amagwirizana ndi mfundo yakuti ndibwino kupepesa ngati angathetse vutoli. Chotsatira chake, munthu safuna ngakhale kudziwa chifukwa chake chalakwitsa kuti asakhalenso nacho mtsogolo. Zomwe zimakhumudwitsa kwambiri ndi pamene "kukhululukirana" kuli pafupi ndi "hello." Phunzirani kuyankhula, kufunsa mafunso ndi kumvetsera kwa mnzanuyo. Chifukwa cha izi, n'zotheka kuthetsa vutoli, komanso ndi bwino kudziwa hafu ina.
4. Kusagwirizana kwa ndalama
Chinthu chinanso chomwe chimayambitsa mkangano ndi bajeti yogwirizana, yomwe banjali lingakhale nalo malingaliro osiyana. Mipikisano imagwera m'chikondi, zonse chifukwa cha zazikulu, ndi chifukwa cha kugula pang'ono, ndipo malipoti a ndalama zomwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito angakhale ngati manyazi. Ndi bwino, musanayambe bajeti, kuti mufotokoze chirichonse kuti muthe kupeza njira yowonjezera. Mwachitsanzo, njira ikhoza kukhala motere: aliyense amapereka ndalama zina pa bajeti yonse, ndikusiya zonse kunyumba.
5. Kulimbana ndi bulangeti
Mabanja ambiri amakumana ndi vutoli, pamene mabulangete awiri sali okwanira. Zotsatira zake, kulimbana kosavomerezeka kumayamba kwa iye, ndipo pamapeto pake wina amakhala "wamaliseche." Njira yothetsera vutoli ndi yopanda phindu: Ngati simungapeze bulangeti lalikulu, ndipo mikangano imabuka kawirikawiri, ndiye ingogula aliyense payekha. Izi sizikutanthauza kuti chikondi chadutsa, chidzangokhala bwino.
6. Kuwerengera amatsenga
Izi ndi zoona makamaka kwa amayi omwe pazifukwa zina amatsimikiza kuti mwamuna ayenera kudziwa zokhumba zawo. Pamapeto pake, wina amakhumudwa, ndipo winayo samadziwa zomwe zinachitika, ndipo adakhumudwa. Masewera ozizira a "chete" amachititsa mikangano yambiri. Mfundo yomveka ndi yophweka: kumvetsetsa kuti wokondedwa alibe luso lachidziwitso - kuti adziwe zomwe ziri m'maganizo mwanu, sangakwanitse. Ndi bwino kulankhula momasuka za zilakolako za munthu kuposa kumangokangana.
7. Chilango ndi kugonana
Akatswiri a zamaganizo amanena mobwerezabwereza kuti ndi kulakwitsa kwakukulu kulanga theka lina ndi kukana kugonana. Ngati nthawi zambiri mumagwiritsa ntchito izi, mungathe kukankhira mnzanu kuti mugulitse. Mmodzi sayenera kugonana ndi njira yopeza mphatso kapena zopereka. Choyamba, ndibwino kumvetsetsa kuti ndikofunikira kusiyanitsa pakati pa kugonana ndi kukana pa zifukwa zomveka. Kuti athetse vutoli mumangokhalira kukambirana zachinsinsi.
8. Owl ≠ Skylark
Ndikovuta kwambiri kukhazikitsa moyo kwa anthu awiri omwe anthu ali ndi ziwalo zosiyana zamoyo. Sizingatheke kuti musakhumudwe mukamafuna kugona, ndipo wokondedwayo ali ndi mphamvu zambiri ndipo akufunafuna ulendo, kapena amadzuka m'mawa kwambiri ndikukhala ntchito yamkuntho. Ngati simukufuna kusiya, ndiye kuti mukuyenera kugwira ntchito: muyenera kufufuza, kudziwa nthawi yomwe anthu onse akugwira ntchito, ndikupatsana wina ndi mnzake. Pambuyo pa izi, ayambe pang'onopang'ono kusinthitsa nthawi yogona, ndipo kuchokera kumbali ziwiri, kotero kuti ayambe kukhala osagwirizana. Chifukwa cha tsiku lapadera la ntchito, kudzakhala kotheka kupeza chiyanjano.
9. Mtolo wodikira
Kukhala pamodzi, chifukwa cha zochitika zonse, muyenera kusonkhana pamodzi, koma pano simungakhoze kuchita popanda kuyembekezera. Zomwe zimadziwika bwino kwa amuna ambiri - ndi zochitika zonse zomwe zikudikirira pakhomo la wokondedwa, yemwe sangathe kunyamula nsapato pansi pa diresi kapena pamutu pa chikwama chake. Kukhala chete mumkhalidwe wotere ndi ntchito yovuta, ndipo pamapeto pake zonse zimathera mukumenyana. Pano, ndi amayi okha omwe angathe kuthamanga kwambiri, omwe ayenera kuchita mwamsanga kapena kuyamba kusonkhana kale.
10. Kusasowa malo
Munthu aliyense amafunika "malo ake" komwe munthu angakhale yekha ndiyekha ndikukhalitsa, kulota ndi kutulutsa. Kawirikawiri chikhumbo chimenechi chimayambitsa mikangano, chifukwa wokondedwa sangamvetsetse chifukwa chake theka lachiwiri likufuna kukhala yekha, kodi pangakhale chitonzo? Pofuna kuthetsa mikangano, kukambirana moona mtima n'kofunika, komwe kuli kofunika kufotokozera zilakolako zanu ndi mawu ovuta.
11. Alendo osayembekezeka
Ndikufuna kumasuka pambuyo pa ntchito, kugona pansi kapena kuyang'ana mndandanda wanu wa pa TV, koma mutsegula chitseko, ndipo pali phwando. Zotsatira zake, sikuti madzulo amatha kuwonongedwa, komanso mapiri a mbale zosasamba, zinthu zobalalika komanso firiji yopanda kanthu. Yankho la zinthu zotere ndi losavuta - kuvomereza ndi osankhidwa kuti alendo ayenera kuchenjezedwa pasadakhale.
12. Zofuna zapadera
Anthu akamayamba kukhala pamodzi, zinthu zonse zimawoneka ngati zachilendo, zomwe nthawi zina zimakwiyitsa, wina samafuna wina kuti azitenga mtolo wawo, kapena kumwa mu kapu. Delezhka kwa wanga-wanu sungapangitse chabwino chilichonse, choncho ndibwino kuti aliyense alembetse mndandanda wa zinthu zomwe simukufuna kuzigawana, ndikuzisinthanitsa. Musati mukhudze zinthu izi popanda chilolezo, ndipo funso lidzatsekedwa.
13. Kusamvana ndi achibale atsopano
Kupanga ubwenzi ndi munthu, palibe amene amadziwa mtundu wa achibale omwe ali nawo, komanso ngati zingatheke kukhazikitsa chiyanjano ndi iwo. Anecdotes pa nkhani ya amayi apongozi apongozi ndi apongozi awo ndi aakulu ndipo, mwatsoka, nthawi zina amakhala enieni. Ngati chiyanjano sichiri kugwira ntchito, muyenera kuyang'ana kukangana, koma panthawi imodzimodziyo mulekerere kukhwima ndi zifukwa zopanda chilungamo - osati ayi. Wokondedwa aliyense ayenera kuchita mosiyana ndi achibale ake. Lamulo lina - simukusowa kuuza achibale nthawi ya mikangano, munthu woipa bwanji, chifukwa amachititsa kuti azidana nawo.
14. Kusinthanitsa kwachinsinsi
Malo ochezera a pa Intaneti akhala m'mabuku ambiri a apulo osagwirizana ndipo mwachizolowezi "monga" akhala ofanana ndi chiwembu. Mawu akuti "tiyeni tiwasinthane maphasiwedi" amadziwika kwa ambiri ndipo ali ndi malo oti akhale, kokha ngati ufuluwu sunachitiridwa molakwa, werengani makalata ndi zina zotero. Ndipotu, muyenera kumangosintha zonse kuti pasakhale mavuto. Pazifukwa zovuta, wokondedwayo ayenera kuti alowe mu akaunti kapena kuchotsa ndalama kuchokera ku akaunti, koma chofunika kwambiri ndi chidaliro.
15. Wotchuka nditovuha
Chifukwa chake, chifukwa chaziwirizi zimachoka nthawi zambiri - ndizosawerengeka pazochitika za tsiku ndi tsiku. Mwachitsanzo, mmodzi mwa omwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito popachika zinthu pa mpando, musatseke chubu la mankhwala a mano, musasambe chikho ndi zina zotero. Zonsezi zimakhala chifukwa cha mikangano, chifukwa kuchotsa zizoloŵezi zanu sikophweka. Kuleza mtima ndi zokambirana zokha zidzakuthandizani kuno, ndipo kulira ndi kulimbikira kulimbana kungangowonjezera mkhalidwewo.