Ambiri adamva kuti kusiya mkazi sikophweka ngati kuimitsa mwamuna. Koma chinthu choopsa kwambiri ndi chakuti vuto lachiwerewere lachikazi likufala kwambiri chaka chilichonse. Mwinanso chifaniziro cha mabotolo ndizochititsa kuti chirichonse chikhale cholakwa, ndipo mwinamwake kutchuka kwachidziwitso - atadzitengera iyeyo ndi banja lake, mwamuna wake, ndi ntchito yake, mkazi sangakhoze kuyima ndi kuyamwa chisamaliro chake mowa. Amene amadziwa, koma kudalira mowa mwa amayi ndi atsikana ndi, mwatsoka, zenizeni. Koma choyenera kuchita, momwe mungalekere kumwa mowa mkazi, kodi zingatheke kunyumba kapena kodi chithandizo cha uchidakwa chiyenera kuperekedwa kwa akatswiri?
Kodi mungachiritse bwanji uchidakwa?
Chabwino, ndani mwa ife, wamba wamba, amadziwa kuchiza mowa mwauchidakwa? N'zosatheka kuti katswiri wa zamankhwala ali ndi chidziwitso choterocho. Choncho, ngati zili zokhudzana ndi kudalira kwambiri, kulingalira momwe mungachitire uledzere wamkazi kunyumba kuli osapusa. Ndipotu, kulimbana ndi matendawa sikuphatikizapo (osati kwambiri) kudya kwa mankhwala, komanso kuthandizira maganizo. Katswiri wa zamaganizo yekha angathandize pazinthu izi, ndiye yemwe angamuuze mkazi zomwe akuika pangozi, kusankha kumwa mowa mmalo mwa mwamuna wake ndi ana ake (abwenzi, achibale). Choncho, musayese zovuta, kuyesa kuthetsa vuto lauchidakwa kunyumba, ndibwino kudalira katswiri. Mwa njira, katswiri samangouza mkaziyo momwe angasiyire kumwa, koma achibale ake amapereka malangizo.
Kodi mungachite chiyani ndi chigololo cha akazi?
Ndi kwa mkazi mwiniwakeyo kuti apange chisankho chochotsa vutoli - ngati palibe chikhumbo choti achite, ndiye njira zonse zidzakhala zopanda phindu. Koma mayi yemwe adasuta kusiya kumwa amafunika thandizo ndi chithandizo kuchokera kwa anthu apamtima. Pambuyo pake, n'chifukwa chiyani mkazi amayamba kumwa mowa? Kawirikawiri izi ndizopsinjika zamphamvu, mavuto a m'banja, omwe palibe yemwe anathandiza kuthetsera mkazi, ndipo anayamba kuchoka ku chovuta chowona ndi thandizo la mowa. Koma kawirikawiri mkazi ali ndi chibadwa cholera kwambiri cha amayi, ndipo ngati akunena kuti khalidwe lake limavulaza ana, izi zidzakhala zabwino zowononga uchidakwa. Kawirikawiri, amayi, mutatha kumwa mankhwala kuchipatala, ayambe kumwa mowa chifukwa amabwerera kunyumba ndikuwona vutoli ndi zopanda pake. Ndipo momwe angakonzere vutoli amadziwa kale, pali chochitika - botolo ndi losiyana, ndipo mavuto akuoneka kuti palibe. Choncho, achibale ayenera kuthandiza, osati kutsutsa mkaziyo, koma kumuthandiza. Mulimonsemo mungathe kuchita manyazi, muyenera kukumbukira kuti kumwa mowa ndi matenda aakulu, ndi nkhawa, kudzudzula kungayambitse kuwonongeka kwatsopano. Ndi bwino kutsimikizira mkazi kuti kuchotsa uchidakwa ndiko kupambana kwenikweni, ndipo amulekerere kuti adakwanitsa kulimbana ndi chizolowezi chogonjetsa, chomwe chinali champhamvu kuposa chizolowezi choyipa.
Kuchiza kwauchidakwa chachikazi ndi mankhwala ochiritsira
Nthaŵi zonse, anthu sankadalira mankhwala ovomerezeka, ndipo nzeru zamtunduwu zinasunga malamulo oletsa "zilonda" zambiri. Kotero, mowa mwauchidakwa, amadziwa momwe angamenyane. Koma popeza ndife anthu otukuka, tiyenera kukumbukira kuti njira ya agogo ayenera kuyamba kuvomerezedwa ndi dokotala, ndipo pokhapokha tigwiritsire ntchito mchitidwe.
- Pomwe munthu amamwa mankhwala osokoneza bongo ngati mankhwala othandizira kumwa mowa amathandizidwa kumwa zakumwa za zitsamba zomwe zimachepetsa chilakolako cha mowa. Maluso oterewa ali ndi golidi-zikwi zikwi, zowamba zokwawa, angelica, chitsamba chowawa ndi Wort St. John's Wort. Kuwagwedeza ayenera kukhala monga momwe akuwonetsedwera pamatumba ndi zakumwa mmalo mwa tiyi.
- Mu anthu amakhalanso antialcoholic aromatherapy. Ndikofunika kukonkha nkhuni zambiri mwa shuga ndikuzisiya. Wodwalayo ayenera kupuma utsi ku mafuta. Anthu ochiritsa amatsenga amanena kuti zotsatira zosasangalatsa zimabwera pambuyo pa galasi loyamba la mowa, zomwe zimawathandiza kukana mowa m'tsogolomu.