Kaŵirikaŵiri anthu amasokoneza lingaliro la kuwonongeka ndi kugwa. Lapel - imathamangira mofulumira ndipo imawombera mwamphamvu. Izi zikutanthawuza kuti anthu omwe atembenuzidwa pa lapulo amangopezerana chidwi ndikusiya kulankhula. Ndipo kuonongeka kwa ubale kumakhala ndi chikhalidwe chozama kwambiri.
Kodi kuwononga maubwenzi ndi chiyani?
Kuwonongeka kotere kumabweretsa mikangano, zoopsa, mikangano, kusamvana. Cholinga, cha yemwe anawononga, kuti banja loyambirirako likudana wina ndi mzake kamodzi.
Ziphuphu zingathe kukhazikitsidwa pa ubale wa banja, ndiye, monga lamulo, "wogula" wake ndi wokondedwa kapena womusiya mnzawo wa okwatirana, kapena wokondedwa (yemwe amamukonda), yemwe akufuna kukhala "ololedwa." Kuphatikizanso, kuwononga koteroko kumabweretsa achibale (makamaka pankhani ya cholowa) kapena ogwira nawo ntchito ndi mabwenzi awo.
Zizindikiro za kuwonongeka
Chizindikiro choyamba cha kuwonongeka kwa ubale - apa ndi pamene chidani chimachokera. Kumvetsetsa bwino kwatayika mu kamphindi, ndipo ngati mutaganizira zomwe zinachitikadi, palibe aliyense amene akutsutsana naye adzalongosola momveka bwino.
Kuonjezerapo, kuwonongeka kungayende kumadera osiyanasiyana a moyo. Izi zikutanthauza kuti pangakhale kusamvetsetsana maganizo, ndipo chikoka chogonana chimatha.
Pali njira imodzi yosavuta yodziwira kupezeka kwa kugonana: ziribe kanthu kuti mkangano ndi wolimba bwanji, mwamsanga pamene maganizo ndi mkwiyo watha, anthu amayesa kugwirizanitsa. Ndipo ngati chiwonongekocho, banjali sichifuna kuima, komafunanso zifukwa zatsopano zotsutsana.
Othandizana ali ndi kusintha kwakukulu mu zokonda zawo za chakudya, zakumwa, ndi nthawi yopuma. Pali chilakolako cha mowa, mkwiyo umalowa m'malo ena onse.
Kawirikawiri, omwe amavutika ndi maloto odetsa maloto opweteka, maloto, ndi zofananako pali ulesi wosalephereka , womwe umakhala ngati wagona nthawi yaitali.
Ziphuphu zimayamba kuchita mwamsanga chitsogozo. Iye akuyenda mofulumira kwambiri, ndipo simudzakhala ndi nthawi yoti mudzutse, pamene mukulemba chisankho. Ngati mukumva kuti mphamvu yachisanu ndi chiwiri ndi yolakwika, ndi bwino kutembenukira kwa wolosera zamatsenga.