Masiku angapo asanafike kusamba, pafupifupi amayi onse amasintha thupi, komabe, malingana ndi makhalidwe a thupi, kusintha kumeneku ndi kosiyana kwa aliyense. Ena amafunadi zokoma, wina ali ndi chilakolako , wina ayamba kupweteka m'munsi kumbuyo kapena kuchepetsa mimba, ndipo asungwana ena asanathe kugonana.
Nchifukwa chiyani mukufuna kugonana musanapite kusamba?
Thupi la mkazi limakhala losangalatsa komanso losiyana kwambiri ndi lachimuna. Pano, chilengedwe chimasewera, chiwerewere asanakumane ndi "ntchito" ya mahomoni, makamaka thupi lopuma, lomwe limatulutsa mahomoni ochuluka kuposa nthawi zina pafupi masabata awiri tsiku lovuta. Ndicho chifukwa chake sabata isanayambike kuyamba kusamba kungakhale chilakolako chosasunthika cha chikondi.
Kukopa pa chiwerewere kumakhudzanso mavenda. Zoonadi, zochitikazi zimachitika mwa aliyense mosiyana, wina pakati pa ulendo, wina pachiyambi, ndi wina pamapeto, ndiye chifukwa chake mumatha kugonana kwambiri musanayambe mwezi uliwonse komanso pambuyo pa msambo. Kotero mkaziyo anakonza chikhalidwechi, panthawi ya chivundikiro chibadwa cha kubala chimayamba kugwira ntchito.
Komabe, zimachitika kuti, mosiyana, ndi sabata imodzi musanayambe kugonana pamwezi sichifuna, izi ndizomveka. Kawirikawiri pa sabata musanayambe kusamba, mkazi amayamba, otchedwa, PMS. Mwinamwake, pafupifupi nthumwi iliyonse yofooka yaumuna imadziwa ichi. Ululu m'mimba m'munsi ndi m'munsi kumbuyo, kukhumudwa, kukhudzidwa, kukhumudwa, kugona, kusasamala , ndithudi, pamene mkazi mudziko lino, kugonana, ndiye chinthu chomaliza chimene angaganizire. Nthawi zina, simukufuna kuti muwone aliyense, simukufuna kuchita chirichonse, koma chokhumba ndi chimodzi, kukwera pansi pa bulangeti, kotero kuti wina asokoneze kapena asokonezeke.