Munthu aliyense amadzikonda yekha, ngakhale pali ena amene amadziyesa okha kukhala gulu la altruists, kukana maonekedwe awo odzikonda m'zochita zawo. Koma ndizofunikira kudziwa kuti kudzikonda ndi kosavuta komanso kosamveka. Tiyeni tione mwatsatanetsatane mtundu woyamba.
Chiphunzitso cha kulingalira kwa egoism
Ngati kulankhula mwa sayansi, ndiye mtundu uwu wa egoism ndi mawu omwe amatsimikizira munthu aliyense kukhala patsogolo pa zofuna zawo pa zofuna za anthu kapena umunthu wina. Kuti timvetse bwino, tiyeni tione mfundo imeneyi ndi chitsanzo cha mkazi yemwe anaponyedwa ndi wokonda.
Kotero, amabwera kudzamuwona katswiri wa zamaganizo ndipo ali kumayambiriro koyamba akudzifunsa yekha: "Zomwe muyenera kuchita mukazindikira kuti munthu sanakuchitireni mwaufulu, mumamvetsa ndi malingaliro anu kuti panalibe chikondi, ndipo zimapweteka moyo wanu Yankho lake ndi losavuta: kuika mu mtima mwanu ntchito yodzikonda, ndiko kuti, m'malo momvetsa chisoni ndikulira ndi kilogalamu yanu, muyenera kukumbukira wokondedwa wanu. chinenero chachilendo, sungani zovala zanu, osati kutseka pomwe panthawi yomweyi kuchokera kuyankhulana ndi ena.
Choncho, ndikofunika kuzindikira kuti mfundo yeniyeni yokhudzana ndi umulungu ndi chinthu chofanana ndi golidi pakati pa kudzikonda ndi kudzikonda .
Mkazi akakhala ndi chidziwitso chodziwikiratu kuchokera kumasiku oyambirira achidziwitso ndi wosankhidwa wake, amamuthandiza kuzindikira kuti ali ndi udindo woterewu pamene mkaziyo amakondweretsa kuvomereza chisangalalo chake mwaukwati.
Ndikofunika kukumbukira kuti muyenera kulola munthu kuti asamalire inu. Nthawi zina nthawi zina mumalephera komanso muteteze. Phatikizani kudzikonda. Poyanjana ndi amphamvu a dzikoli, chiphunzitso ichi chiyenera kutsogozedwa. Muzidzikonda kwambiri kuposa mnzanuyo. Wokondedwa wanu adzakukondani ndi chikondi cholimba, pamene mudzasonyeza chikondi choterocho.